Had a very interesting convo about cheating last night

[Billy_Poncho]

Pralims is one of those niggas that asks a question and tells you what your answer needs to be. My girl be doin that shit...

 

[Dupac]

a lot of it is also ego...we all fancy ourselves to be interesting people....

and the reality is that a lotta woman are attracted to status, not the actual individual......

i think that's the trap in many occassions

 

[mryounggun]

there are lots of men with money who don't cheat, once they are actually committed some people value family above pussy. If you want to avoid gold diggers just don't put yourself out there like that. Unless you are famous bitches are not throwing pussy at you like that, cause they don't know what your bank account like so lets be real fellas. YOU CAN tell these bitches to back the fuck off if you really want too.

alot men be like " i had too many bitches coming at me, too many options they seduced me" when in reality the bitch ain't seduce you, you let yourself be seduced because you wanted to fuck and did not want to admit it to yourself.

True story. Stop it with that, 'I couldn't help it! These bitches was just throwing pussy at me!'. As if you weren't willing to catch it. You wanted to fuck, you got the chance and you weren't disciplined enough to turn it down.

I agree with a lot of the shit Du talking about too. Once you decide you ain't cheating, breaking down and smashing another women is a sign of weakness.

Another reason I wouldn't cheat is because there are few things more satisfying in life than turning down a dime who is throwing pussy at you. They be confused as shit, like they can't fathom a nigga not giving in and turning them down. I've had that happen twice in my life so I can only imagine how often it would happen if I was a rich nigga.

 

[VulcanRaven]

there are lots of men with money who don't cheat, once they are actually committed some people value family above pussy. If you want to avoid gold diggers just don't put yourself out there like that. Unless you are famous bitches are not throwing pussy at you like that, cause they don't know what your bank account like so lets be real fellas. YOU CAN tell these bitches to back the fuck off if you really want too.

alot men be like " i had too many bitches coming at me, too many options they seduced me" when in reality the bitch ain't seduce you, you let yourself be seduced because you wanted to fuck and did not want to admit it to yourself.

Not all the women are gold diggers.You have lawyers, doctors, executives and corporate chicks who men have access to that they can cheat with.It could be a fine ass co worker or business partner.It happens often.

 

[Arya Tsaddiq]

there are lots of men with money who don't cheat, once they are actually committed some people value family above pussy. If you want to avoid gold diggers just don't put yourself out there like that. Unless you are famous bitches are not throwing pussy at you like that, cause they don't know what your bank account like so lets be real fellas. YOU CAN tell these bitches to back the fuck off if you really want too.

alot men be like " i had too many bitches coming at me, too many options they seduced me" when in reality the bitch ain't seduce you, you let yourself be seduced because you wanted to fuck and did not want to admit it to yourself.

This...

But this goes back to personal accountability and not wanting to accept responsibility for anything negative. Like Zombie said, you can easily tell a women your not interested and your married/taken. And if they keep pursuing that should be a red flag anyway. Why would you want to deal with a woman with such low moral standards? Thats a character flaw and is unattractive in my book. But yall keep ignoring the fact that you have control....

 

[Chi Snow]

define cheating

 

[Crude_]

Half the people saying they wouldn't cheat have cheated in the past.

Statistics point to more than half of men and women cheating.

Yes, you can say what you like but I don't deny science or human nature so you can "say" whatever you like.

That's not to "say" you WILL cheat but saying there is no possibility is highly naive imo.

I've had plenty of women "say" they didn't suck dick back when I was single I'm fairly sure you can figure out how all those situations ended.

 

[caddo man]

I havent cheated yet but I know my will is weak. I have turned down chicks that I was chasing before I got married.

New pussy is a drug and I am still addicted. I just havent indulged in a while.

By default that should answer the money scenario, too.

 

[zombie]

there are lots of men with money who don't cheat, once they are actually committed some people value family above pussy. If you want to avoid gold diggers just don't put yourself out there like that. Unless you are famous bitches are not throwing pussy at you like that, cause they don't know what your bank account like so lets be real fellas. YOU CAN tell these bitches to back the fuck off if you really want too.

alot men be like " i had too many bitches coming at me, too many options they seduced me" when in reality the bitch ain't seduce you, you let yourself be seduced because you wanted to fuck and did not want to admit it to yourself.

