FELLAS BE HONEST. WOULD YOU REALLLLLY RESPECT A FEMALE IF SHE GAVE IT UP TO YOU ON THE 1ST NIGHT?

[Dr.Chemix]

So let me ask fellas this, if the broad didn't want to give it up on the first would yall cats look at her in a better light or negative one?

(Please exclude scallywags, whores, jump offs, bitches, tricks, sluts, dick collapsers, pipe workers, professional skeezos, knock offs, head doctors and so forth when considering question)

like most things in life ..it just depends .... i mean... is she leading you on only to then shut you down? has she already talked about how she feels regarding intimacy and escalating things on the sexual tip? .... etc etc ... shits rarely black or white

nope not all the time but that's how I see it

scorpio post

 

[Recaptimus_Prime360]

So let me ask fellas this, if the broad didn't want to give it up on the first would yall cats look at her in a better light or negative one?

(Please exclude scallywags, whores, jump offs, bitches, tricks, sluts, dick collapsers, pipe workers, professional skeezos, knock offs, head doctors and so forth when considering question)

like most things in life ..it just depends .... i mean... is she leading you on only to then shut you down? has she already talked about how she feels regarding intimacy and escalating things on the sexual tip? .... etc etc ... shits rarely black or white

Damn. I was about to answer Chemix's question until I read this. Didn't take into consideration what JD stated. He's right not really black & white. Too many factors involved. Gotta know her intentions first.

 

[Dr.Chemix]

True about the intentions. Lol, but seriously, do women even know their own intentions? That could be my problem, seeing things black and white. But its who I am. So for me, it would have to be on or off.

I have no problem with a girl wanting to fuck on the first night. It doesn't really take points away but then again, it doesn't add em either. But if she didn't give up the first night...I'm a lil more intrigued...it shows a lil bit more self control of primal instincts. Composure.

 

[Purr]

So let me ask fellas this, if the broad didn't want to give it up on the first would yall cats look at her in a better light or negative one?

(Please exclude scallywags, whores, jump offs, bitches, tricks, sluts, dick collapsers, pipe workers, professional skeezos, knock offs, head doctors and so forth when considering question)

like most things in life ..it just depends .... i mean... is she leading you on only to then shut you down? has she already talked about how she feels regarding intimacy and escalating things on the sexual tip? .... etc etc ... shits rarely black or white

nope not all the time but that's how I see it

scorpio post

ugh... you're a scorpio get out of my zodiac nigga

 

[Dr.Chemix]

no madam...I reign king as a scorpio

 

[mr.jamrock]

man first off where these niggas finding chicks that smash on the first nite? and even if i do find one no matter how bad i aint hitting the first nite if given that pussy probably tainted im good.

 

[JDSTAYWITIT]

True about the intentions. Lol, but seriously, do women even know their own intentions? That could be my problem, seeing things black and white. But its who I am. So for me, it would have to be on or off.

I have no problem with a girl wanting to fuck on the first night. It doesn't really take points away but then again, it doesn't add em either. But if she didn't give up the first night...I'm a lil more intrigued...it shows a lil bit more self control of primal instincts. Composure.

you really shouldn't be fucking with a grown individual that doesn't ....at the bolded (no condescending shit ..just nigga to nigga talk)

and secondly ...how long before that "intrigue" turns into dis-"interest" ......

....just sayin bruh

 

[Amotekun]

I smashed my last girl first night we met. We were together for 2 years. I respected her, somewhat, but I was always suggesting freaky shit. Because we smashed the first night our relationship progressed but it was really on a sexual level. Threesomes and exhibitionism, public sex. I did all this just because she divulged her past to me so I was like well shit then you used to the life. She was conflicted though because she was trying to be a reformed hoe but I pressed that issue. Eventually I broke up with her because I didnt respect her enough to possibly be the mother of my children.

