Had a very interesting convo about cheating last night

[zombie]

Half the people saying they wouldn't cheat have cheated in the past.

Statistics point to more than half of men and women cheating.

Yes, you can say what you like but I don't deny science or human nature so you can "say" whatever you like.

That's not to "say" you WILL cheat but saying there is no possibility is highly naive imo.

I've had plenty of women "say" they didn't suck dick back when I was single I'm fairly sure you can figure out how all those situations ended.

Men cheat but it's a fucking lie to say we can't help it or that it's our "nature" humans are not base animals

when we cheat it's because we want too not because there were so many willing and ready pussies just grabbing at us that we can't help it. There is no possibility that i will do something i don't want too with my body.

This is true in theory, but dick and pussy don't have a mind.

I see to many niggaz with baby mamas they are no longer with and screaming that ebrc shit to think otherwise.

I'm fairly sure you've done plenty of things you've later regretted with your body and I'm not necessarily talking about sex when I say that either.

Seen plenty of other people do things they said they'd never do under the right circumstances.

A thirsty man will drink dirty water.

everything that i've done in my life that i have regretted i chose to do and i did not give any excuses for it.

 

[Crude_]

women will respect you more if you are open about your sexual desire to sleep with other women, but if you are on some sneaky hide shit then you are playing her for a fool. when you cheat on the basis of not being able to control yourself you have effectively dishonored yourself and your wife

number 1 you have made yourself into a animal who can't control himself and number 2 you are going to make your girl feel that that other bitch is better than her now she has to worry about you leaving her but if you kept it real with her her mind would be more at ease.

And you know how some women are, the outside bitch will see your girl in the street and say something, girls are grimey like that.

I actually agree with the bolded.

As far as women respecting you being honest more that doesn't really hold true.

Most will be offended that you even came at them like that, and still think you ain't shit.

I've been the liar and the honest man to in years past.

All the truth does is make it harder from them to throw shit in your face later provided they make the choice to deal with you and you also don't have to sneak around as much.

I never cheated on my wife, but I had my fun in the years prior to meeting her and I can tell you that truth shit doesn't always set you free a lot of times it does nothing but complicate the situation more.

Depending on the situation sometimes it's better to keep certain things to yourself.

 

[a.mann]

If I didn't think I could control myself, I damn sure wouldn't get married regardless of my financial status.

Anytime motherfuckers to emphasize financial status ad a reason or excuse

I think they may just have underline self-esteem issues

If its in your heart to cheat....you are going to cheat

Whether you have 200 bucks or 200 hundred thou in your bank account

All money does is give you better "opportunities" to do it

I'll even say the dope gives you more control to set up the circumstances for you to cheat

 

[a.mann]

Yeah

The heart for it,the will and circumstance/opportunity is why a person cheats

Money,power and status in life has little to nothing to do with it other the last thing listed

 

[2stepz_ahead]

i keep alot of shit to myself because i know my wife cant handle it. and i know i cant handle her reaction.

i am honest with myself to say that i tell enough truths to be able to lie when needed.

the truth is very overrated.

i told my wife once about a chick in the DR that kept coming at my neck. i felt i should tell her so when she comes she wont be caught off guard. well next trip she stepped to the chick ready to fight. she should not have done that because i could handle it but i was trying to be honest. it only made the chick come at me harder and made my wife question my whereabouts more when im in the DR cause she know the chick is lurking. now if i didnt tell her, she would not have stepped to the chick nor would she have known. but then i'd be kinda lying but it would be peaceful but look crazy when the chick appeared and kept appearing. this is a situation where the truth hurt me more than it set me free.

but she also said she knows that bitch might break me down one day...just dont let her find out about it.

now before yall say it...i have to work with this woman...an to say dont put yourself in situations...how can you not put yourself in situations when someone is trying to make moves on you?

think about how many times you kept trying to get at a chick that wasnt interested. she may have made it know and made herself somewhat unavailable but did it always stop you?

 

[Rasta.]

