aneed123;784580 said:I just like discussing religion. a lot of these questions u cant really ask u preacher or if u do u get the same biblical type answers instead of the real. I really couldnt discuss this type of stuff with older family members cuz they would get defensive and mad. when u go thru stuff and prayed and nothing happened u have questions
that's where i strongly disagree...
and that's why i keep telling yall about bible college...
every preacher/pastor/reverand isn't the same....
some are extremely down to earth, some have absolutely no problems keeping it realistic, logical and all that...
a lot of them came from shady backgrounds, and have personally witnessed a chain of events bringing them to the point they're at in life, and use their experinces as a walking testamonie....
sooooo many ppl get caugfht uo in the correuption of a few that they miss out on the reallness ang geunie expernices of those that are really ehre to help ppl with the same struggles they once been throguh themselves...
a lot more people need to understand that it's verypossible a certain church or preacher may not be the one for them, and they need to move around until they find the enviorment that best suits their religious pursuit...
anyone with the questions in life that are posed in this thgread really do not belong in a old fashion church on sunday mornings where there's nothign but a lotta shouting and no real learning taking place.....
i really wish all of yall could have done what i did to get back into church, but all i can continue to tell u is how it wokred for me and hope that some of theose who have the questions and desires get something from waht i type...
find a teachging church, a pator who has regular classes where the word is taugh along with questions being asked..
anmd find a pastor who is willing to talk to u on the level where it will actualy sink, and u feel comfortable that yall really having a constructive conversation on the matters...
trust me it makes a difference
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