As women get older they begin to see the value in the nice guy?

[simplyspeaking]

Never said I wanted a black woman....

and finally . . . . . . . the truth is out.

you don't like black women (( which is perfectly fine, seeing as that most don't like you either )) so why are you constantly talking about black women ?

and please. don't for one second think that i believe that you don't like black women.

you more than likely don't like the fact that they don't like you.

(( although im getting the feeling you ain't black yourself ))

 

[5th Letter]

"nice guy" is very subjective and most women do want a nice guy, but one who is also strong and is not a pushover.

 

[Crude_]

Most females view that nice guy as a pushover, wimp, or just generally boring and unexciting. True enough some of those guys are like that. There are some other nice guys that aren't like that though, but they still get pushed to the side for the thugs and bad boys because women are encouraged to go after that hyper masculine male. They view those men's carefree attitude and ability not to be controlled by them as exciting and a challenge. The problem is many women enter those relationships and situations with those men thinking those men will eventually change. That usually doesn't happen.

Many of those hyper masculine fellas keep doing their thing and never change. Generally by that time the ladies have brought a child into the situation and now have realized the error of their thinking. What appeared attractive to her as a young adult woman is not what is so attractive to her now that she has become a slightly more mature adult woman.

Thats usually when they go searching out some nice guy or guy they perceive as being "nice" to play that role as captain save a hoe. Sometimes they get lucky other times they don't and end up having to raise and rear those children sired from a previous relationship or relationships with those hyper masculine males. Some become bitter and adopt that "niccas aren't shit attitude."

 

[TazManianRebel]

Black females need to do better, stop complaing about not being married, at 30 after spending your young years as a free porn star, and baby making machine. If anyone that don’t agree with me, I bet you to go on any networking site and take a look at the females from ages 18 to 35 and take note what type of man they want.

All of them looking for bad guys, no good ni$$as,. Here’s a little advice to, bad guys aren’t the ones that go marry you, you’ll be with one for years but he still running to the club and selling drugs out the car your mama or daddy brought you or the house you stay in with your child. I say all this beacause I love the black woman and i want to see you do better.

Do better black woman, stop looking for the guys that just got out of jail, stop trying to be baby mama, 3,4,5,6,7 and 8. Get this thing called R-E-S-P-E-C-T if you don’t have it for yourself, don’t expect anyone else to have it for you.

Stop being materialistic, and money hungry and sex crazy, and if I hear of another woman with trying to expire to be the next Superhead, Kat Stacks or any other black female that is putting our race to shame I am going to scream.

 

[allreasoned_out]

i think the problems with nice guys is that they aren't really all that nice. they are wimps and doormats. and no woman wants a man she can run. i want a good, principled, strong, upstanding man. a "nice" guy tho? what does that even mean? when i hear that phrase instantly what comes to mind is a guy that lets chicks walk all over him. women for the most part want the alpha-male and the nice guy usually doesn't fit that profile

Do you realize that nothing you said after the bolded supports the bolded?

 

[TazManianRebel]

To all my nice guys:

Never sacrifice your integrity for the sake of getting laid. You can become so caught up in this game that you'll eventually forget who you really are. At one point I started to blame myself, thought I was a pushover, I started to mistake being an asshole for my masculine energy. I didn't lie to females, wasn't a player, rarely into the superficial BS, was on my grind, etc. In my attempt to adopt a persona that wasn't me I changed my style of dress, lost interest in some of my hobbies (science fiction novels, sketching, eastern philosophy, drum and bass music) and traded it in for a cool pose that I thought would land me in the "in" crowd. Sure enough I started to get laid. Bitches gravitated to my vanity. Set up a date dont show up... BAM! that bitch is chasing me harder. Start an argument for no fucking reason.... BAM! that bitch is turned on... it turned me into someone I didn't want to be. Got involved with people I shouldn't have got involved with. Got into some real deep shit. One day it finally dawned on me that I was so far gone from what I used to be that I didn't even recognize myself and it disgusted me...... I gradually started cutting people off, and coming back to my senses. I made a pact with myself to never loose the essence of who I was no matter what. And fuck society if they shunned me for it. Yes the genuine nice guy does exist, but we live in an era where people want a perception of coolness rather than a HUMAN BEING. The narcissistic generation driven by whatevers popular. FUCK EM.

atleast you get the BIG picture....thanks bruh for defending the good brothas,not the thugs

 

[allreasoned_out]

To all my nice guys:

Never sacrifice your integrity for the sake of getting laid. You can become so caught up in this game that you'll eventually forget who you really are. At one point I started to blame myself, thought I was a pushover, I started to mistake being an asshole for my masculine energy. I didn't lie to females, wasn't a player, rarely into the superficial BS, was on my grind, etc. In my attempt to adopt a persona that wasn't me I changed my style of dress, lost interest in some of my hobbies (science fiction novels, sketching, eastern philosophy, drum and bass music) and traded it in for a cool pose that I thought would land me in the "in" crowd. Sure enough I started to get laid. Bitches gravitated to my vanity. Set up a date dont show up... BAM! that bitch is chasing me harder. Start an argument for no fucking reason.... BAM! that bitch is turned on... it turned me into someone I didn't want to be. Got involved with people I shouldn't have got involved with. Got into some real deep shit. One day it finally dawned on me that I was so far gone from what I used to be that I didn't even recognize myself and it disgusted me...... I gradually started cutting people off, and coming back to my senses. I made a pact with myself to never loose the essence of who I was no matter what. And fuck society if they shunned me for it. Yes the genuine nice guy does exist, but we live in an era where people want a perception of coolness rather than a HUMAN BEING. The narcissistic generation driven by whatevers popular. FUCK EM.

