The Lonious Monk;9421846 said:
desertrain10;9420985 said:
The Lonious Monk;9419488 said:
I don't think it's fair to say that a patriarchy automatically means the subjugation of women. It is hard for women to obtain top levels of power, but that doesn't mean women are property or without value. A lot of older African cultures were patriarchies, but women still had important roles and power within the community. Just because you give one party the lead doesn't mean all other parties become slaves.
If men are the gatekeepers of respectability...the law makers so they shape public policy ...business leaders...etc
Men are basically in control of every aspect of our lives, soceity
You don't find that problematic?
Just look at history...
Or look at how women are treated in starch patriarchal societies across the world
And as I was saying patriarchy breeds misogyny
You're basically saying that patriarchies must be male dictatorships, but that's not true. Just because men are the leaders doesn't mean that women don't get a say so. I'm the head of my household, but my wife still has input on what happens. It's not like I hit her with the "My way or the highway" line on a daily basis. Just like all slavery wasn't the same as the chattel slavery used in America, not all patriarchies are the same as what we see in America. Again, many precolonial African societies were technically patriarchies, but women were given special roles and held their own power.
This is one reason why it was silly for black women to jump on the feminism bandwagon in the way that white women did, because the relationships between men and women in the black community were not the same as between men and women in the white community.
if your girl and you decide that you are "the head of the house", that's your decision ...what ever works for you...
i'm talking about patriarchy in the sense that culture and society are dominated by men's thoughts, ideas, opinions, and desires. basically america since it's conception
though we are slowly becoming a more inclusive society for women, it's still problematic because it reinforces gender stereotypes. and its based on lies. men are not smarter than women. they are not better decision makers than women. they are not better leaders than women. they don't have better judgment. women are not inherently more emotional than men. yet still these lies are used to rationalize why men are offered better jobs , male dominated career fields net more pay, men pay less for products, men aren't told what to do with their reproductive organs, "women's work" is undervalued, industries have been built from exploiting women's insecurities, etc
not to mention power concentrated in the hands of one group is dangerous and corrupts. there needs to be a balance..
and it's not just women who suffer. patriarchy as a social structure assumes not just men, but specific types of men should have all the power. for example, lower class men are subjected to men of higher status and everyone is expected to adhere to rigid gender expectations. then men are not protected in many circumstances as they should " be able to protect themselves "
lol@ jump on the bandwagon? why do you all continue to repeat this garbage
you're basically marginalizing the large numbers of blk women who made significant contributions to the feminist movement from its inception
blk women were more likely than white women to support feminism and feminist issues when the movement first began because we not afforded the same protections as our white counterparts and we've always had to work for a living
i myself am a feminist because of the teachings and writings of blk women from today and the past...
and regardless of whether most tribes in pre-colonial africa were patriarchal. doesn't mean that relations between blk men and women were so much better. african women were often married off young and denied the same rights as men, same as they are in modern day africa. so why continue the perpetration of patriarchal thinking and not taking steps to correct it?