Yeah

The heart for it,the will and circumstance/opportunity is why a person cheats

Money,power and status in life has little to nothing to do with it other the last thing listed

Don't know why he harped on the finances part to make a point, perhaps trying to say there are more and better options available? Meh, i've seen rich niggas and broke niggas go punting in Sosua, Medellin and Cartagena. You don't need money to have options especially pussy.

 

[Arya Tsaddiq]

i keep alot of shit to myself because i know my wife cant handle it. and i know i cant handle her reaction.

i am honest with myself to say that i tell enough truths to be able to lie when needed.

the truth is very overrated.

i told my wife once about a chick in the DR that kept coming at my neck. i felt i should tell her so when she comes she wont be caught off guard. well next trip she stepped to the chick ready to fight. she should not have done that because i could handle it but i was trying to be honest. it only made the chick come at me harder and made my wife question my whereabouts more when im in the DR cause she know the chick is lurking. now if i didnt tell her, she would not have stepped to the chick nor would she have known. but then i'd be kinda lying but it would be peaceful but look crazy when the chick appeared and kept appearing. this is a situation where the truth hurt me more than it set me free.

but she also said she knows that bitch might break me down one day...just dont let her find out about it.

now before yall say it...i have to work with this woman...an to say dont put yourself in situations...how can you not put yourself in situations when someone is trying to make moves on you?

think about how many times you kept trying to get at a chick that wasnt interested. she may have made it know and made herself somewhat unavailable but did it always stop you?

Who showed interest first? Or how did it become obvious to both parties that there was sexual attraction? Who initiated?

have you been adament about not.messing with her? Or do you say "im good" with a smile on your face and still flirt and compliment her?

 

[2stepz_ahead]

Yeah

The heart for it,the will and circumstance/opportunity is why a person cheats

Money,power and status in life has little to nothing to do with it other the last thing listed

Don't know why he harped on the finances part to make a point, perhaps trying to say there are more and better options available? Meh, i've seen rich niggas and broke niggas go punting in Sosua, Medellin and Cartagena. You don't need money to have options especially pussy.

lets not act it doesnt play a part.

poor and rich dudes do cheat....but the poor dude has options to a limit the rich dude has options and access the poor dude doesnt.

do you really think the sterling dude was beating the guts up of those thots he was with?

do you think most athletes would get a second look from chicks if they wasnt who they were?

why do niggas make it rain in clubs? to impress the chicks

 

[zombie]

women will respect you more if you are open about your sexual desire to sleep with other women, but if you are on some sneaky hide shit then you are playing her for a fool. when you cheat on the basis of not being able to control yourself you have effectively dishonored yourself and your wife

number 1 you have made yourself into a animal who can't control himself and number 2 you are going to make your girl feel that that other bitch is better than her now she has to worry about you leaving her but if you kept it real with her her mind would be more at ease.

And you know how some women are, the outside bitch will see your girl in the street and say something, girls are grimey like that.

I actually agree with the bolded.

As far as women respecting you being honest more that doesn't really hold true.

Most will be offended that you even came at them like that, and still think you ain't shit.

I've been the liar and the honest man to in years past.

All the truth does is make it harder from them to throw shit in your face later provided they make the choice to deal with you and you also don't have to sneak around as much.

I never cheated on my wife, but I had my fun in the years prior to meeting her and I can tell you that truth shit doesn't always set you free a lot of times it does nothing but complicate the situation more.

Depending on the situation sometimes it's better to keep certain things to yourself.

it's better to tell the truth and have them accept it or not, if they do then they chances are everyone could be happy if they don't then maybe you two going apart may be the best thing for everyone involved.

i want to enjoy life boldly and the relationships i have i live boldly, if i had to lie and sneak just to fuck another women what would be the sense in that where is the fun?? chances are my girl will find out and i rather not hurt her like that, it'll hurt anyway but the possible fall out is worse if I lie. what if the girl you cheat with gives you an std or gets pregnant??

think about how that's going to fuck your life up, it seems clear to me that the truth is the lesser of two evils.