Not all the women are gold diggers.You have lawyers, doctors, executives and corporate chicks who men have access to that they can cheat with.It could be a fine ass co worker or business partner.It happens often.

yes but you don't have to make yourself easily available to fuck,

if you are working with a bad bitch and you are attracted to her then fall the fuck back she will notice and she will leave you alone and keep it strictly business. If she really is bad then she will have many options and you are not irresistible

 

[blacktux]

One thing i learned in life is never believe in never, because thats when the shit catch you off guard.

Im honest with myself and i know the situations i would cheat, i just stay out of those situations.

If i was a "laying low" business man type of millionaire, im sure i could stat away from these hoes.

Now me being an "out there" celebrity type of millionaire? My woman just going to have to accept those "changes" LOL, its not cheating if she know about it.

 

[T. Sanford]

I agree with Du. I think my pride wouldn't allow me to do it & the guilt would eat me alive

 

[Crude_]

One thing i learned in life is never believe in never, because thats when the shit catch you off guard.

Im honest with myself and i know the situations i would cheat, i just stay out of those situations.

If i was a "laying low" business man type of millionaire, im sure i could stat away from these hoes.

Now me being an "out there" celebrity type of millionaire? My woman just going to have to accept those "changes" LOL, its not cheating if she know about it.

^^Grown man answer, I suspect some of these other guys are either not being honest or are highly naive.

 

[zombie]

Half the people saying they wouldn't cheat have cheated in the past.

Statistics point to more than half of men and women cheating.

Yes, you can say what you like but I don't deny science or human nature so you can "say" whatever you like.

That's not to "say" you WILL cheat but saying there is no possibility is highly naive imo.

I've had plenty of women "say" they didn't suck dick back when I was single I'm fairly sure you can figure out how all those situations ended.

Men cheat but it's a fucking lie to say we can't help it or that it's our "nature" humans are not base animals

when we cheat it's because we want too not because there were so many willing and ready pussies just grabbing at us that we can't help it. There is no possibility that i will do something i don't want too with my body.

 

[Arya Tsaddiq]

there are lots of men with money who don't cheat, once they are actually committed some people value family above pussy. If you want to avoid gold diggers just don't put yourself out there like that. Unless you are famous bitches are not throwing pussy at you like that, cause they don't know what your bank account like so lets be real fellas. YOU CAN tell these bitches to back the fuck off if you really want too.

alot men be like " i had too many bitches coming at me, too many options they seduced me" when in reality the bitch ain't seduce you, you let yourself be seduced because you wanted to fuck and did not want to admit it to yourself.

Not all the women are gold diggers.You have lawyers, doctors, executives and corporate chicks who men have access to that they can cheat with.It could be a fine ass co worker or business partner.It happens often.

yes but you don't have to make yourself easily available to fuck,

if you are working with a bad bitch and you are attracted to her then fall the fuck back she will notice and she will leave you alone and keep it strictly business. If she really is bad then she will have many options and you are not irresistible

personal accountability meets common sense....

Niggas know what it is tho and indirectly will enable that type of behavior then act like it "just kinda happened".....

Nah you can take steps to avoid cheating if you want to in ANY scenario....

 

[Rasta.]

there are lots of men with money who don't cheat, once they are actually committed some people value family above pussy. If you want to avoid gold diggers just don't put yourself out there like that. Unless you are famous bitches are not throwing pussy at you like that, cause they don't know what your bank account like so lets be real fellas. YOU CAN tell these bitches to back the fuck off if you really want too.

alot men be like " i had too many bitches coming at me, too many options they seduced me" when in reality the bitch ain't seduce you, you let yourself be seduced because you wanted to fuck and did not want to admit it to yourself.

Not all the women are gold diggers.You have lawyers, doctors, executives and corporate chicks who men have access to that they can cheat with.It could be a fine ass co worker or business partner.It happens often.

yes but you don't have to make yourself easily available to fuck,

if you are working with a bad bitch and you are attracted to her then fall the fuck back she will notice and she will leave you alone and keep it strictly business. If she really is bad then she will have many options and you are not irresistible

personal accountability meets common sense....

Niggas know what it is tho and indirectly will enable that type of behavior then act like it "just kinda happened".....

Nah you can take steps to avoid cheating if you want to in ANY scenario....

Agreed! Exactly what constitutes cheating though? Sleeping with another woman or women you're not contractually bound to?