I've never changed to make myself more acceptable to women, but I can certainly understand the the temptation. I applaud you for coming back to your senses, as you call it.

 

[one_manshow]

Women (ones living in North America) are like vechiles as they get older they accumulate more miles on their engine (mentally and physically) so as a man its critical you can spot/seperate the hoodrats from the real ones. They pass up the "nice guy" while they in their early twenties and come 30s they start looking for prince charming. If you travel outside of the U.S you might appreciate women more I recommend it for all of you reformed nice guys who are frustrated. The environment and media has a lot to do with all this "nice guy" stuff...get yourself a cultured chick with morals and principles and stop putting these American smuts on a pedestal.

 

[TazManianRebel]

If these females out here could still pull bad boys at their age/weight/etc. they wouldn't give a shit about the nice guy,it's just that their only option is a good guy.

Nice guys need to ask themselves: why wasn't this woman interested in nice guys when she was in her prime? Why only after she has had her fun and sown her oats does she now want anything to do with you? Usually it isn't merely about companionship either, she wants some tangible resource like financial or emotional security. In 99% of cases the guy will not see her reciprocate if he ever needs her to so it's a bad deal from it's inception.

as i said earlier.... women expect the guy to be willing to give without thought of reciprocity, while the woman expects to get something for nothing....so who's selfish?

 

[TazManianRebel]

Ladies here's a tip:

So, if you're looking for a nice guy, here's what you do:

1.) Build a time machine.

2.) Go back a few years and pull your head out of your ass.

3.) Take a look at what's right in front of you and grab a hold of it.

I suppose the other possibility is that you STILL don't really want a nice guy, but you feel the social pressure to at least appear to have matured beyond your infantile taste in men. In which case, you might be in luck, because the nice guy you claim to want has, in reality, shed his nice guy mantle and is out there looking to unleash his cynicism and resentment onto someone just like you.

If you were five years younger.

So, please: either stop misrepresenting what you want, or own up to the fact that you've f***ed yourself over. You're getting older, after all. It's time to excise the bullshit and deal with reality. You didn't want a nice guy then, and he certainly doesn't want you, now.

 

[The_Introvert]

and finally . . . . . . . the truth is out.

you don't like black women (( which is perfectly fine, seeing as that most don't like you either )) so why are you constantly talking about black women ?

and please. don't for one second think that i believe that you don't like black women.

you more than likely don't like the fact that they don't like you.

(( although im getting the feeling you ain't black yourself ))

LOL Never that homegirl, I could PM u some pics for proof. I know it's a little hard to figure out a nigga when he aint on that stereotypical act but right now I'm just keeping it REAL.

 

[Tupacfan]

every experience is a lesson learned.. And I'm pretty sure their are plenty of them..

Vise versa with men.. As they get older they take on more responsibility and snap out of that playa shit..

With age everybody grows.. And that's life.. plain and simple..

 

[haute]

I could've sworn that I've posted in a thread like this b4 so I'll give this post away for free

Edit: Nvrmind...how the fuck do these threads keep going plat when this shit has been discussed numerous times over?

A scorned lover can talk about their feelings forever

Especially when it's clear they need a little therapy

 

[TazManianRebel]

why do sistas always think that you dont like them when you speak the truth about them?

if you had a good upbringing which some of yall did, you will know what a good man is

some of yall dont know what a good man is

 

[A$AP_A$TON]

Word to Michael Cera's movies:

Ha!..............

Lol@ Joey Greco sayin cuzzo and nigga. Dat is very trill.

 

[jbrooks229]

cause they not knowing they hoes till its to late... one late night she gettin bust down and like a got 8 kids by 7 niggas

light bulb moment

 

[TazManianRebel]

it shouldnt take a woman to get old as hell to appreciate anything good.every woman and man purpose in life is to find that special someone in the beginning of their lives not the end after being worn out and full of issues.I hate when a woman spreads her love to random men,poppin out babies then after going through all the BS with these no good ass niggaz want to finally give a good man the time of day

if you can spend all of your time and dedicate all your time with a dog why cant you dedicate that time in a good man?

 

[Iheart~Cali]

Why do you keep changing your name? To give off the impression that alot of people are chronic whiners like yourself?

 

[Gnawledgeable]

Why do you keep changing your name? To give off the impression that alot of people are chronic whiners like yourself?

Lmao. I was thinking the same thing! The T/S thread topics always give him away. I know he's telling the truth on the most part but constantly doing it, people would think he's bitter (if he is or not).

 

[Crude_]

Lmao. I was thinking the same thing! The T/S thread topics always give him away. I know he's telling the truth on the most part but constantly doing it, people would think he's bitter (if he is or not).

T/S isn't McGheeAKey is it? I think he was the poster with the Snoop Dog avatar back in the summer always making threads about women, relationships, and the nice guy.