Madame_CJSkywalker
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konceptjones;c-9874011 said:Madame_CJSkywalker;c-9873873 said:konceptjones;c-9873793 said:Westie;c-9873769 said:konceptjones;c-9873719 said:Madame_CJSkywalker;c-9873690 said:Never said or meant to imply any of you think rape is justified
I dont believe that to be true
Same as no one said false accusations are good for anyone
But why is the choices a few a good excuse to treat victims, alleged victims with contempt when u do things like dismiss or fail to acknowledge the very real psychological reasons why it may take a victim a year or even decades to come forward
Also the question is to what extent should we allow false accusations to color our perception. Especially considering the data available in concerns to false accusations is limited
Rape is a very hard crime to prove
Ppl accused of rape tend to deny the allegations regardless of their guilt. The fact that a rape allegation was categorized as false does not mean there was proof she lied
And again it seems like selective outrage coming from u and others
If justice or fairness was one of ur primary goals one would think you'd express the same amount of concern or outrage when facts are presented that don't fit into ur narrative
Because when u consider everything, there is not only one culprit nor is it only one loser...
I can post thousands of instances where an actual victim is denied justice and or how the law and law agencies fail to adequately respond to reports of rape and sexual assault
For the very same reason that:
The majority of Black folks in America are hard working, morally upstanding individuals yet are judged by the smaller percentage of us that are criminals, of poor character, and morally bankrupt.
The overwhelming majority of Muslims are peaceful, God fearing, and devoted to righteousness yet the tiny minority of them that are jihadists hell bent on "killing infidels" and creating a world where Sharia law is the standard are what the rest are judged by.
Most Mexicans here in this country illegally are law-abiding people (if you ignore the vfact that their being here itself is a criminal act), only searching for a way to make a better living than what's available in their home country but they're judged by the few that come here to run drugs or that commit various other criminal acts.
Lol that's the hill you want to die on? Because racism? Ok
"Muslim" is not a race my dear.
In case you can't figure it out, a criminal minority of any group is usually what the whole is judged by.
Think about it: I'm sure the majority of white middle aged men with handlebar mustaches have no desire to rape kids or kill multiple people, but you ain't finna let 48 year old Mr Robertson down the block watch your kids for a few hours because of the handful of men that fit that same description that ARE pedophile rapists or serial killers.
Men of ANY race that desire to be daycare workers are always viewed as suspected pedophiles.
In a minute we're about to get to the point where white female school teachers, especially those teaching middle school through high school, are viewed as potential child rapists because of the several thousand white women caught, tried, and convicted for that crime.
Are u really tryna justify racial profiling?
And white americans do drugs more than any other group
But we, i.e. blk ppl, are the face of drug abuse
More blk ppl are stopped by the police for being suspected of carrying drugs
are you two really this dense or are you just trolling?
None of what you said has anything to do with what I wrote. Not one bit.
You asked "But why is the choices a few a good excuse to treat victims, alleged victims with contempt when u do things like dismiss or fail to acknowledge the very real psychological reasons why it may take a victim a year or even decades to come forward"
This is the answer: We tend to judge people not by the best part of the majority, but by the worst part of a minority. We tend to be skeptical of women accusing men of rape, particularly when it is acknowledged that it was consensual or even started out consensual, by one or even both parties because of the minority of women that falsely accuse men of rape for a variety of reasons for exactly the same reason we (the US as a whole) tend to view Muslims skeptically because of the tiny number of Jihadists that are blowing shit up around the world.
Lol
What?
Go to bed sir
I intially asked why is the choices a few a GOOD excuse to treat victims, alleged victims with contempt
Basically i was asking for a good justification for someone acting or succumbing to their prejudices
I use “prejudice” in reference to a limited understanding about a person or thing
In around about way my point is prejudice is wrong
Hence why i made the point we should be judging every person or situation on a case by case basis