 

[2stepz_ahead]

most of you niggas on here obtain shit to impress chicks and to stand out from regular dudes. to do what...get the attention of chicks.

 

[dwade206]

i never understood why niggas cheat. I'm a grown ass man and i'll be damned if i'm sneaking round to do some shit for fear of a woman getting pissy with me and possibly leaving? if the bitch is worth you stepping out, then she must be worth having, but that's just my logic.

now in this situation, seeing the fact that she was good enough to marry in the first place and been there when a nigga had nothing? fuck them other hoes. i could never see myself shitting on somebody that was faithful. that woman is continuity and a focal point of who you are and where you came, and has the ability to keep you grounded. 9/10 it's all about the chase, the power trip. once you get the pussy it ain't even fun no more.

Ain't nothing else to say after that.

 

[Rasta.]

Yeah

The heart for it,the will and circumstance/opportunity is why a person cheats

Money,power and status in life has little to nothing to do with it other the last thing listed

Don't know why he harped on the finances part to make a point, perhaps trying to say there are more and better options available? Meh, i've seen rich niggas and broke niggas go punting in Sosua, Medellin and Cartagena. You don't need money to have options especially pussy.

lets not act it doesnt play a part.

poor and rich dudes do cheat....but the poor dude has options to a limit the rich dude has options and access the poor dude doesnt.

do you really think the sterling dude was beating the guts up of those thots he was with?

do you think most athletes would get a second look from chicks if they wasnt who they were?

why do niggas make it rain in clubs? to impress the chicks

Probably not beating the guts (probably using her as part of his BDSM)

You can get pussy with charisma and some pay because they can't approach

I've made it rain before and it wasn't to impress no chicks...next you gon say, you drive fast cars to attract chicks

Point being, it ain't necessitated as your opening post alluded to....Same pussy you can get with ya millions, i could get with charisma or if chick feels like giving it up

 

[2stepz_ahead]

women will respect you more if you are open about your sexual desire to sleep with other women, but if you are on some sneaky hide shit then you are playing her for a fool. when you cheat on the basis of not being able to control yourself you have effectively dishonored yourself and your wife

number 1 you have made yourself into a animal who can't control himself and number 2 you are going to make your girl feel that that other bitch is better than her now she has to worry about you leaving her but if you kept it real with her her mind would be more at ease.

And you know how some women are, the outside bitch will see your girl in the street and say something, girls are grimey like that.

I actually agree with the bolded.

As far as women respecting you being honest more that doesn't really hold true.

Most will be offended that you even came at them like that, and still think you ain't shit.

I've been the liar and the honest man to in years past.

All the truth does is make it harder from them to throw shit in your face later provided they make the choice to deal with you and you also don't have to sneak around as much.

I never cheated on my wife, but I had my fun in the years prior to meeting her and I can tell you that truth shit doesn't always set you free a lot of times it does nothing but complicate the situation more.

Depending on the situation sometimes it's better to keep certain things to yourself.

it's better to tell the truth and have them accept it or not, if they do then they chances are everyone could be happy if they don't then maybe you two going apart may be the best thing for everyone involved.

i want to enjoy life boldly and the relationships i have i live boldly if i had to lie and sneak just to fuck another women what would be the sense in that?? chances are my girl will find out and i rather not hurt her like that, it'll hurt anyway but the possible fall out if worse if you lie. what if the girl you cheat with gives you an std or gets pregnant??

think about how that's going to fuck your life up, it seems clear to me that the truth is the lesser of two evils.

women will respect you more if you are open about your sexual desire to sleep with other women, but if you are on some sneaky hide shit then you are playing her for a fool. when you cheat on the basis of not being able to control yourself you have effectively dishonored yourself and your wife

number 1 you have made yourself into a animal who can't control himself and number 2 you are going to make your girl feel that that other bitch is better than her now she has to worry about you leaving her but if you kept it real with her her mind would be more at ease.

And you know how some women are, the outside bitch will see your girl in the street and say something, girls are grimey like that.

