As women get older they begin to see the value in the nice guy?

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real talk.........it's not that "bitter" dudes are saying something that is so untrue

we all know some stupid chicks out there who ain't checking for genuinely good guys

but I think majority of these "nice guys" don't realize that people aren't going to join them in a rant against a socially marginalized female

if a female is too dumb to invest properly in her future by spending time she can't get back with a guy that shows some genuine potential, vs. some breeding kids for a carbon copy pseudo-thug, why be upset that she is the way she is

real men don't get upset at hoes for being hoes...............that's like being mad at the sun cause it shines, or being mad at the clouds cause it rained

nigga you'll never stop being angry if you disdain nature like that

life if too damn short to be trying to rescue confused slores...................nigga upgrade, live yo life, and stop worrying about some bum bitch existing in the gutter

that is why these threads are always pointless
 
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shadb33;1753805 said:
women in their mid 20s should have moved on to older men by then...dudes in their 20s just now getting money and all these options of women...women from the age of 16-17 (18 legally) have men from all ages hollering at them..yall be burnt out by the mid/late 20s and ready to settle down...men on the otherhand are at the bottom of the totem pole at 18..usually no money, no car, no good job, etc...all the shit women like..so when a nigga finally graduate, get bread, get a nice whip he aint tryin settle down with women that were dissing him a few years earlier when he has all the options in the world now...u should date dudes closer to 30

Nah I'm good... im with a good dude thats a couple years older than me...

i was just replying to the thread...

I can say as a young buck and still now, i was never comfortable with dating men older than me... Just seems weird...then again, i didn't date much period so idk...
 
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blakfyahking;1753827 said:
real talk.........it's not that "bitter" dudes are saying something that is so untrue

we all know some stupid chicks out there who ain't checking for genuinely good guys

but I think majority of these "nice guys" don't realize that people aren't going to join them in a rant against a socially marginalized female

if a female is too dumb to invest properly in her future by spending time she can't get back with a guy that shows some genuine potential, vs. some breeding kids for a carbon copy pseudo-thug, why be upset that she is the way she is

real men don't get upset at hoes for being hoes...............that's like being mad at the sun cause it shines, or being mad at the clouds cause it rained

nigga you'll never stop being angry if you disdain nature like that

life if too damn short to be trying to rescue confused slores...................nigga upgrade, live yo life, and stop worrying about some bum bitch existing in the gutter

that is why these threads are always pointless

a+ post...good job sir
 
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TazManianRebel;1751081 said:
Translation:

As we get older, fat, and out of shape, and stuck with a bunch of out of wedlock bastard kids that nobody wants we'll reinvent ourselves as born again christian women and "settle" for a nice guy who will pay all the bills.

Pretty much sums it all up.
 
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I should make some responses for the threads that I always see over and over and save them

that way I could just copy and paste my response for when the thread inevitably comes up
 
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shadb33;1753805 said:
women in their mid 20s should have moved on to older men by then...dudes in their 20s just now getting money and all these options of women...women from the age of 16-17 (18 legally) have men from all ages hollering at them..yall be burnt out by the mid/late 20s and ready to settle down...men on the otherhand are at the bottom of the totem pole at 18..usually no money, no car, no good job, etc...all the shit women like..so when a nigga finally graduate, get bread, get a nice whip he aint tryin settle down with women that were dissing him a few years earlier when he has all the options in the world now...u should date dudes closer to 30

Pretty much...I read somewhere that women & men switch in desirability. Shit made me chuckle.

At 17, most women are the shit. Sexy, young, in their prime. At 37, not so much.

At 17, most men are at their worst. Broke, not finished school, still with the parents. At 37, if we did things right, we ballin.
 
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blakfyahking;1753827 said:
real talk.........it's not that "bitter" dudes are saying something that is so untrue

we all know some stupid chicks out there who ain't checking for genuinely good guys

but I think majority of these "nice guys" don't realize that people aren't going to join them in a rant against a socially marginalized female

if a female is too dumb to invest properly in her future by spending time she can't get back with a guy that shows some genuine potential, vs. some breeding kids for a carbon copy pseudo-thug, why be upset that she is the way she is

real men don't get upset at hoes for being hoes...............that's like being mad at the sun cause it shines, or being mad at the clouds cause it rained

nigga you'll never stop being angry if you disdain nature like that

life if too damn short to be trying to rescue confused slores...................nigga upgrade, live yo life, and stop worrying about some bum bitch existing in the gutter

that is why these threads are always pointless

Word, this is the best post.
 
