Abraxas/Khaleesi What's Really Going On/ The Life of Pablo the Hobo
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AP21;9408490 said:Kat;9408473 said:AP21;9408455 said:Khaleesi;9408378 said:Trillfate;9408286 said:
@Trillfate
I feel indifferent about it because the reasons why they felt that way are not the reasons why we broke up.
Truth is, I've changed a lot in the past year. It's like I've been moving forward and my husband has been staying perfectly still. He is comfortable with our current living situation.. He doesn't have the ambition that I do to want more. I don't wanna be an employee all of my life. I wanna be a boss, I wanna own my own practice, be a home owner, etc. I can't do all of that if my partner does not share the same ambition and dreams that I do.
He also does not share the same passion that I do regarding enriching the lives of black people... My people. I plan to open a practice in a predominantly black neighborhood and provide free physicals and health screenings for the uninsured. I also have many ideas of products that can be used for black women and black women only.
He refuses to come to BLM protests with me and just ignores me when I preach about social injustices. Him not being supportive with that is my biggest issue.
When I was cooning back then he was the one teaching me and showing me how shit is and how white supremacy is real in this country.... And its like the more confident and self assured that I became about myself and my race... The more he regressed and started saying stupid shit like "I'm not on any side". Where I would then reply, "you saying that you're not on any side means that you've chose the side of the oppressor". This is the main reason why I came to terms with the fact that we are no longer compatible.
I want to be with a partner that shares the same beliefs, passion, and has the same ambition as I do. @Simplicius just happens to be all of that and more.
Yeah we haven't met yet, but when we talk... He be saying shit that trips me out because it's like he's reading my mind. It's like he is me and I am him. He be telling me word for word things that I be saying in my head and I can do nothing but stay quiet every time that happens. I stay shook like
Shit is real trippy.
But yeah, my husband is an amazing father and he is a good person. We're on good terms, we have the utmost respect for each other and we're gonna do whatever is best for our daughter. She's always gonna have easy access to both parents and she's always gonna see nothing but love between us.
you know he can read this right?
Maybe he needs to..
c'mon kat
lets say this has a 1% chance of being true. With Khaleesi's trolling past, why would you she put all that stuff out there like that and expect people to believe it?
I mean, again, going with the 1% chance, I hope cooler heads will prevail and they can work it out, but im skeptical af about its legitmacy.
But at the end of the day, we're all just avatars giving unsolicited opinions on shit that really dont concern us in the first place
Cause she don't give a fuck and at the end of the day we ARE just avatars. Trust, it's coming from someone that has shared plenty.
She be trolling, but she be telling the truth too.
Khaleesi;9408485 said:AP21;9408455 said:Khaleesi;9408378 said:Trillfate;9408286 said:
@Trillfate
I feel indifferent about it because the reasons why they felt that way are not the reasons why we broke up.
Truth is, I've changed a lot in the past year. It's like I've been moving forward and my husband has been staying perfectly still. He is comfortable with our current living situation.. He doesn't have the ambition that I do to want more. I don't wanna be an employee all of my life. I wanna be a boss, I wanna own my own practice, be a home owner, etc. I can't do all of that if my partner does not share the same ambition and dreams that I do.
He also does not share the same passion that I do regarding enriching the lives of black people... My people. I plan to open a practice in a predominantly black neighborhood and provide free physicals and health screenings for the uninsured. I also have many ideas of products that can be used for black women and black women only.
He refuses to come to BLM protests with me and just ignores me when I preach about social injustices. Him not being supportive with that is my biggest issue.
When I was cooning back then he was the one teaching me and showing me how shit is and how white supremacy is real in this country.... And its like the more confident and self assured that I became about myself and my race... The more he regressed and started saying stupid shit like "I'm not on any side". Where I would then reply, "you saying that you're not on any side means that you've chose the side of the oppressor". This is the main reason why I came to terms with the fact that we are no longer compatible.
I want to be with a partner that shares the same beliefs, passion, and has the same ambition as I do. @Simplicius just happens to be all of that and more.
Yeah we haven't met yet, but when we talk... He be saying shit that trips me out because it's like he's reading my mind. It's like he is me and I am him. He be telling me word for word things that I be saying in my head and I can do nothing but stay quiet every time that happens. I stay shook like
Shit is real trippy.
But yeah, my husband is an amazing father and he is a good person. We're on good terms, we have the utmost respect for each other and we're gonna do whatever is best for our daughter. She's always gonna have easy access to both parents and she's always gonna see nothing but love between us.
you know he can read this right?
Yall underestimate how much of an honest person I am.
If anything I am too honest.
MistyKnight
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i ro ny;9408483 said:
We are, which is why we agree that this is what's best.