I actually agree with the bolded.

As far as women respecting you being honest more that doesn't really hold true.

Most will be offended that you even came at them like that, and still think you ain't shit.

I've been the liar and the honest man to in years past.

All the truth does is make it harder from them to throw shit in your face later provided they make the choice to deal with you and you also don't have to sneak around as much.

I never cheated on my wife, but I had my fun in the years prior to meeting her and I can tell you that truth shit doesn't always set you free a lot of times it does nothing but complicate the situation more.

Depending on the situation sometimes it's better to keep certain things to yourself.

it's better to tell the truth and have them accept it or not, if they do then they chances are everyone could be happy if they don't then maybe you two going apart may be the best thing for everyone involved.

i want to enjoy life boldly and the relationships i have i live boldly, if i had to lie and sneak just to fuck another women what would be the sense in that where is the fun?? chances are my girl will find out and i rather not hurt her like that, it'll hurt anyway but the possible fall out if worse if I lie. what if the girl you cheat with gives you an std or gets pregnant??

think about how that's going to fuck your life up, it seems clear to me that the truth is the lesser of two evils.

naw bruh....the only thing that helped me out was not fukkin her. the truth added stress.

i keep alot of shit to myself because i know my wife cant handle it. and i know i cant handle her reaction.

i am honest with myself to say that i tell enough truths to be able to lie when needed.

the truth is very overrated.

i told my wife once about a chick in the DR that kept coming at my neck. i felt i should tell her so when she comes she wont be caught off guard. well next trip she stepped to the chick ready to fight. she should not have done that because i could handle it but i was trying to be honest. it only made the chick come at me harder and made my wife question my whereabouts more when im in the DR cause she know the chick is lurking. now if i didnt tell her, she would not have stepped to the chick nor would she have known. but then i'd be kinda lying but it would be peaceful but look crazy when the chick appeared and kept appearing. this is a situation where the truth hurt me more than it set me free.

but she also said she knows that bitch might break me down one day...just dont let her find out about it.

now before yall say it...i have to work with this woman...an to say dont put yourself in situations...how can you not put yourself in situations when someone is trying to make moves on you?

think about how many times you kept trying to get at a chick that wasnt interested. she may have made it know and made herself somewhat unavailable but did it always stop you?

Who showed interest first? Or how did it become obvious to both parties that there was sexual attraction? Who initiated?

have you been adament about not.messing with her? Or do you say "im good" with a smile on your face and still flirt and compliment her?

i am a natural flirt. i will flirt with any chick and my wife knows this and uses it to her advantage. but that doesnt always mean im trying to fukk...its like a second language to me. i just like to make chicks smile. thats my thing. my wife claims i flirt in front of her and i dont even know when i do it half the time.

anyway..she showed interest first,

 

[The Lonious Monk]

Celebrity dudes can have 9s and 10s whenever they want without trying. No man can deal with that type of temptation forever without faltering. Any chick trying to marry a dude like that needs to understand that.

 

[topoftheworld]

Idk.. I can see how it could be difficult but I figure if you just got that one down ass chick that is the prototype of what you seek in a woman, physically mentally and emotionally, then why go behind that?

you do know shit changes over time right?

not everyone is the same person they once was

you took the words right out of my mouth.

 

[2stepz_ahead]

Celebrity dudes can have 9s and 10s whenever they want without trying. No man can deal with that type of temptation forever without faltering. Any chick trying to marry a dude like that needs to understand that.

this is what im trying to say.

i would have to try to pull pussy and might have to date a chick for a week or so...when niggas like lebron can pull the bitch right from the stands.