 

[Knives Amilli]

I think I value consistency and hate drama too much to cheat.

Cuz thats all that shit brings.

Like you bring up rich niggas....specifically athletes....

Some of the greatest players of all time have faced their biggest issues due to women and issues with cheating....

Bean, Tiger, Iverson, Tyson, Shaq, Wade, Magic, Favre, etc. the list is fucking countless of niggas who wanted it both ways and paid the price for it.

Fuck that shit. Money should mean peace of mind as well....

 

[blackrain]

cheating is like killing to me....

if you're filled with lust you'll get the urge to cheat, just like if you're filled with rage you'll get the urge to kill....

some people are self aware and in control enough of those urges to resist, some aren't...

many people are killed in a fit of rage, just like many people cheat in a fit of lust.....it's all about self-control

i know that sounds extremely naive to some of yall, but that's how i see it

You don't cheat I get it I don't either.

I'm not naive enough to think nothing wouldn't go down if I were possibly put in the right situation either.

I'm smart enough to keep myself out of situations that might be to tempting.

I got married I'm not dead or blind either though and I'm not foolish enough to think that there aren't other women out there that I might have a level of sexual attraction with either.

I've seen way to many men who are smarter and have way more to lose than I do fall victim to the p-u-s-s-y to know it could happen to any man under the right circumstances.

Other than money and maybe power it's probably the downfall of most men.

Funny enough there was a thread a month or two ago where some said the idea of keeping yourself out of situations you know might be more prone to temptation is a sign of being weak lol

 

[Crude_]

Half the people saying they wouldn't cheat have cheated in the past.

Statistics point to more than half of men and women cheating.

Yes, you can say what you like but I don't deny science or human nature so you can "say" whatever you like.

That's not to "say" you WILL cheat but saying there is no possibility is highly naive imo.

I've had plenty of women "say" they didn't suck dick back when I was single I'm fairly sure you can figure out how all those situations ended.

Men cheat but it's a fucking lie to say we can't help it or that it's our "nature" humans are not base animals

when we cheat it's because we want too not because there were so many willing and ready pussies just grabbing at us that we can't help it. There is no possibility that i will do something i don't want too with my body.

This is true in theory, but dick and pussy don't have a mind.

I see to many niggaz with baby mamas they are no longer with and screaming that ebrc shit to think otherwise.

I'm fairly sure you've done plenty of things you've later regretted with your body and I'm not necessarily talking about sex when I say that either.

Seen plenty of other people do things they said they'd never do under the right circumstances.

A thirsty man will drink dirty water.

 

[Arya Tsaddiq]

there are lots of men with money who don't cheat, once they are actually committed some people value family above pussy. If you want to avoid gold diggers just don't put yourself out there like that. Unless you are famous bitches are not throwing pussy at you like that, cause they don't know what your bank account like so lets be real fellas. YOU CAN tell these bitches to back the fuck off if you really want too.

alot men be like " i had too many bitches coming at me, too many options they seduced me" when in reality the bitch ain't seduce you, you let yourself be seduced because you wanted to fuck and did not want to admit it to yourself.

Not all the women are gold diggers.You have lawyers, doctors, executives and corporate chicks who men have access to that they can cheat with.It could be a fine ass co worker or business partner.It happens often.

yes but you don't have to make yourself easily available to fuck,

if you are working with a bad bitch and you are attracted to her then fall the fuck back she will notice and she will leave you alone and keep it strictly business. If she really is bad then she will have many options and you are not irresistible

personal accountability meets common sense....

Niggas know what it is tho and indirectly will enable that type of behavior then act like it "just kinda happened".....

Nah you can take steps to avoid cheating if you want to in ANY scenario....

Agreed! Exactly what constitutes cheating though? Sleeping with another woman or women you're not contractually bound to?

there are levels to it. But basically going anything with a person of the opposite sex that you can't be honest about with your wife/husband

 

[zombie]

women will respect you more if you are open about your sexual desire to sleep with other women, but if you are on some sneaky hide shit then you are playing her for a fool. when you cheat on the basis of not being able to control yourself you have effectively dishonored yourself and your wife

number 1 you have made yourself into a animal who can't control himself and number 2 you are going to make your girl feel that that other bitch is better than her now she has to worry about you leaving her but if you kept it real with her her mind would be more at ease.

And you know how some women are, the outside bitch will see your girl in the street and say something, girls are grimey like that.