For all my people here that DON'T have children.

[Copper]

Imma just say this..lots of folks talking about losing their freedom ain't doing shit with the freedom they got. Y'all ain't all globe trottin, living some exciting life.

Children can give you purpose, and make you see life differently. It's a beautiful thing.

*Secretly regrets thoting w/o protection post*

I don't regret having a kid, I do regret who I had a kid with though.



I see folks feeling some type of way about my comment. Truth hurts.

Fair enough...you remember that time you called women on the IC "childless bitches"

...you cant tell me it doesnt strike some sort of cord

 

[Stew]

Imma just say this..lots of folks talking about losing their freedom ain't doing shit with the freedom they got. Y'all ain't all globe trottin, living some exciting life.

Children can give you purpose, and make you see life differently. It's a beautiful thing.

So who's gonna man up and admit to using this as an excuse to not have kids cause in reality you really live like shit and your life sucks? @Kat said so

 

[AP21]

Yo who the fuck calls their ex-wife........................................their baby mama? Baby mama is designated for that chick that never got a ring or even an invitation.

@AP21

caddo calls his alimony

 

[Kat]

@Kat

And I've got enough to flood all three of your holes and have you popping out a kid by December honey.

No you don't.

Ever paid for an abortion? Suffered through a miscarriage with a woman?

I don't believe you got to nearly half a century without making a baby. Something is off.

And here's the "you're ___ years old and dont have kids, whats wrong?!" bullshit narrative...

I always say "nothing is wrong, its just that everything is right"

Nah. Deadeye is lonely. He is nearly 50, has no woman, no children, yet by his own words he clearly has these fatherly instincts. He wants to help kids "matriculate"...something is off.

Ok, granted, I have thought about having children........but am honest enough with myself to know that I'm not cut out for the day-to-day.

I have plenty of nieces and a nephew who almost looks just like me.

I'm good.

In regards to "matriculation," that was only in reference to @SixSickSins ......who was actually a 19yr old young adult at the time.

She wasn't a "kid".......even though I am more than old enough to be her father.

Don't forget the young lady at your church. But that explanation is sufficient I suppose. You have the best luck ever to not have slipped up once in 47 years though. Good job.

Imma just say this..lots of folks talking about losing their freedom ain't doing shit with the freedom they got. Y'all ain't all globe trottin, living some exciting life.

Children can give you purpose, and make you see life differently. It's a beautiful thing.

*Secretly regrets thoting w/o protection post*

I don't regret having a kid, I do regret who I had a kid with though.



I see folks feeling some type of way about my comment. Truth hurts.

Fair enough...you remember that time you called women on the IC "childless bitches"

...you cant tell me it doesnt strike some sort of cord

Context is important. Those same females were tearing a mother apart for her actions without being mothers themselves.

 

[Kat]

Imma just say this..lots of folks talking about losing their freedom ain't doing shit with the freedom they got. Y'all ain't all globe trottin, living some exciting life.

Children can give you purpose, and make you see life differently. It's a beautiful thing.

So who's gonna man up and admit to using this as an excuse to not have kids cause in reality you really live like shit and your life sucks? @Kat said so

Feelings.

 

[AP21]

Imma just say this..lots of folks talking about losing their freedom ain't doing shit with the freedom they got. Y'all ain't all globe trottin, living some exciting life.

Children can give you purpose, and make you see life differently. It's a beautiful thing.

So who's gonna man up and admit to using this as an excuse to not have kids cause in reality you really live like shit and your life sucks? @Kat said so

its the truth tho lol

niggas be talking about visiting vegas or some place for years as a single dude with no obligations like children and NEVER go, but all a sudden, those plans are put on hold b/c they have/had a kid?

FOH

i aint buying that shit ya'll shoveling

I'm too tall to act small you liars

 

[Stew]

Imma just say this..lots of folks talking about losing their freedom ain't doing shit with the freedom they got. Y'all ain't all globe trottin, living some exciting life.

Children can give you purpose, and make you see life differently. It's a beautiful thing.

So who's gonna man up and admit to using this as an excuse to not have kids cause in reality you really live like shit and your life sucks? @Kat said so

@"Max."

@Ajackson17

@Cabana_Da_Don

@"so ILL"

@farris2k1

She was talkin about one of yall. I wouldn't take that shit.

 

[Kat]

Notice plenty of IC men who seem to be living the largest have children.