Some parents that stay together because of the kids end up being worst for the kids than if they had actually separated. Kids can sense everything. I wouldn't want her to deal with any tension between her father and I simply because we felt the need to stay together for her.
Kat;9408497 said:AP21;9408490 said:Kat;9408473 said:AP21;9408455 said:Khaleesi;9408378 said:Trillfate;9408286 said:
@Trillfate
I feel indifferent about it because the reasons why they felt that way are not the reasons why we broke up.
Truth is, I've changed a lot in the past year. It's like I've been moving forward and my husband has been staying perfectly still. He is comfortable with our current living situation.. He doesn't have the ambition that I do to want more. I don't wanna be an employee all of my life. I wanna be a boss, I wanna own my own practice, be a home owner, etc. I can't do all of that if my partner does not share the same ambition and dreams that I do.
He also does not share the same passion that I do regarding enriching the lives of black people... My people. I plan to open a practice in a predominantly black neighborhood and provide free physicals and health screenings for the uninsured. I also have many ideas of products that can be used for black women and black women only.
He refuses to come to BLM protests with me and just ignores me when I preach about social injustices. Him not being supportive with that is my biggest issue.
When I was cooning back then he was the one teaching me and showing me how shit is and how white supremacy is real in this country.... And its like the more confident and self assured that I became about myself and my race... The more he regressed and started saying stupid shit like "I'm not on any side". Where I would then reply, "you saying that you're not on any side means that you've chose the side of the oppressor". This is the main reason why I came to terms with the fact that we are no longer compatible.
I want to be with a partner that shares the same beliefs, passion, and has the same ambition as I do. @Simplicius just happens to be all of that and more.
Yeah we haven't met yet, but when we talk... He be saying shit that trips me out because it's like he's reading my mind. It's like he is me and I am him. He be telling me word for word things that I be saying in my head and I can do nothing but stay quiet every time that happens. I stay shook like
Shit is real trippy.
But yeah, my husband is an amazing father and he is a good person. We're on good terms, we have the utmost respect for each other and we're gonna do whatever is best for our daughter. She's always gonna have easy access to both parents and she's always gonna see nothing but love between us.
you know he can read this right?
Maybe he needs to..
c'mon kat
lets say this has a 1% chance of being true. With Khaleesi's trolling past, why would you she put all that stuff out there like that and expect people to believe it?
I mean, again, going with the 1% chance, I hope cooler heads will prevail and they can work it out, but im skeptical af about its legitmacy.
But at the end of the day, we're all just avatars giving unsolicited opinions on shit that really dont concern us in the first place
Cause she don't give a fuck and at the end of the day we ARE just avatars. Trust, it's coming from someone that has shared plenty.
She be trolling, but she be telling the truth too.
u wrote a retirement letter to the internet tho
Elzo69Renaissance
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Kat;9408452 said:
Foh w that shit ....my mentor told me 5 years into his marriage they knew they werent meant to work out...but they had kids thugged it out raised the kids into adulthood in a healthy 2 parent environment finally got divorced 2 yrs ago
Max.;9408509 said:Kat;9408497 said:AP21;9408490 said:Kat;9408473 said:AP21;9408455 said:Khaleesi;9408378 said:Trillfate;9408286 said:
@Trillfate
I feel indifferent about it because the reasons why they felt that way are not the reasons why we broke up.
Truth is, I've changed a lot in the past year. It's like I've been moving forward and my husband has been staying perfectly still. He is comfortable with our current living situation.. He doesn't have the ambition that I do to want more. I don't wanna be an employee all of my life. I wanna be a boss, I wanna own my own practice, be a home owner, etc. I can't do all of that if my partner does not share the same ambition and dreams that I do.
He also does not share the same passion that I do regarding enriching the lives of black people... My people. I plan to open a practice in a predominantly black neighborhood and provide free physicals and health screenings for the uninsured. I also have many ideas of products that can be used for black women and black women only.
He refuses to come to BLM protests with me and just ignores me when I preach about social injustices. Him not being supportive with that is my biggest issue.
When I was cooning back then he was the one teaching me and showing me how shit is and how white supremacy is real in this country.... And its like the more confident and self assured that I became about myself and my race... The more he regressed and started saying stupid shit like "I'm not on any side". Where I would then reply, "you saying that you're not on any side means that you've chose the side of the oppressor". This is the main reason why I came to terms with the fact that we are no longer compatible.
I want to be with a partner that shares the same beliefs, passion, and has the same ambition as I do. @Simplicius just happens to be all of that and more.
Yeah we haven't met yet, but when we talk... He be saying shit that trips me out because it's like he's reading my mind. It's like he is me and I am him. He be telling me word for word things that I be saying in my head and I can do nothing but stay quiet every time that happens. I stay shook like
Shit is real trippy.