 

[stilldat_dude]

While I understand where you trying to go this sound like some weak nigga shit (yeah I can do it...NIGGA I'M CURRENTLY DOING IT LOL)...you know how many students and parents done came at me...i turn them bitches down all the time and don't think twice about it afterwards. If a nigga aint go self control then he ain't much of a man in my eyes....maybe some of you niggas just aint had enough pussy yet because the only niggas I know who value pussy are the niggas who dont get it regularly. Why you niggas look at pussy/bitches like that is beyond me but I sho have fun laughing at these silly stories so carry on lol

 

[Arya Tsaddiq]

women will respect you more if you are open about your sexual desire to sleep with other women, but if you are on some sneaky hide shit then you are playing her for a fool. when you cheat on the basis of not being able to control yourself you have effectively dishonored yourself and your wife

number 1 you have made yourself into a animal who can't control himself and number 2 you are going to make your girl feel that that other bitch is better than her now she has to worry about you leaving her but if you kept it real with her her mind would be more at ease.

And you know how some women are, the outside bitch will see your girl in the street and say something, girls are grimey like that.

I actually agree with the bolded.

As far as women respecting you being honest more that doesn't really hold true.

Most will be offended that you even came at them like that, and still think you ain't shit.

I've been the liar and the honest man to in years past.

All the truth does is make it harder from them to throw shit in your face later provided they make the choice to deal with you and you also don't have to sneak around as much.

I never cheated on my wife, but I had my fun in the years prior to meeting her and I can tell you that truth shit doesn't always set you free a lot of times it does nothing but complicate the situation more.

Depending on the situation sometimes it's better to keep certain things to yourself.

it's better to tell the truth and have them accept it or not, if they do then they chances are everyone could be happy if they don't then maybe you two going apart may be the best thing for everyone involved.

i want to enjoy life boldly and the relationships i have i live boldly if i had to lie and sneak just to fuck another women what would be the sense in that?? chances are my girl will find out and i rather not hurt her like that, it'll hurt anyway but the possible fall out if worse if you lie. what if the girl you cheat with gives you an std or gets pregnant??

think about how that's going to fuck your life up, it seems clear to me that the truth is the lesser of two evils.

women will respect you more if you are open about your sexual desire to sleep with other women, but if you are on some sneaky hide shit then you are playing her for a fool. when you cheat on the basis of not being able to control yourself you have effectively dishonored yourself and your wife

number 1 you have made yourself into a animal who can't control himself and number 2 you are going to make your girl feel that that other bitch is better than her now she has to worry about you leaving her but if you kept it real with her her mind would be more at ease.

And you know how some women are, the outside bitch will see your girl in the street and say something, girls are grimey like that.

I actually agree with the bolded.

As far as women respecting you being honest more that doesn't really hold true.

Most will be offended that you even came at them like that, and still think you ain't shit.

I've been the liar and the honest man to in years past.

All the truth does is make it harder from them to throw shit in your face later provided they make the choice to deal with you and you also don't have to sneak around as much.

I never cheated on my wife, but I had my fun in the years prior to meeting her and I can tell you that truth shit doesn't always set you free a lot of times it does nothing but complicate the situation more.

Depending on the situation sometimes it's better to keep certain things to yourself.

it's better to tell the truth and have them accept it or not, if they do then they chances are everyone could be happy if they don't then maybe you two going apart may be the best thing for everyone involved.

i want to enjoy life boldly and the relationships i have i live boldly, if i had to lie and sneak just to fuck another women what would be the sense in that where is the fun?? chances are my girl will find out and i rather not hurt her like that, it'll hurt anyway but the possible fall out if worse if I lie. what if the girl you cheat with gives you an std or gets pregnant??

think about how that's going to fuck your life up, it seems clear to me that the truth is the lesser of two evils.

naw bruh....the only thing that helped me out was not fukkin her. the truth added stress.

i keep alot of shit to myself because i know my wife cant handle it. and i know i cant handle her reaction.

i am honest with myself to say that i tell enough truths to be able to lie when needed.

the truth is very overrated.

i told my wife once about a chick in the DR that kept coming at my neck. i felt i should tell her so when she comes she wont be caught off guard. well next trip she stepped to the chick ready to fight. she should not have done that because i could handle it but i was trying to be honest. it only made the chick come at me harder and made my wife question my whereabouts more when im in the DR cause she know the chick is lurking. now if i didnt tell her, she would not have stepped to the chick nor would she have known. but then i'd be kinda lying but it would be peaceful but look crazy when the chick appeared and kept appearing. this is a situation where the truth hurt me more than it set me free.

but she also said she knows that bitch might break me down one day...just dont let her find out about it.

now before yall say it...i have to work with this woman...an to say dont put yourself in situations...how can you not put yourself in situations when someone is trying to make moves on you?

think about how many times you kept trying to get at a chick that wasnt interested. she may have made it know and made herself somewhat unavailable but did it always stop you?

