Your grown ass is too old to be shy

[Jonas.dini]

C/s this thread... shyness is for weaklings

 

[glowy]

im not shy i jus dont got shit to say

Basically. Sometimes niggas just ain't got shit to say.

Now, if you're talking about situations were the nigga should be obligated to speak up, but don't say shit, then that's a different story.

Edit: The first thing people ever heard me say in a group during freshman year at college was "fuck you nigga!"

 

[-Vincenzo-]

not necessarily.

in my experience, shy women tend to give you more drama on the back end

and what i mean by that is, where as a reg chick may raise hell every so often, the shy chick tends to be more passive aggressive.

those are the types that'll be cheating for months on the slick over some shit you did that she presented as a non issue.

or, when she finally explodes its totally out of proportion (whats happening is your getting years of pent up frustration in one fell swoop)

yeah you are right about that penning up frustration, happened to me before. the thing is both of them will start some drama at one point, but the shy one tends to do it in private and not on the regular. when you get the feeling she is loading up you can adress the issue in time.

the cheating stuff is a character trait that both can have, but speaking generally introverts tend to be more faithful which is only logic since they are getting less opportunities caused by their nature (common sense + scientifically proven)

 

[deaththreats]

I'm not "shy", I am however laid back and observant. I take in my surroundings and get a feel for what is going on. That might come off as me being quiet at first but I have no problem holding conversations and getting involved in group discussions provided I feel comfortable. I'm not a social butterfly in the least bit but hold my own in group dynamics although I prefer small groups/1 on 1.

DAMN .....we fit like a too small tank top on Aretha Franklin...that whole paragraph is me righ'thurrrr

 

[Colin$mackabi$h]

did u ask her why she didnt talk?

 

[fuc_i_look_like]

I wouldnt consider myself shy. I'm just not about to open up and be super friendly to m'fuccas I don't know too well or dont like. A lot of people perceive that as shyness. It's not, it's just being smart about who I choose to converse with. Random thoght: Have yall noticed white folks will tell you ALL of their personal business within minutes of meeting them?? Shit is so bizarre.

 

[fuc_i_look_like]

im not shy i jus dont got shit to say

this right chea. My white co-workers used to always ask me why I'm quiet. It's simple: because I dont got shit to say to yall. And not tryna partake in yalls boring ass conversation.

 

[Smo-King Locs]

i don't believe anybody is shy, some people are comfortable around ppl they don't know, while others need 2 get a feel...

 

[DanknDrank]

Yo pussy get wet quick huh.

lmao!!!..........

 

[Coby Vibes]

I might come across as shy when I first meet people. That's because I have to get a feel for people before I'm comfortable opening up and being myself around them.

that's reserved which I think is slightly different than shy. I consider myself reserved as well, but not shy

 

[RiGGA]

How y'all define shy? I speak if there's a reason to speak, like if I got something to add to the topic at hand or I got a question....but I HATE small talk. Like nigga dont ask me how the weather is today, cuz I'ma just give you the degrees. I'm not the fucking weatherman bitch they got a channel for that...niggas be expecting a whole detailed forecast n shit i be hatin' that man if aint shit to say then just enjoy the silence until you got something of substance to discuss. I don't even mind talking about sports as long as we engaged in a conversation of real substance, not some ol' "What highschool did you go to" type shit...SIMEON MOTHERFUCKER WHAT ELSE DO YOU WANT ME TO SAY?!?!?!

 

[Huruma]

I walk around looking like fucking Steve Urkel with social anxiety, mostly because I'm accustomed to unwanted, constant attention ("criticism") about my physical appearance and in general. I'd always been 'shy' but there was a time when I would readily tell people to shut the fuck up or I'd beat the shit out of them.

I like shyness/social awkwardness in nerdy females. Dorky/humble people are more likeable, imo.

 

[Sovo_Nah]

people be trying to say im shy because i dont talk much around people when im on the sober. but really, people aint on my level and i will not dumb myself down..... sorry, i will not compromise my intergrity to conversate with people who are mentally still slaves. Thats why i hate going over people house because for 1. they set up aint never as boss as mine. 2. i hate answering questions if it aint a job interview. and 3. im 35. nuff said.

My peoples dont want me to talk. its best that i stay quiet because i really hate to be the one to tell them that there aint no santa claus.

so i be quiet. but when i be on the IC, i be talkin again.