Girl I was with before her, made me wait two weeks before I smashed. I was younger then too she was older by four years. She was a reformed hoe too, she had even been in a porno when she was younger. I think because she made me wait I had more respect for her. Subconsciously she made me feel like she was a prize that I should work for.

I broke up with both of them but I was hurt when I broke up with the girl who made me wait. A nigga weeped over that one. I wasnt hurt at all over this most recent girl. I was like good goddamn riddance. Float...Float On Float on Float on....

Edit:

Last relationship is what got me into tantric yoga. My last relationship I was ruled by my relationship and I either should have never pursued a relationship with the last girl, or I should have evolved it differently.

If the urge ever became irresistible I'd get an escort instead of some random J/O. The urges have become less and less irresistible.

 

[Dr.Chemix]

The bolded is a deeper side of the game that I'm not even expanding upon. Not trying to big myself up...but shit you should already know the deal with the bolded. Has nothing to do with maturity...everything to do with nature.

And c'mon b...I'm not saying I'm waiting 5 months until she give me ass either. But lets be real...niggas aren't saying that shit because women are on the boards reading

But a broad gives up the ass on the first night, no matter what yall say, you will look at her different a lil. You might not say it...but your actions and how you treat her will say something completely different.

Guaranteed after you fuck her on the first night, you already thinking about the next ass to fuck...the first nighter is pretty much X'd unless you don't find an upgrade.

 

[JDSTAYWITIT]

The bolded is a deeper side of the game that I'm not even expanding upon. Not trying to big myself up...but shit you should already know the deal with the bolded. Has nothing to do with maturity...everything to do with nature.

lol... fair enough

And c'mon b...I'm not saying I'm waiting 5 months until she give me ass either. But lets be real...niggas aren't saying that shit because women are on the boards reading

oh ....so niggas doin that subconscious simpin now? ..... well got dayum .... i gotta add that to my repertoire... game peeped ....game muthafuckin peeped ...

But a broad gives up the ass on the first night, no matter what yall say, you will look at her different a lil. You might not say it...but your actions and how you treat her will say something completely different.

Guaranteed after you fuck her on the first night, you already thinking about the next ass to fuck...the first nighter is pretty much X'd unless you don't find an upgrade.

ehhh i mean i guess .... shit.. inevitably im going to look at/judge her different... but not on some moralistic high horse tip (...after all i did choose to go inside her...right?) but more so in the sense that now i have a gauge on her pussy prowess along with all that other shit like personality and etc etc .... but it just gives you a fuller scope of the woman your dealing with and whether or not she's worth .....dealing with..... or the degree to which your willing to deal with her ... ya know

and since were talking about nature or natural instincts ....... when exactly is a man not thinking about some potential ass? .....and since we all know that answer ...i dont really think that should have any bearing on what were discussing ...

 

[Louis Cipher]

My ex gave it up fiirst night. We lasted like 3 or 4 years. Broke up over non-hoe related incidents lol

Plus all females are hoes. Some just less than others. If u think u dating a virgin u really just dating a bitch that knows how to keep a secret. Best believe any female u encounter knows her way around a dick and had plenty of training before you came along.

U niggas just keep lying to yourselves. Ill be over here in reality. It may not be pretty...but gotdamnit it's all I got.

so merely having sex makes a woman a hoe?

lol...you niggas...smh

 

[lovelycreation]

Yep, I did it. few weeks later he propose to me.

 

[Dr.Chemix]

Lol @JDSTAYWITIT I see what you sayin b...no doubt

 

[Dr.Chemix]

Wait he proposed within weeks? Weeks? How long y'all been married for?

 

[fuc_i_look_like]

Yep, I did it. few weeks later he propose to me.

He sounds like a sucka

 

[rip.dilla]

... all females are hoes.

LOL

 

[Black Boy King]

Yep, I did it. few weeks later he propose to me.

pics of u or stfu

i cant wait to see this

 

[ohhhla]

Yep, I did it. few weeks later he propose to me.

Lol, how long ago was this?