Drop Yo Romantic Ideas

[2stepz_ahead]

Jewelry.

yea...it can get old fast.

i been thinking of custom pieces now with meaning behind them.

 

[blackrain]

Drive ins still clutch for me

They had one here at Union Station a few weeks back playing Coming 2 America. It was dope

 

[babelipsss]

Wrong!!! Jewelry can never get old. How long have diamonds been hitting a home run every time?

 

[blackrain]

I'll do random shit like in the middle of the day send a random text like "here's your daily reminder of how beautiful you are"...for her bday last year I told her to make a list of 10 things she wants to do or places she wants to go by her next bday. We've crossed 6 off the list. VI trip next month will make 7.

 

[2stepz_ahead]

i can say one thing....

i often plan a trip to the beach or the alps.

when we get there......no cell phones, no tv....only a camera and each other(maybe a book).

best times in our lives.

so its a movie called "chasing mavericks"..we loved the movie...so when we go to the beach....we get in the water and try to jump the waves without getting knocked over or a tit popping out..lol

so if we get knocked over...we make the excuse that it was a maverick wave...an how it caught us off guard.

sounds corny but we do that shit for hours....like literally be in the water laughing and chasing waves like we are 12 yrs old for like 10am to like 4pm.

the bonding get a nigga feeling pink...

 

[2stepz_ahead]

picnic in the park,

wine tasting,

date night,

movie night,

flowers at work for nothing,

thinking of you card

late night bbq

afterwork massage

surprise scavenger hunt

local jazz fest

walk by the water

giftcards

exercising together

making music and songs together

watching wifey play dress up

learning a new language together

sending her for a spa day or couples spa day

paintballing

stargazing

trip planning

future planning

dreaming(like ob said)

comedy show

karaoke

medival dinner

different cultural restaurants

^^^finding restaurant week in your city....cheap ass hell but you get to try different shit

travel

thats just off the top.

but i am a different type dude

Nigga that ain't different. That's called a relationship

you be surprised at how many dudes dont do that type shit.

im talking with their wives.

i say im different because they is an enough to not get fired and an above and beyond.

as a married man i am sure you know the difference...

 

[HerbalVaporCapers]

Drive bys

 

[Ol Jay's]

take off my shirt and fix something around the house

 

[Ol Jay's]

take her lunch to work and eat with her, send flowers to her at work out the blue, and last but not least the ultimate romantic gesture is to wash her hair and oil her scalp

 

[JokerzWyld]

The biggest impediment to the execution of romantic ideas is narrow-minded women. I'm not wasting my good ideas out here. These bitches getting happy hour at Friday's.

 

[blackrain]

picnic in the park,

wine tasting,

date night,

movie night,

flowers at work for nothing,

thinking of you card

late night bbq

afterwork massage

surprise scavenger hunt

local jazz fest

walk by the water

giftcards

exercising together

making music and songs together

watching wifey play dress up

learning a new language together

sending her for a spa day or couples spa day

paintballing

stargazing

trip planning

future planning

dreaming(like ob said)

comedy show

karaoke

medival dinner

different cultural restaurants

^^^finding restaurant week in your city....cheap ass hell but you get to try different shit

travel

thats just off the top.

but i am a different type dude

Nigga that ain't different. That's called a relationship

you be surprised at how many dudes dont do that type shit.

im talking with their wives.

i say im different because they is an enough to not get fired and an above and beyond.

as a married man i am sure you know the difference...

Yeah I know there are people who do the bare minimum...but the shit you listed don't make you different. It makes you a nigga who still takes his wife out. That's not as uncommon as you're trying to make it

 

[radio_santana]

Romance is reserved for those ladies of longevity. Someone you really care about, your queen..wife. Jumpers are only provided with #2 combos, good dick n some weed

 

[caddo man]

I gave her my last bite of food

Yall just dont know how much of a sacrifice this is.

 

[blackrain]

I gave her my last bite of food

Yall just dont know how much of a sacrifice this is.

Anytime The Brothers movie comes on I get so annoyed at that damn idea. I ain't got to give up the last hot wing to prove my love. Fuck that

 

[2stepz_ahead]

picnic in the park,

wine tasting,

date night,

movie night,

flowers at work for nothing,

thinking of you card

late night bbq

afterwork massage

surprise scavenger hunt

local jazz fest

walk by the water

giftcards

exercising together

making music and songs together

watching wifey play dress up

learning a new language together

sending her for a spa day or couples spa day

paintballing

stargazing

trip planning

future planning

dreaming(like ob said)

comedy show

karaoke

medival dinner

different cultural restaurants

^^^finding restaurant week in your city....cheap ass hell but you get to try different shit

travel

thats just off the top.

but i am a different type dude

Nigga that ain't different. That's called a relationship

you be surprised at how many dudes dont do that type shit.

im talking with their wives.

i say im different because they is an enough to not get fired and an above and beyond.

as a married man i am sure you know the difference...