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this shit again?

yall find different ways to rehash the same shit over and over...we know women do this and it wont change.

women in their prime want alpha males...if youre a beta, it is what it is...bide your time, study, get your crib straight, and do you.

why fight this shit...its not gonna change
 
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blakfyahking;1753827 said:
real talk.........it's not that "bitter" dudes are saying something that is so untrue

we all know some stupid chicks out there who ain't checking for genuinely good guys

but I think majority of these "nice guys" don't realize that people aren't going to join them in a rant against a socially marginalized female

if a female is too dumb to invest properly in her future by spending time she can't get back with a guy that shows some genuine potential, vs. some breeding kids for a carbon copy pseudo-thug, why be upset that she is the way she is

real men don't get upset at hoes for being hoes...............that's like being mad at the sun cause it shines, or being mad at the clouds cause it rained

nigga you'll never stop being angry if you disdain nature like that

life if too damn short to be trying to rescue confused slores...................nigga upgrade, live yo life, and stop worrying about some bum bitch existing in the gutter

that is why these threads are always pointless

Bruh Bruh....we gone act like there aint hoes out chea trying to better themselves LOL. I go to Howard....HOWARD!!! Half these chicks is smeezy beezys.
 
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Maalik;1753891 said:
Bruh Bruh....we gone act like there aint hoes out chea trying to better themselves LOL. I go to Howard....HOWARD!!! Half these chicks is smeezy beezys.

exactly..........and cats keep speaking out on these same smuts and it ends up just encouraging them to camoflauge themselves

it's basic economics LOL

the demand for hoes will always be there bruh, ain't no use trying to fight it.............now hoes feel encouraged to mix in with the decent chicks and makes it harder for everybody to get what they want

it's just like the drug wars govts keep fighting to no avail

let them hoes be who they really are bruh........the good chicks aren't going to disappear if men are still genuinely checking for them

and if you want to sample a smut, then all you got to do is play your position.......just front like you are an alpha male to get the pussy. and as soon as you get it, keep it moving

but niggaz want to keep it real with smuts, go figure

SMH @ trying to be a "nice guy" but still wanting to get with a hoe............these niggaz trying save smuts is what's fucking up the equilibrium of everything that is right LMAO
 
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real talk Maalik....people always ask me why I never wifed up a chick at Howard...I had to give them the SHAQ face...these broads was getting ran thru FRESHMAN WEEK...the first week broads was getting fucked outside and shit...from then on I knew this was a time just to let hoes be hoes and just have fun while I'm getting my bread up....I don't kno why dudes mad..u gotta separate ur emotions from sex...after u realize pussy is abundant and it's not special u not gonna care if one chick aint feelin u and u gonna keep it movin...we young, we shouldnt be tryin settle down anyways
 
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Nice guys usually end up with a nice white/foreign women that bitter black women with illegitimate kids give the stank face when they see out in public so its all good.
 
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The_Introvert;1754104 said:
Nice guys usually end up with a nice white/foreign women that bitter black women with illegitimate kids give the stank face when they see out in public so its all good.

Lmao. Y'all GOTTA get off of this interracial thing you're on. It's 2010... pussy is, has, and always will be pink no matter the ethnicity(nationality, whatever)
 
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Using salt water bait in a fresh water pond... so many pointers in this classic debate.

Some people ain't shit. Some ppl live their lives surrounded by shit, which turns out to be great fertilizer. Take care of these ppl so long as they take care of you.
 
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blakfyahking;1753933 said:
exactly..........and cats keep speaking out on these same smuts and it ends up just encouraging them to camoflauge themselves

it's basic economics LOL

the demand for hoes will always be there bruh, ain't no use trying to fight it.............now hoes feel encouraged to mix in with the decent chicks and makes it harder for everybody to get what they want

it's just like the drug wars govts keep fighting to no avail

let them hoes be who they really are bruh........the good chicks aren't going to disappear if men are still genuinely checking for them

and if you want to sample a smut, then all you got to do is play your position.......just front like you are an alpha male to get the pussy. and as soon as you get it, keep it moving

but niggaz want to keep it real with smuts, go figure

SMH @ trying to be a "nice guy" but still wanting to get with a hoe............these niggaz trying save smuts is what's fucking up the equilibrium of everything that is right LMAO
*Signs up for blakfiyahking's Econosmutrics 101 course*

So you're saying market equilibrium cannot be attained when nice guys take the wrong approach/angle to bagging smut bags?