But yeah, my husband is an amazing father and he is a good person. We're on good terms, we have the utmost respect for each other and we're gonna do whatever is best for our daughter. She's always gonna have easy access to both parents and she's always gonna see nothing but love between us.
you know he can read this right?
Maybe he needs to..
c'mon kat
lets say this has a 1% chance of being true. With Khaleesi's trolling past, why would you she put all that stuff out there like that and expect people to believe it?
I mean, again, going with the 1% chance, I hope cooler heads will prevail and they can work it out, but im skeptical af about its legitmacy.
But at the end of the day, we're all just avatars giving unsolicited opinions on shit that really dont concern us in the first place
Cause she don't give a fuck and at the end of the day we ARE just avatars. Trust, it's coming from someone that has shared plenty.
She be trolling, but she be telling the truth too.
u wrote a retirement letter to the internet tho
And the internet went nuts. What's your point?
OmegaConflict
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@Khaleesi do what kat did and run away with your child across the country til your husband decides to take you back.
Kat;9408513 said:Max.;9408509 said:Kat;9408497 said:AP21;9408490 said:Kat;9408473 said:AP21;9408455 said:Khaleesi;9408378 said:Trillfate;9408286 said:
@Trillfate
I feel indifferent about it because the reasons why they felt that way are not the reasons why we broke up.
Truth is, I've changed a lot in the past year. It's like I've been moving forward and my husband has been staying perfectly still. He is comfortable with our current living situation.. He doesn't have the ambition that I do to want more. I don't wanna be an employee all of my life. I wanna be a boss, I wanna own my own practice, be a home owner, etc. I can't do all of that if my partner does not share the same ambition and dreams that I do.
He also does not share the same passion that I do regarding enriching the lives of black people... My people. I plan to open a practice in a predominantly black neighborhood and provide free physicals and health screenings for the uninsured. I also have many ideas of products that can be used for black women and black women only.
He refuses to come to BLM protests with me and just ignores me when I preach about social injustices. Him not being supportive with that is my biggest issue.
When I was cooning back then he was the one teaching me and showing me how shit is and how white supremacy is real in this country.... And its like the more confident and self assured that I became about myself and my race... The more he regressed and started saying stupid shit like "I'm not on any side". Where I would then reply, "you saying that you're not on any side means that you've chose the side of the oppressor". This is the main reason why I came to terms with the fact that we are no longer compatible.
I want to be with a partner that shares the same beliefs, passion, and has the same ambition as I do. @Simplicius just happens to be all of that and more.
Yeah we haven't met yet, but when we talk... He be saying shit that trips me out because it's like he's reading my mind. It's like he is me and I am him. He be telling me word for word things that I be saying in my head and I can do nothing but stay quiet every time that happens. I stay shook like
Shit is real trippy.
But yeah, my husband is an amazing father and he is a good person. We're on good terms, we have the utmost respect for each other and we're gonna do whatever is best for our daughter. She's always gonna have easy access to both parents and she's always gonna see nothing but love between us.
you know he can read this right?
Maybe he needs to..
c'mon kat
lets say this has a 1% chance of being true. With Khaleesi's trolling past, why would you she put all that stuff out there like that and expect people to believe it?
I mean, again, going with the 1% chance, I hope cooler heads will prevail and they can work it out, but im skeptical af about its legitmacy.
But at the end of the day, we're all just avatars giving unsolicited opinions on shit that really dont concern us in the first place
Cause she don't give a fuck and at the end of the day we ARE just avatars. Trust, it's coming from someone that has shared plenty.
She be trolling, but she be telling the truth too.
u wrote a retirement letter to the internet tho
And the internet went nuts. What's your point?
Yeah 33 people went nuts
MistyKnight
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LPast;9408504 said:
I was hoping this would be the case but no.
Like I said, my husband is perfectly comfortable where he is at now. He doesn't have any ambition or motivation to strive for more.
He graduated 2 years ago with a bachelor's degree in IT and hasn't bothered applying to jobs to establish a career. He finally began applying to IT jobs when we started discussing separation (couple weeks ago).
I make literally 3 to 4 times his income.. And he's the one that has a bachelor's degree. That just speaks to the volume of ambition that I have. I'm always looking to better myself and give my daughter the life she deserves. My husband... Just doesn't have that drive. He is comfortable like I said. That doesn't necessarily make him a bad person. It's just not what I want.
willhustle
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I haven't read through this thread (and I'm not going to) but this whole damn thread seems to be a big mess. I don't understand how people let their personal lives spill out on to a website.
Elzo69Renaissance
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what s 3 or 4 times 0.....
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