FELLAS BE HONEST. WOULD YOU REALLLLLY RESPECT A FEMALE IF SHE GAVE IT UP TO YOU ON THE 1ST NIGHT?

[Sage Wonder]

Depends. First date does not necessarily mean the first time you meet her. Maybe the chemistry was built even before the date, and I'll say that justifies sex on the first date. If you just met her though, she just established her jump off status.

 

[5th Letter]

It depends on their personalty. if she gives me a certain vibe then I can tell if she's a hoe.

 

[King Erauno]

nah i cant because if she let me fuck the first night...pretty sure she's let other niggas do it too. smash but no wife

 

[SleepwalkingInJapan]

I have my share of 1 night stands...i dont respect the chick any less afterwards

no relationship can happen tho...im taken lol

 

[brown321]

If I met her today & I smash tonight that is throwing up red flags all day. Unless we had some kind of connection then I'm going to see where that goes. Might miss out on good woman otherwise

I won't lose respect for any woman that does fuck on the first night tho, at least she ain't out here faking.

We all had them girl that hit you with the "I don't usually do this" line. They get no respect from me.

 

[Kat]

I'm waiting for the day Japan's girl pulls a Haf's girl and logs on..

smh.

 

[KeepOnPushing]

oh wow, all the men on here seem to be so understanding. i guess none of you guys will be calling chicks hoes anymore

Nah im calling them hoes

 

[KeepOnPushing]

Double post

 

[CP203]

shit within 10mins of talking to a chick im taking the convo to fucking because i dont got time to play around i got a wife, so its no need to get to know each other and of course i respect em

 

[mryounggun]

Yes. Could I respect a chick who puts an arbitrary timeline on sex like we're not both adults? No.

 

[SleepwalkingInJapan]

I have my share of 1 night stands...i dont respect the chick any less afterwards

no relationship can happen tho...im taken lol

you must respect her a little less if you say no relationship

maybe a little less...but its because they're party/club girls in the 1st place..most of um are unwifeable lol

I'm waiting for the day Japan's girl pulls a Haf's girl and logs on..

smh.

 

[Chase N Bundlez]

It depends on the scenario really. I more look about how long it takes for me to fuck. I knew some chicks for maybe a month and a half, where we spoke on the phone often and went out like twice or so, but they aint come back to the crib or nuffn, but when they actually did, I fucked.. which is technically the 1st night. But I could give em a pass.

Now if I meet u on Monday, we talk on the phone throughout the week, and u at the crib Friday and let me smash, well then ur done, no matter how bad u are cuz it was just too easy. I aint gonna lie to myself and say it was my "G" that got her or my looks, cuz I know there's niggas that look better and have more "G" than I do, so what she did with them niggas?

 

[Black Boy King]

9.9 TIMES OUTTA 10, IF A GUY MEETS A GIRL.. HE WANTS TO HIT ASAP. THE CHICK MIGHT BE FEELING YOU TO, BUT DOESNT WANT ME BE DISRESPECTED OR TO BE CONSIDERED A WHORECUNTSLUT, SO SHE WAITS TO GIVE YOU THE DRAWZ..

I have my share of 1 night stands...i dont respect the chick any less afterwards

no relationship can happen tho...im taken lol

you must respect her a little less if you say no relationship

I think "respect" is the wrong word used here. With how casual sex is viewed these days, I can't honestly say I would call a chick the scum of the earth because we hit it off the first night we were together. My intuition will be more of an aid. And I actually have more respect for myself than to believe that a girl that is ready to fuck me is a hoe. Like in my first post, "it's to be expected". I think I'm cool...

If she's a hoe, her fucking on the first night will only contribute to the argument that she is a hoe. But that itself doesn't make her a hoe (there are other factors that have contribute)... I'm speaking in Man Language so this might not make sense, but that's what I believe.

 

[Garv*]

YES

 

[KeepOnPushing]

y'all can't have it both ways. you can't say it would throw up red flags, then say you wouldn't judge her. or that you wouldn't judge her, but you wouldn't date her because of it. and if you're not judging a girl for sleeping with you on the first night, why/how can you judge her for any sexual activity she chooses to engage in?

I'll beat and still be real cool with her ... well only if she's cool like that personality wise.

but i doubt i'd date em'...

 

[fuc_i_look_like]

U niggaz sound petty as fuck.

 

[Kat]

I'd fuck her because I'm a hoe, but nah, actually be with someone like ME? nah, no can do.

foh.

 

[KeepOnPushing]

y'all can't have it both ways. you can't say it would throw up red flags, then say you wouldn't judge her. or that you wouldn't judge her, but you wouldn't date her because of it. and if you're not judging a girl for sleeping with you on the first night, why/how can you judge her for any sexual activity she chooses to engage in?

I'll beat and still be real cool with her ... well only if she's cool like that personality wise.

but i doubt i'd date em'...

why exactly is that?

just trying to understand how the guys think

i can't speak for others , but my thought process is that it's def. not her first time smashing on the first night and exactly how many times has she done that?....

and honestly it's more of a double standard thing anyways you know how that shit is

 

[Bussy_Getta]

I DON'T RESPECT THESE HOES, BEAT AND SKEET!

 

[Cinco]

I'll beat and still be real cool with her ... well only if she's cool like that personality wise.

but i doubt i'd date em'...

This. The chics I really like, i dunno its something different first date I'm trying to see where her head at.

Others I already know whether I'm dating them just to chill/smash or if she got gf potential from talking to her beforehand.