4 years of marriage and now getting a divorce.

[T. Sanford]

I'm going to speak in general terms but judging from these social media outlets these days. People are so wishy washy in a relationship that you don't know what the status these days. The first minor adversity in a relationship & peeps are screaming "I'm single, I am done trusting people" then next minute/hour/week it's "I love my s/o, they're my world". Insecurity is estimated at an all time high

 

[VulcanRaven]

I didn't know Jesse Williams was an IC poster.

Threadstarter clearly specified he hasn't cheated, unlike Jesse "fraudulent" Williams.

He a fraud now kat dor being a man? Don't have fake outrage like black Twitter lol

Oh he's a MFn fraud.

From his BET speech.

“Now this is...for the black women, in particular, who have spent their lifetimes dedicated to nurturing everyone before themselves,” he said. “We can and will do better for you.”

Guess he wasn't referring to himself.

Still don't see how that makes him a fraud. Maybe his marriage fell apart? That does happen ya know.

 

[Kat]

So you gonna feign ignorance? Ok.

If you can't see how saying one thing and doing the exact opposite makes you a fraud, I'm going to assume you're a Trump supporter.

 

[deadeye]

I didn't know Jesse Williams was an IC poster.

Threadstarter clearly specified he hasn't cheated, unlike Jesse "fraudulent" Williams.

He a fraud now kat dor being a man? Don't have fake outrage like black Twitter lol

Oh he's a MFn fraud.

From his BET speech.

“Now this is...for the black women, in particular, who have spent their lifetimes dedicated to nurturing everyone before themselves,” he said. “We can and will do better for you.”

Guess he wasn't referring to himself.

nh

 

[7figz]

How some of y'all are trying to act like 6 months of that bullshit is nothing, is beyond me.

Then if dude would've cheated, I guess y'all would be saying he's foul ? Smh.

 

[VulcanRaven]

So you gonna feign ignorance? Ok.

If you can't see how saying one thing and doing the exact opposite makes you a fraud, I'm going to assume you're a Trump supporter.

Where did he do the opposite? This a personal relationship issue not a social one. Who he fucks is nobody's business and has nothing to do with what he stands for or said. You are feigning ignorance. No one knows what's happened in his relationship.

 

[Kat]

So you gonna feign ignorance? Ok.

If you can't see how saying one thing and doing the exact opposite makes you a fraud, I'm going to assume you're a Trump supporter.

Where did he do the opposite? This a personal relationship issue not a social one. Who he fucks is nobody's business and has nothing to do with what he stands for or said. You are feigning ignorance. No one knows what's happened in his relationship.

You're misunderstanding the cause for my disappointment. I'm not mad that their marriage failed, that happens all the time. It sucks but shit happens. I'm disappointed that he's not divorced from this woman, who has been by his side for 13 years, and he's fraternizing with some white female. It looks TERRIBLE. It looks hypocritical. It tarnishes the poignant message he shared with the world not all that long ago. It's just disappointing, that's all.

 

[VulcanRaven]

So you gonna feign ignorance? Ok.

If you can't see how saying one thing and doing the exact opposite makes you a fraud, I'm going to assume you're a Trump supporter.

Where did he do the opposite? This a personal relationship issue not a social one. Who he fucks is nobody's business and has nothing to do with what he stands for or said. You are feigning ignorance. No one knows what's happened in his relationship.

You're misunderstanding the cause for my disappointment. I'm not mad that their marriage failed, that happens all the time. It sucks but shit happens. I'm disappointed that he's not divorced from this woman, who has been by his side for 13 years, and he's fraternizing with some white female. It looks TERRIBLE. It looks hypocritical. It tarnishes the poignant message he shared with the world not all that long ago. It's just disappointing, that's all.

See that was your problem. You put a human on a pedestal. People will always disappoint no matter what.

 

[Kat]

Thanks, Dr Phil.

 

[VanguardBLK]

Hypocrisy is unattractive but we've all done it/ do it at some point in our lives.

It doesn't change the message of his speech and how it resonated at that particular moment in time.

We do not live in a world where truth and insight can only be provided by the truthful and wise.

 

[7figz]

@Kat, what beef do people with against Jesse Williams now ?

I just remembered who dude was. Thought it was all good.

 

[Kat]

I don't understand what you're asking.

 

[7figz]

I don't understand what you're asking.

What's going on with Jesse Williams, that he seems to be going from hero to most hated ? I'm out the loop on that one. All I saw recently is that he's separated or some shit.

 

[Kat]

Lol..did you read the thread? Its also discussed in that Shea butter thread.

I'm not diving back into that conversation.

 

[rickmogul]

Y do married women do this shit, seal off the pussy? I don't know about y'all but a great percentage of the time I will cut my nose off to spite my face meaning I'd have to give an ultimate. Mortgage, kids I know, some say no u won't. I know me and if I ain't happy the whole atmosphere gonna smell it. Tis is where where the healing starts for a man. That intimacy. She gonna need her emotional shit right? We'll, we got needs to. I hear about soooo many "SEXLESS" marriages and Do Fucking Not give me that kids / tired after work shit. In general, not aimed @ U OP! This is a tuff 1 fam. Follow ya heart this time. Wish u the best which ever way it goes. I can't get married fam.

 

[blacktux]

I didn't know Jesse Williams was an IC poster.

Threadstarter clearly specified he hasn't cheated, unlike Jesse "fraudulent" Williams.

whoa...how is jesse a fraud?

this is the first im hearing of this?

Divorced his black wife of 5 yrs for a white model that he cheated with

He got you niggas good

so must his side chick be black? would that make it better?

he does have a white parent...

I think y'all try to hard to discredit anyone who supports black people or cause.

Gotta practice what you preach or you just talkin shit

didn't mlk and Malcolm X smash white chicks?

a few Nazis had black chick when they fled to South America.

you can practice what you preach without it crossing into who you fukking.

so because you for the black cause you can't have marital problems with your black wife and can't have a white side. chick?

I wish yall would stop slandering the GOD name like that.

Malcolm wasnt preaching and fucking white women at the same time. After he cleaned up his life he never touched that white flesh again.

"Practicing what you preach" extends to every part of your life.

 

[Qiv_Owan]

"Shouldnt question if you ever stood a chance with em/ Better question is 'Did u enjoy the dance with em'..."

 

[jetlifebih]

Did you ever divorce that thot??

 

[Max.]

This bozo ran away from thia thread like he runs away from his life problems

 

[Koolest1]

There's two sides to every story.... betcha the wife has a good one