Is there an equitable distribution of smuts though, or is there only one group/style of men taking advantage of them?
 
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blakfyahking;1753933 said:
exactly..........and cats keep speaking out on these same smuts and it ends up just encouraging them to camoflauge themselves

it's basic economics LOL

the demand for hoes will always be there bruh, ain't no use trying to fight it.............now hoes feel encouraged to mix in with the decent chicks and makes it harder for everybody to get what they want

it's just like the drug wars govts keep fighting to no avail

let them hoes be who they really are bruh........the good chicks aren't going to disappear if men are still genuinely checking for them

and if you want to sample a smut, then all you got to do is play your position.......just front like you are an alpha male to get the pussy. and as soon as you get it, keep it moving

but niggaz want to keep it real with smuts, go figure

SMH @ trying to be a "nice guy" but still wanting to get with a hoe............these niggaz trying save smuts is what's fucking up the equilibrium of everything that is right LMAO

That does sound stupid as shit once you read it in print LOL...
 
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shadb33;1753974 said:
real talk Maalik....people always ask me why I never wifed up a chick at Howard...I had to give them the SHAQ face...these broads was getting ran thru FRESHMAN WEEK...the first week broads was getting fucked outside and shit...from then on I knew this was a time just to let hoes be hoes and just have fun while I'm getting my bread up....I don't kno why dudes mad..u gotta separate ur emotions from sex...after u realize pussy is abundant and it's not special u not gonna care if one chick aint feelin u and u gonna keep it movin...we young, we shouldnt be tryin settle down anyways

Word....niggas be coming to Howard thinking because its a 70-30% gender split that its gone be MAD easy finding a good girl.

Nope LOL. Everybody fucking everybody.

I can't fault some of these girls though. They know most niggas here is playing around....so they do the same to avoid getting hurt.
 
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i know plenty of nice guys who have no problems getting women.

i think we're confusing "nice" with (( possibly a better word )) "lames".

please let's not confuse this word with nerd also. i know plenty of nerdy "black" (( cuz some of you men swear we don't like them)) guys that are taking their pick in women prior to finishing school.

couple of things i wanted to point out here:

1. more than likely the so called "nice" guy isn't nice. He's just not in the position to get women using the same tactics the so called "thugs" are using. so they apply this "wolf in sheep's clothing" nice guy act to pursue women.

2. let's not pretend boys in high school and college are looking for future wives. maybe nonblack guys in college, but it damn sure ain't black dudes (( and I apologize if i seem like im bashing. . . .i honestly mean no disrespect )).

3. i've noticed that a lot of guys will sugar coat the main reason why women don't like them. take for example, guys say "women don't like nice guys" when in reality they may be unattractive or have boring personalities (( please don't confuse this with being a thug )). that's like a female complaining that men are intimidated by "smart" women, when the girl who's saying it weighs 350 pounds.

one thing that i did notice in this thread is that men want a partner when they aren't doing so well financially, but want to "explore their options" when they get their finances up.

. . . . . . just thought i'd point that out. =)
 
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simplyspeaking;1754778 said:
i know plenty of nice guys who have no problems getting women.

i think we're confusing "nice" with (( possibly a better word )) "lames".

please let's not confuse this word with nerd also. i know plenty of nerdy "black" (( cuz some of you men swear we don't like them)) guys that are taking their pick in women prior to finishing school.

couple of things i wanted to point out here:

1. more than likely the so called "nice" guy isn't nice. He's just not in the position to get women using the same tactics the so called "thugs" are using. so they apply this "wolf in sheep's clothing" nice guy act to pursue women.

2. let's not pretend boys in high school and college are looking for future wives. maybe nonblack guys in college, but it damn sure ain't black dudes (( and I apologize if i seem like im bashing. . . .i honestly mean no disrespect )).

3. i've noticed that a lot of guys will sugar coat the main reason why women don't like them. take for example, guys say "women don't like nice guys" when in reality they may be unattractive or have boring personalities (( please don't confuse this with being a thug )). that's like a female complaining that men are intimidated by "smart" women, when the girl who's saying it weighs 350 pounds.

one thing that i did notice in this thread is that men want a partner when they aren't doing so well financially, but want to "explore their options" when they get their finances up.

. . . . . . just thought i'd point that out. =)

We just want to know you're with us for us. Easy to get women when you're living the life.
 
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