numbaz...80's baby
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It's cheaper to keep her. My advice is dont get married again. Too many rules and too much money involved. Dont sign anymore birth certificates either.
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It seems like there are some very key details being left out. Mainly concerning things about u and or why the relationship just died. Either what your ambitions as a man were or your work ethic no longer matched what it was in the beginning. And this could be vice versa. But something is not being disclosed.
Most married people i know have their biggest hardships year 3-4 of marriage, happened for me too.
Good advice already been dropped. You probably just sticking around for your child; the biggest "sin" in this whole shit is to neglect a woman.
Be cordial and make co-parenting as easy as possible. Once you start dating around youll feel better.
Good advice already been dropped. You probably just sticking around for your child; the biggest "sin" in this whole shit is to neglect a woman.
Be cordial and make co-parenting as easy as possible. Once you start dating around youll feel better.
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its....JOHN B
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I would of talked divorce over with her and try to be cordial about it instead of surprising her with those papers, yup it's not going to end well and it is too late UNLESS you backtrack put your pride to the side and really try to make it work but it sounds like you don't want to do that, now your daughter is going to witness her mom holding a grudge against you
Rozetta5tone
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charles2;c-9741249 said:
Going through the same shit bruh.
Homie needs to take some accountability on his behalf. He tripping on lack of intimacy and it's probably because of some shit he isn't doing. Sounds like he's just looking for an excuse to break out on her.
5th Letter
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I wish I could hear her side of the story. But anyway y'all should get counseling and if that don't work then end it.
I mean yo, i kinda get it, but at the same time there is a baby involved man. How you try ending it in 6 months before going to counciling, taking a vacation, a mini break where all yall doing is trying to gather your thoughts and communicating through texts or whatever so ya'll dont fight.
I mean, if shit ends, it ends, and im sure there are details you not menrtioning, but, i feel like you shoulda tried harder for the baby man.
Real talk though, how old are ya'll and how old were ya'll when ya'll married?
I mean, if shit ends, it ends, and im sure there are details you not menrtioning, but, i feel like you shoulda tried harder for the baby man.
Real talk though, how old are ya'll and how old were ya'll when ya'll married?
jetlifebih
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I done just heard 2 grown ass men condone a women holding out on sex because "homie wasn't doing something right".....
Something I wish I would have learned in my last last relationship....but if shorty ain't mature enough to communicate what ever the issue may be and thinks you can read her mind then you shouldn't of married her anyway and need to get as far away as you can....that shit childish....shit ain't no prize possession it's plenty of fish (pun intended) in the sea that's willing to give it up that can communicate any issues they may have with any actions or lack of action
Something I wish I would have learned in my last last relationship....but if shorty ain't mature enough to communicate what ever the issue may be and thinks you can read her mind then you shouldn't of married her anyway and need to get as far away as you can....that shit childish....shit ain't no prize possession it's plenty of fish (pun intended) in the sea that's willing to give it up that can communicate any issues they may have with any actions or lack of action
babelipsss
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Sad situation. The wife doesn't want the divorce. Her reactions after being served says it all. This marriage still can be saved but it sounds like the t/s is not interested. The blind side divorce move was uncalled for. He should have been upfront with it.
SolemnSauce
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Trillfate;c-9741321 said:SolemnSauce;c-9741179 said:
Quitter
But u told @King_sorrow marriage is a waste of time and life..
Cant quit what u don't start
BiblicalAtheist
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babelipsss;c-9741422 said:
Maybe she was just pissed cuz he beat her too it?
My suggestion is to work/fight for your marriage. Some mentioned earlier that the first few years of marriage is the hardest, which I feel is very true. In my marriage our value system asks that both of us have to be selfless towards each other to a degree and effectively communicate issues to create solutions; not to attack a persons weakness/flaws. If she loves you, you should try to stay with her for your daughter.
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