@"EmM HoLLa."

@BOSSExcellence

@2stepz_ahead

 

[Ajackson17]

Imma just say this..lots of folks talking about losing their freedom ain't doing shit with the freedom they got. Y'all ain't all globe trottin, living some exciting life.

Children can give you purpose, and make you see life differently. It's a beautiful thing.

So who's gonna man up and admit to using this as an excuse to not have kids cause in reality you really live like shit and your life sucks? @Kat said so

@"Max."

@Ajackson17

@Cabana_Da_Don

@"so ILL"

@farris2k1

She was talkin about one of yall. I wouldn't take that shit.

I have been traveling lol and I made a whole thread lol.

 

[Kat]

Don't mind him Ajax..he's all in his feels for some reason.

 

[Lou Cypher]

Traveled to canada once

 

[Kat]

Traveled to canada once

Thank God no little rug rats were holding you back from that trip Louis!

 

[EmM HoLLa.]

Kids are a blessing.. Bring em into a stable environment with a responsible partner and it's easier. That's simplifying it though. It truly takes a village.

 

[Stew]

Imma just say this..lots of folks talking about losing their freedom ain't doing shit with the freedom they got. Y'all ain't all globe trottin, living some exciting life.

Children can give you purpose, and make you see life differently. It's a beautiful thing.

So who's gonna man up and admit to using this as an excuse to not have kids cause in reality you really live like shit and your life sucks? @Kat said so

its the truth tho lol

niggas be talking about visiting vegas or some place for years as a single dude with no obligations like children and NEVER go, but all a sudden, those plans are put on hold b/c they have/had a kid?

FOH

i aint buying that shit ya'll shoveling

I'm too tall to act small you liars

Youre gonna have to be more specific on who you're talkin about(only reason that came up cause the aforementioned posters I @'d said something then Kat chimed in about it) cause I dnt know any of these people. I'm almost certain, I'm not living the way I do with a kid(s). My closest friends with kids can't go on the trips I ask them to go with me on due to wife and/or kids and we've made trips like this before *shrugs*.

 

[Copper]

Im just waiting on marriage. I know too many of the homies with baby mama problems and I dont want my child going through that. And im not cool with the ready made families these women already have

I'm trying my hardest to not be with a woman who has kids. I'm 32 and it's getting more and more difficult to find a woman around my age with no kids. I just can't see myself getting with a girl who has kids.

People look at me crazy for saying this...just date younger

 

[AP21]

@stew, get on the call brah lol

you holding the shit up

 

[Kat]

I only chimed in because I was noticing a trend.

I agree that your life is not one conducive to having children. Unless one of your roommates is willing to share a room with a baby bed.

Big ole crybaby.

 

[deadeye]

@Kat

And I've got enough to flood all three of your holes and have you popping out a kid by December honey.

No you don't.

Ever paid for an abortion? Suffered through a miscarriage with a woman?

I don't believe you got to nearly half a century without making a baby. Something is off.

And here's the "you're ___ years old and dont have kids, whats wrong?!" bullshit narrative...

I always say "nothing is wrong, its just that everything is right"

Nah. Deadeye is lonely. He is nearly 50, has no woman, no children, yet by his own words he clearly has these fatherly instincts. He wants to help kids "matriculate"...something is off.

Ok, granted, I have thought about having children........but am honest enough with myself to know that I'm not cut out for the day-to-day.

I have plenty of nieces and a nephew who almost looks just like me.

I'm good.

In regards to "matriculation," that was only in reference to @SixSickSins ......who was actually a 19yr old young adult at the time.

She wasn't a "kid".......even though I am more than old enough to be her father.

Don't forget the young lady at your church. But that explanation is sufficient I suppose. You have the best luck ever to not have slipped up once in 47 years though. Good job.

@Kat

The situation with the young lady at Church was strictly out of concern for her well-being.

It had nothing to do with wanting to guide her matriculation.

And luck has nothing to do with not slipping up.

Luck would only apply if I was reckless and having sex without protection and/or not taking the necessary precautions.

It really isn't as difficult as you make it seem.

 

[Copper]

And freedom doesnt necessarily mean you out here living like the most interesting man in the world....

Freedom is freedom from whatever you want it to be

 

[Kat]

Mmhmm..yet unplanned babies are born everyday. And abortions. And plan B pills. And miscarriages.

Get my drift? It's highly unusual, but not impossible I suppose.