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dusouljah;1751779 said:nice guy=/= pushover...
but yall don't hear me though
kai_valya;1751702 said:i think the problems with nice guys is that they aren't really all that nice. they are wimps and doormats. and no woman wants a man she can run. i want a good, principled, strong, upstanding man. a "nice" guy tho? what does that even mean? when i hear that phrase instantly what comes to mind is a guy that lets chicks walk all over him. women for the most part want the alpha-male and the nice guy usually doesn't fit that profile
no woman wants a man she can run
thehonorable;1751712 said:Im a nice guy. women love me.
Oh...but I don't take no shit either. And I was known to throw a nigga threw a wall back in college.
dj expanium;1751737 said:The term "nigga" is now dead and lost it's meaning!!!!
Any man can be nice at any given time, if even you don't know who they are. Men and women need to value having relationships with more respectable mates than anything else instead of just wasting time with useless ones in general.
Men and women need to value having relationships with more respectable mates than anything else instead of just wasting time with useless ones in general
dusouljah;1751812 said:nice guy=/= boring either...
ppl equate the wrong characteristics with a nice guy....
all a nice guy is, is someone who is courteous and treats women with respect...
that doesn't mean he's a pushover, a pussy, socially awkward, broke, ugly, fat, nerdy, boring or anything else that falls into that category...
and dudes that fall into that category need to stop blaming their failure with women on being a nice guy....it's not because you're nice... it's because of some of those reasons i listed....
you'll never be able to help urself until u properly diagnose your problem to begin with..
kai_valya;1751702 said:i think the problems with nice guys is that they aren't really all that nice. they are wimps and doormats. and no woman wants a man she can run. i want a good, principled, strong, upstanding man. a "nice" guy tho? what does that even mean? when i hear that phrase instantly what comes to mind is a guy that lets chicks walk all over him. women for the most part want the alpha-male and the nice guy usually doesn't fit that profile
TazManianRebel;1751081 said:Translation:
As we get older, fat, and out of shape, and stuck with a bunch of out of wedlock bastard kids that nobody wants we'll reinvent ourselves as born again christian women and "settle" for a nice guy who will pay all the bills.
kai_valya;1752160 said:i'm not in that situation at all, and i'd like to know what i wrote that was false. the phrase is nice guys finish last for a reason. i'm married to the same guy i met at 18 and don't have any kids. but i'm not checking for a "nice" guy. i need a man with a backbone. my hubby is kind to me, but he's not a "nice guy" in the sense that i can run or take advantage of him.
and kevmic, from your post i gather that nice guys can't have big dicks or street cred huh?
kai_valya;1752192 said:i'm going by what a "nice guy" really means, almost always, it's a euphemism for doormat. i'm not checking for a weak man sorry. am i supposed to have sympathy for a dumb chick that keeps lettin herself get played cuz she listens to men's lies, no, so why would i feel sorry for a man who's too weak to stand up for himself and not get taken advantage of. who's fault is it really?
kai_valya;1752262 said:i would only date/interact with someone who was nice to me. and i think you are misunderstanding me. i love chivalry and acts of kindness, i think that's part of being a decent human being. my husband has always been nice to me and treated me with respect. what i'm talking about is the other side of what is referred to as a "nice-guy". guys that will let hoes cheat on them, tricking off unnecessarily, let her talk to him any which way, disrespect him and he still puts up with it. there are women that are that way as well, just doormats. being a doormat doesn't make you a nice person, it makes you weak.
TazManianRebel;1752398 said:i dont get this part though
women will dedicate all of her time with a man who doesnt do right by her
he constantly cheats and beats her ,but she's faithful to this nigga hoping someday he will change for the better
women will overlook and mistreat a man who does right by her
i feel some women arent use to anybody doing good by her so she punishes the good man for what tyrone has done to her throughout the relationship
TazManianRebel;1752398 said:i dont get this part though
women will dedicate all of her time with a man who doesnt do right by her
shenco;1752486 said:Time out! At what point did being a "nice guy" mean being a doormat? I thought it always meant just treating your lady right, not being a yes man or no ish like that. Kai you on that bs right now with that one