Yeah I know there are people who do the bare minimum...but the shit you listed don't make you different. It makes you a nigga who still takes his wife out. That's not as uncommon as you're trying to make it

smdh.....

but divorce is high why?

finances?

cheating?

no feeling appreciated?

bruh....i think you overlooking this a bit much....the things i listed dont make me different.

consistency does and how i go about it does. aint you still married? ever ask your wife what makes you so special? why she still keeps you around? why yall aint a statistic? why the lunch nigga aint got room? will you say you doing the bare minimum or ill she big you up?

there is a reason alot of women dont know how to receive romance...mainly because they dont know what it looks like. and with so many hoez....why should men take the time to know what it is?

it take alot of energy to stay married. and alot of work. then add in kids.....yes, it is very common to lapse in the romance department. but, i am sure you know that(not saying your marriage). so lets not make this out to be simple like everyone does it.

divorce and lunch niggas have a place for a reason.

 

[2stepz_ahead]

I'll do random shit like in the middle of the day send a random text like "here's your daily reminder of how beautiful you are"...for her bday last year I told her to make a list of 10 things she wants to do or places she wants to go by her next bday. We've crossed 6 off the list. VI trip next month will make 7.

case and point....

your texts are a thing alot of dudes dont do or think of.

your wife doesnt have to ask. because you give what and who you are before that. do you know how uncommon that is?

now...flip that....can a random nigga shower your wife with compliments? yes. will it make her feel attractive? yes. will it make her feel like he pays more attention than you? no.

see how that works?

even your idea of her 10 places.....creative. puts her in the spotlight. she feels special.

nigga, take ownership of being a good dude to your lady. i am sure its alot of unhappy chicks hating cuz they aint getting that treatment.

 

[2stepz_ahead]

mystery dinners....

not what we eating but a who done it type thing

 

[blackrain]

picnic in the park,

wine tasting,

date night,

movie night,

flowers at work for nothing,

thinking of you card

late night bbq

afterwork massage

surprise scavenger hunt

local jazz fest

walk by the water

giftcards

exercising together

making music and songs together

watching wifey play dress up

learning a new language together

sending her for a spa day or couples spa day

paintballing

stargazing

trip planning

future planning

dreaming(like ob said)

comedy show

karaoke

medival dinner

different cultural restaurants

^^^finding restaurant week in your city....cheap ass hell but you get to try different shit

travel

thats just off the top.

but i am a different type dude

Nigga that ain't different. That's called a relationship

you be surprised at how many dudes dont do that type shit.

im talking with their wives.

i say im different because they is an enough to not get fired and an above and beyond.

as a married man i am sure you know the difference...

Yeah I know there are people who do the bare minimum...but the shit you listed don't make you different. It makes you a nigga who still takes his wife out. That's not as uncommon as you're trying to make it

smdh.....

but divorce is high why?

finances?

cheating?

no feeling appreciated?

bruh....i think you overlooking this a bit much....the things i listed dont make me different.

consistency does and how i go about it does. aint you still married? ever ask your wife what makes you so special? why she still keeps you around? why yall aint a statistic? why the lunch nigga aint got room? will you say you doing the bare minimum or ill she big you up?

there is a reason alot of women dont know how to receive romance...mainly because they dont know what it looks like. and with so many hoez....why should men take the time to know what it is?

it take alot of energy to stay married. and alot of work. then add in kids.....yes, it is very common to lapse in the romance department. but, i am sure you know that(not saying your marriage). so lets not make this out to be simple like everyone does it.

divorce and lunch niggas have a place for a reason.

Nigga you the one who said you different. I was saying that shit don't make you different it makes you someone in a relationship who actually gives a fuck. Yes it takes a concerted effort to make a marriage work and many people forget that you still need to maintain a relationship after the wedding, after the kids, after you get off work and are tired. All that shit does matter. I just thought it was funny you listing shit anyone who actually has a successfully functioning relationship does as you being different.

 

[MsSouthern]

Just pay attention to the little things

Remember stuff she says she likes or dislikes and run with that

Dinner , movie theatres, and drinks at a bar can get old and boring quick so get creative. Picnic and movies at the park , star gaze with a bottle of whatever y'all like , mini vacations or road trips, etc

You shouldn't have to spend a lot of money to make her happy

 

[blackrain]

I'll do random shit like in the middle of the day send a random text like "here's your daily reminder of how beautiful you are"...for her bday last year I told her to make a list of 10 things she wants to do or places she wants to go by her next bday. We've crossed 6 off the list. VI trip next month will make 7.

case and point....

your texts are a thing alot of dudes dont do or think of.

your wife doesnt have to ask. because you give what and who you are before that. do you know how uncommon that is?

now...flip that....can a random nigga shower your wife with compliments? yes. will it make her feel attractive? yes. will it make her feel like he pays more attention than you? no.

see how that works?

even your idea of her 10 places.....creative. puts her in the spotlight. she feels special.

nigga, take ownership of being a good dude to your lady. i am sure its alot of unhappy chicks hating cuz they aint getting that treatment.

I know those women exist. I work with some of them. Just a couple months back I had 2 female coworkers tell me that her seeing and hearing how I talk to and about my wife has pretty much given them a prototype for how she wants to be treated and spoken to. I know I'm a good dude I just don't think treating my wife how she should be treated makes me different or special.