 

[Sovo_Nah]

I don't need no mentor, I'm fine the way I am and I'm not bashful or a scared-shy, i'm just introverted, there is a difference.

you dont need a mentor. u just need the definition of "double negatives." lol

im kidding. but i could not pass it up. no off fence

 

[Guns]

i remember a girl asked me why i don't talk... she then assumed i was being abused at home.... i then laughed in her face.... she walked off with a bitter look

i can also recall a bitch telling me that i was shy, i'm like bitch how you gone tell me what i am....i know me..... but i told her, i'm not shy.... then she was like oh ok ~ awkward silence~

 

[Sovo_Nah]

i remember a girl asked me why i don't talk... she then assumed i was being abused at home.... i then laughed in her face.... she walked off with a bitter look

i can also recall a bitch telling me that i was shy, i'm like bitch how you gone tell me what i am....i know me..... but i told her, i'm not shy.... then she was like oh ok ~ awkward silence~

i dont know man. i dont think you should be callin hoes "bitches." that shit is kinda disrespectful. just sayin.

: )

 

[Knives Amilli]

people be trying to say im shy because i dont talk much around people when im on the sober. but really, people aint on my level and i will not dumb myself down..... sorry, i will not compromise my intergrity to conversate with people who are mentally still slaves. Thats why i hate going over people house because for 1. they set up aint never as boss as mine. 2. i hate answering questions if it aint a job interview. and 3. im 35. nuff said.

My peoples dont want me to talk. its best that i stay quiet because i really hate to be the one to tell them that there aint no santa claus.

so i be quiet. but when i be on the IC, i be talkin again.

I try not to be too judgmental of people (as in thinking im on a "higher level" than them)...but this is real talk. If people had some other shit to talk about than the regular bullshit then id probably talk more. Till then....

 

[Sovo_Nah]

thanks. Its not so much of thinking that we better than people, but they dont wanna know what we know, and they are no open to having that kind of conversation. thats why they are lemmings. drones. puppets.

everything they talk about is something about a celebrity. weather? this is cleveland. the weather sucks. next topic. whats up with me? im chillin. next topic. work? its cool. next topic.

now if u wanna talk about jesus, i can speak on how we being controlled by something that never happened.

wanna talk about how black women put poison in their hair because its "more managable", lets speak on it.

wanna talk about how black women dont go natural because they arent that creative and if a famous chick aint doing it, then they aint gonna do it.

wanna talk about how niggaz rep the hood, the ghetto, rep being a thug, rep being a loser?

wanna talk about how our women are all over weight and we praise them became they "thick?

wanna talk about music? its sucks. everything on the radio is wack. they play no hiphop for people over 30 on the radio. why we gotta listen to r&b?

see, people dont want me to talk. im too much for the conversation if u aint gonna banter with me and really ca-verse.

 

[MissLeading]

thanks. Its not so much of thinking that we better than people, but they dont wanna know what we know, and they are no open to having that kind of conversation. thats why they are lemmings. drones. puppets.

everything they talk about is something about a celebrity. weather? this is cleveland. the weather sucks. next topic. whats up with me? im chillin. next topic. work? its cool. next topic.

now if u wanna talk about jesus, i can speak on how we being controlled by something that never happened.

wanna talk about how black women put poison in their hair because its "more managable", lets speak on it.

wanna talk about how black women dont go natural because they arent that creative and if a famous chick aint doing it, then they aint gonna do it.

wanna talk about how niggaz rep the hood, the ghetto, rep being a thug, rep being a loser?

wanna talk about how our women are all over weight and we praise them became they "thick?

wanna talk about music? its sucks. everything on the radio is wack. they play no hiphop for people over 30 on the radio. why we gotta listen to r&b?

see, people dont want me to talk. im too much for the conversation if u aint gonna banter with me and really ca-verse.

People don't want to talk about that stuff? Doesnt seem that complicated to me.

 

[Coby Vibes]

thanks. Its not so much of thinking that we better than people, but they dont wanna know what we know, and they are no open to having that kind of conversation. thats why they are lemmings. drones. puppets.

everything they talk about is something about a celebrity. weather? this is cleveland. the weather sucks. next topic. whats up with me? im chillin. next topic. work? its cool. next topic.

now if u wanna talk about jesus, i can speak on how we being controlled by something that never happened.

wanna talk about how black women put poison in their hair because its "more managable", lets speak on it.

wanna talk about how black women dont go natural because they arent that creative and if a famous chick aint doing it, then they aint gonna do it.

wanna talk about how niggaz rep the hood, the ghetto, rep being a thug, rep being a loser?

wanna talk about how our women are all over weight and we praise them became they "thick?

wanna talk about music? its sucks. everything on the radio is wack. they play no hiphop for people over 30 on the radio. why we gotta listen to r&b?

see, people dont want me to talk. im too much for the conversation if u aint gonna banter with me and really ca-verse.

speak on it. I welcome some real talk on the IC..on the real. especially from the 30 and over population,