Who showed interest first? Or how did it become obvious to both parties that there was sexual attraction? Who initiated?

have you been adament about not.messing with her? Or do you say "im good" with a smile on your face and still flirt and compliment her?

i am a natural flirt. i will flirt with any chick and my wife knows this and uses it to her advantage. but that doesnt always mean im trying to fukk...its like a second language to me. i just like to make chicks smile. thats my thing. my wife claims i flirt in front of her and i dont even know when i do it half the time.

anyway..she showed interest first,

And when you realized she was coming on to you, what was your response?

 

[2stepz_ahead]

While I understand where you trying to go this sound like some weak nigga shit (yeah I can do it...NIGGA I'M CURRENTLY DOING IT LOL)...you know how many students and parents done came at me...i turn them bitches down all the time and don't think twice about it afterwards. If a nigga aint go self control then he ain't much of a man in my eyes....maybe some of you niggas just aint had enough pussy yet because the only niggas I know who value pussy are the niggas who dont get it regularly. Why you niggas look at pussy/bitches like that is beyond me but I sho have fun laughing at these silly stories so carry on lol

that is a powerful statement you just made.

everyone has a vice or a weakness. every/any man can lose control. its not always about pussy.

and to say you turning away students and teachers.....really. i dont think you even understand what i am trying to say....right now you still speaking on a regular nigga level who aint been in the situation im trying to create. to compare teachers and students to chick that would be 9s and 10s on a global level is crazy.

dont act like a chick wasnt persistent in coming at you no matter what you said. so thats weak nigga shit because a chick coming at you now? i guess times are changing.

 

[stilldat_dude]

While I understand where you trying to go this sound like some weak nigga shit (yeah I can do it...NIGGA I'M CURRENTLY DOING IT LOL)...you know how many students and parents done came at me...i turn them bitches down all the time and don't think twice about it afterwards. If a nigga aint go self control then he ain't much of a man in my eyes....maybe some of you niggas just aint had enough pussy yet because the only niggas I know who value pussy are the niggas who dont get it regularly. Why you niggas look at pussy/bitches like that is beyond me but I sho have fun laughing at these silly stories so carry on lol

that is a powerful statement you just made.

everyone has a vice or a weakness. every/any man can lose control. its not always about pussy.

and to say you turning away students and teachers.....really. i dont think you even understand what i am trying to say....right now you still speaking on a regular nigga level who aint been in the situation im trying to create. to compare teachers and students to chick that would be 9s and 10s on a global level is crazy.

dont act like a chick wasnt persistent in coming at you no matter what you said. so thats weak nigga shit because a chick coming at you now? i guess times are changing.

you too smart to say some dumb shit like the bolded (you one of the few people on here I actually think are intelligent don't let me down nigga lol). You a weak nigga if you can't CONTROL YOURSELF PERIOD. Sure everyone has vices (i smoke like a CHIMNEY but that shit dont control me ie losing jobs, late, fired,etc, I LOVE big titties but don't none of that shit control)...I'm suppose to fall for a bitches cause she light, pretty, phat, paid, etc...LMAOOOO i'm sorry but that is hilarious to me because thats some weak shit. But like i said if a nigga aint use to it then I understand but thank god I aint one of them niggas. I worked at Howard University for over 5 years...i done seen the baddest bitches on the east coast pretty much that shit is nothing to me..hell i done seen it so much that when I see a bad bitch I dont even do double takes no more (they just women to me at this point). Niggas need to start having some self worth in life.