FELLAS BE HONEST. WOULD YOU REALLLLLY RESPECT A FEMALE IF SHE GAVE IT UP TO YOU ON THE 1ST NIGHT?

[In Your Moms Room]

I'd still chill with her, but na, i wouldn't respect her. I'd expect to hit it when i want, and if she said no, she would get dropped.

 

[mryounggun]

i think this is the only instance where niggaz would rather downplay their abilities in something than inflate themselves...

"if i smashed..........that means anybody can smash"

interesting....

Crazy, right? Niggas be moving the goalpost based on the situation.

 

[taeboo]

I'd still chill with her, but na, i wouldn't respect her. I'd expect to hit it when i want, and if she said no, she would get dropped.

So if she lets you hit, you'll lose respect for her. But if she don't you'll drop her??

 

[In Your Moms Room]

I'd still chill with her, but na, i wouldn't respect her. I'd expect to hit it when i want, and if she said no, she would get dropped.

So if she lets you hit, you'll lose respect for her. But if she don't you'll drop her??

If she lets me hit first night, then refuses at a later date..yes. She's dropped.

 

[[Trillmatic]]

nah, cuz if shes willing to give it up on the first date then she is officially processed and transferred to the Jumpoff Unit.

 

[MrLunatik1979]

I think I respect a woman more for being able to live in the moment than one who has to live by a predetermined set of rules that some try to live by.

I know I can respect a woman after fucking her right away because my exfiance was a bitch I met for no other reason than to fuck. But after we fucked we talked and hit it off and went on a date that night and fucked again. Ended up being with her for 3 years and not once did it bother me that we fucked within 30 minutes of meeting

 

[In Your Moms Room]

nah, cuz if shes willing to give it up on the first date then she is officially processed and transferred to the Jumpoff Unit.

That's what i'm saying...But a jumpoff who doesn't come over when i text her isn't much of a jump off. so she gets dropped.

 

[nex gin]

I'm not saying she's a hoe........but her judgement & morals would definitely be under investigation. If she's done it once.....how many times has she done it? Ultimately I can only judge her on her actions. That one action may not define her as a whole, but it does illustrate what type of person she is (capable of being).

 

[Black Boy King]

I'm not saying she's a hoe........but her judgement & morals would definitely be under investigation. If she's done it once.....how many times has she done it? Ultimately I can only judge her on her actions. That one action may not define her as a whole, but it does illustrate what type of person she is (capable of being).

Well said.

 

[edwardnigma]

Why not I'm cool as fuck. I get the pussy first night alot anyways. It usually makes shit less weird.

 

[Recaptimus_Prime360]

Depends on what she says afterwards. If she comes at me in some "Can I get some money for my cell bill", respect is out the window.

 

[Iceberg Slick]

I do if she respects my expectations. If she was a ho and she respected the fact that I know this fact and wont let any of her games slide so she has to give it to me ASAP as a sign of that respect as supposed to the other simps she plays games with then thats no problem. I would hate a ho who plays hard to get because that would impy that she think you got a simpin mindset and be just like the other guys and dont deserve too see her full freak ASAP. I also respect and like it when a female knows how to leave an arrangement be at just fuck buddies and expects no changes to that arrangement.

 

[theBlackbeard]

No it takes more than some quick pussy to earn my respect. She could put out or not, still ain't trusting her.

 

[Melanin_Enriched]

Well i'll respect her enough to get it the 2nd and 3rd night.

 

[Louis Cipher]

Hitting first night dont change shit, its her actions after that will or could change my mind. I dont judge females by body count and all the other nonsense these soft dudes in gns be crying about

^^^this...

and look at it another way...are niggas that are looking to smash on the 1st night worthy of respect themselves?

i value my body...work out...eat right...and dont just let anybody touch me...guess that cant be said to most cats in here...

 

[Sour-Cream]

Lol, no.

 

[kzzl]

It's not that I wouldn't respect her. I'd just think she's a slut, hoe, I'm just that damn good, or all the above. We're all humans with desires and shit. I can't really get mad at a chick that wants it off top. It be like that on occasion.

You forget to turn your swag off and you wake up in a room full of bitches. That Will Ferrell shit, dig? If the stronger mind prevails, I just tell ol'girl to pump her brakes. My lane is slow and easy. We savor the good times where I'm at.

 

[ceothachosen1]

Yes

 

[ptnutz]

I would respect her honesty. But it does depend on the situation. If a girl said, "I just got out of a bad relationship and it's been a while". I'd probably view it different than if she said, "I'm normally not like this, but...(whatever the excuse, don't care, don't like liars). Some respectable, relationship worthy chicks can have an occasional hoe moment. I've had some women where we just "clicked", and dudes who knew them were surprised and said the chick wasn't even like that.

 

[Dr.Chemix]

Don't the first night symbolizes restraint and control of oneself?

Its cool with me, but it comes up later...it allows the "cheating scenarios" to interfere if yall take it to the next level

"Well, how do I know, you fucked me on the first night and we barely knew each other"

Don't that sound familiar?

Its cool with me, but if a woman holds out on the first night, I can respect her lil bit more for her self control