For all my people here that DON'T have children.

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AZTG;c-9693051 said:
I want kids, just not now. 27 is too young.

One day, with the right person. For some reason older I get, the more I want a baby girl. Cant call it.

I feel the same way. I would love my baby girl to death. A little boy is fine too. If I get a boy I want to name him Tyler.

 
SimplyKrys;c-9693080 said:
AZTG;c-9693051 said:
I want kids, just not now. 27 is too young.

One day, with the right person. For some reason older I get, the more I want a baby girl. Cant call it.

I feel the same way. I would love my baby girl to death. A little boy is fine too. If I get a boy I want to name him Tyler.

So lets go half
 
Society tells u you're supposed to have kids by a certain age but parenthood ain't for everyone
 
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Imma just say this..lots of folks talking about losing their freedom ain't doing shit with the freedom they got. Y'all ain't all globe trottin, living some exciting life.

Children can give you purpose, and make you see life differently. It's a beautiful thing.
 
Kat;c-9693102 said:
Imma just say this..lots of folks talking about losing their freedom ain't doing shit with the freedom they got. Y'all ain't all globe trottin, living some exciting life.

Children can give you purpose, and make you see life differently. It's a beautiful thing.

It's a beautiful thing if you are ready, but having a child at the wrong time can't be good.
 
SimplyKrys;c-9693105 said:
Kat;c-9693102 said:
Imma just say this..lots of folks talking about losing their freedom ain't doing shit with the freedom they got. Y'all ain't all globe trottin, living some exciting life.

Children can give you purpose, and make you see life differently. It's a beautiful thing.

It's a beautiful thing if you are ready, but having a child at the wrong time can't be good.

Your whole life could pass waiting for the perfect time to have a kid, but I agree that you should feel somewhat ready.
 
SimplyKrys;c-9693099 said:
Trillfate;c-9693096 said:
Society tells u you're supposed to have kids by a certain age but parenthood ain't for everyone

For real though, I have seen some shitty parents in my day.

I got turned off by watching jerry and maury in the late 90s...
 
I'll probably get this girl pregnant with how she looks within 5 months and thats fine I always wanted a kid.

Niggas kill me with the whole "I cant do w/e I want or travel to madagascar now with a kid"

First off, You wasnt going anyways

Second, If having a kid stops you from traveling forever than thats your fault
 
Kat;c-9693110 said:
SimplyKrys;c-9693105 said:
Kat;c-9693102 said:
Imma just say this..lots of folks talking about losing their freedom ain't doing shit with the freedom they got. Y'all ain't all globe trottin, living some exciting life.

Children can give you purpose, and make you see life differently. It's a beautiful thing.

It's a beautiful thing if you are ready, but having a child at the wrong time can't be good.

Your whole life could pass waiting for the perfect time to have a kid, but I agree that you should feel somewhat ready.

My boss was actually telling me there is really no perfect time. If you don't mind me asking, how did you feel when you first found out your little one was coming?
 
Kat;c-9693102 said:
Imma just say this..lots of folks talking about losing their freedom ain't doing shit with the freedom they got. Y'all ain't all globe trottin, living some exciting life.

Children can give you purpose, and make you see life differently. It's a beautiful thing.

Beta;c-9693113 said:
I'll probably get this girl pregnant with how she looks within 5 months and thats fine I always wanted a kid.

Niggas kill me with the whole "I cant do w/e I want or travel to madagascar now with a kid"

First off, You wasnt going anyways

Second, If having a kid stops you from traveling forever than thats your fault

Name names
 
This question is for the ones without kids right? If you have em your in another boat. The reasons for not having them, in addition to the world being crazy, and the fact everybody aint trying to take on that job are all valid to the individual.

Doesnt really bother me at all. In fact its not something I usually think of. I got this and that and trying to stretch a dollar and do this and that. When I think of all the stuff I have to do and money I need and whatnot Im thankful for not having kids thats pretty much it.

I'll say I love not having kids. the opposite is like, no. Thats just me though. Its a relief and freeing realization.
 
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28 with no kids. I had it in my head when I was in my ealry 20s that 30 would be the age i'd be more willing to/prepared to have kids. I turn 29 in May and unless something radical changes in my life theres no way i'd be in the right place financially, mentally or lifestyle wise to even consider having children. Part of that is attributed to not accomplishing as much at this age as I'd have liked. I don't just mean money/career wise, I love to travel and have done a lot in my life but it just feels like i'm not there yet.

Hell, ive passed on some great women that have kids out of fear of getting locked down. That and i'm selfish as hell with my time/attention. I love my nieces and nephews I just don't feel like havings kids around all the time.

I'm looking at 35 as the age i'll think about it again lol.
 
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Beta;c-9693113 said:
I'll probably get this girl pregnant with how she looks within 5 months and thats fine I always wanted a kid.

Niggas kill me with the whole "I cant do w/e I want or travel to madagascar now with a kid"

First off, You wasnt going anyways

Second, If having a kid stops you from traveling forever than thats your fault

Foh I'm talking to my brother and he tells me every time he travels it's at least 10 gs cuz it's him, his wife and my nephew....and they travel at least 3 times a yr....I aint ready for that type of output
 
Its not time for them yet, i cant say im happy about it though, it was pretty intentional... Every bitch i ever nutted in I spent that 50 for the Plan B the next morning or that night.

 
Kat;c-9693102 said:
Imma just say this..lots of folks talking about losing their freedom ain't doing shit with the freedom they got. Y'all ain't all globe trottin, living some exciting life.

Children can give you purpose, and make you see life differently. It's a beautiful thing.

U were like 30 struggling on stamps taking the 8 bus everywhere

Body bag!
 
Kat;c-9693102 said:
Imma just say this..lots of folks talking about losing their freedom ain't doing shit with the freedom they got. Y'all ain't all globe trottin, living some exciting life.

Children can give you purpose, and make you see life differently. It's a beautiful thing.

*Secretly regrets thoting w/o protection post*
 
Ran into a teenager at fast food joint working the cash register...fou d out i grew up with her mama...felt old as shit.

 

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