Yall Agree: Terry Crews Defends Fatherhood On The View

[7figz]

Who cares about single-mothers' opinions on fatherhood anyway ?

That's like asking homeless people for real estate advice.

 

[mryounggun]

All I know is, last month I took my daughter to six flags. Being a single dad out and about with your kid having fun, these bitches notice. My daughter is the world's greatest wingman

What's the custody situation with your daughter? Her mom still around?

She still around. We ain't together, but we still respect each other.

I'm saying though. What the custody like? 50-50? You get weekends? She get weekends?

She lives with her mom, but she don't mind me coming over whenever I want to see my daughter. She's know I'm responsible and I'll do right, so she don't trip if I say I'm taking our daughter to my place all weekend or we going to six flags. My daughter's mother believes a mother has no right keeping her children from a positive male role model. I try to be that for my little girl.

Ah, gotcha. I was asking because you referred to yourself earlier as a single father, so I wanted to see what your situation was. I really wouldn't consider myself a single father. That's just me though.

 

[Trollio]

Why he arguing with a white hoe tho

 

[Will Munny]

Not saying a woman can't raise a man, but its pretty damn hard.

These single mom kids, not sure if its bad genetics, bad parenting or both, but god damn they are the most misbehaved kids ever.

Not every single momma can be as good as Smash Williams mom.

 

[damobb2deep]

shit @damobb2deep was out here telling us how he actually holla at the kids first to get to the mama.....

just out the blue start doing daddy shit, and the momma will naturally follow suit......that shit had me at work laughing for like 2 hours straight.....

now if this nigga figured out that's a sure fire way to a woman's heart....u already know....

Lol I ain't say I Holla'd at the kids 1st and started 2 do "daddy shyt"... I was saying that having a good relationship with a child can influence a womans feelings. ..

 

[damobb2deep]

A black man with black children arguing with a white woman with white children about the importance of fatherhood. I'm sure she is oblivious to the fact that the lack of black fathers is pretty much the exact reason why these black kids are out of control. With fathera in the household most of these niggas wouldn't be wilding the fuck out. So I'm going to assume she was talking about white children because EVERYBODY knows black children are in Dire need of Fathers. Let white women be single mothers....Iontgiveafuck.

I don't know why the stereotype "black men are not in their child's life " exists when in a thread on here showed statistically black men are in their kids life more than any other race..

 

[Ajackson17]

They are and the cdc reported it as well but people can lie all they want.

 

[Meta_Conscious]

A black man with black children arguing with a white woman with white children about the importance of fatherhood. I'm sure she is oblivious to the fact that the lack of black fathers is pretty much the exact reason why these black kids are out of control. With fathera in the household most of these niggas wouldn't be wilding the fuck out. So I'm going to assume she was talking about white children because EVERYBODY knows black children are in Dire need of Fathers. Let white women be single mothers....Iontgiveafuck.

I don't know why the stereotype "black men are not in their child's life " exists when in a thread on here showed statistically black men are in their kids life more than any other race..

the racism that u coons like to deny...

 

[traestar]

For Emperor_Shango and damobb2deep, the next time someone want to debate you on the issue, hit them with the car facts:http://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/nhsr/nhsr071.pdf

 

[Recaptimus_Prime360]

I see where Terry is coming from, and a lot of the stuff he said is true.

I can't front, it irks my soul when a woman says "I'm his father" or gets told "Happy Father's Day." Too many single mothers believe they can give their child the same things a father gives. Not possible. Just like it isn't possible for a guy to give their child the same thing a mother gives.

C/s the posters who understand this.

 

[damobb2deep]

A black man with black children arguing with a white woman with white children about the importance of fatherhood. I'm sure she is oblivious to the fact that the lack of black fathers is pretty much the exact reason why these black kids are out of control. With fathera in the household most of these niggas wouldn't be wilding the fuck out. So I'm going to assume she was talking about white children because EVERYBODY knows black children are in Dire need of Fathers. Let white women be single mothers....Iontgiveafuck.

I don't know why the stereotype "black men are not in their child's life " exists when in a thread on here showed statistically black men are in their kids life more than any other race..

the racism that u coons like to deny...

Smh with that word again.... you act like I'm oblivious to the fact that racism exist....

 

[THIRDSUPREME]

Didn't take long for this to turn into a 'Single mothers ain't shit' thread. *finds exit*

it's not that they ain't shit, they're just delusional and not honest with themselves...and for some weird reason they project that dishonesty as proudly as they possibly can

the reality all they want is a positive man in their lives and the lives of their children...but since they can't keep one, instead of admitting it, they'd rather shrug off the accountability and bash all men as some kind of defense mechanism......



they front hard as shit and pretend they don't need the very thing they deeply desire...

this is why i used to take my nieces and nephews to chuck e cheese...to pull single moms...

i know niggaz without kids who ride around with car seats in their cars...to pull single moms....

mentors, coaches, teachers, all positive men who work with children and help build their confidence are knee deep in single mom pussy......

women just want that in their lives....yet they'll never admit it

This ^^^^^^ powerful bro.

 

[blakfyahking]

I coach youth football this year and see and hear things that amaze me.

Boys need their father, or some type of male influence, plain and simple.

As a mom, there is only so much I can do for my son. I show him the gentleness and care of a woman, however, I can never teach him the subtle ways of a man. There are things he will never share with me that he shares with my guy, and I'm ok with that. The boys that I coach.. They don't have that outlet and it shows. Some often them are the bitchiest boys I have ever met. I can't get mad at them, as they are only behaving in the way that they are exposed to daily. When they get around my other coaches, they don't know or understand the 'maleness' and in turn, behave like a scorned female.

If any of you males on here have the free time and the capacity to care, go out and coach. Be a mentor, a big brother... Something. Even though bad choices were made somewhere down the line by a child growing up in a single household or by victim of circumstances, the cycle has got to stop somewhere. Our boys need you badly.

@‌ the bolded:

you get props for taking the time to try to teach the babies

but the bolded is part of the problem.............women have no business trying to mentor young men in this manner

a female football coach is indicative of just how much masculinity has been under assault in this country

certain activities are not gender neutral(ie. football is for males only and football is a place for male mentoring)......this is the shit that's got these youngins growing up confused

 

[Bcotton5]

the most ironic thing about it, is if you see these single mom's that got their sons in sports mad early.....

yea the mom may get her son started...but the coaches give those boys their validation....they're a positive influence, they make a huge difference

and the moms want the same damn thing......my homeboy coaches youth league football,....single mom's throw soooooooo much ass at them it's ridiculous.....u know why...cuz they want a positive man in their lives too....

women stay acting like a man is irrelevant....but let them see a good one in action

they be like

true lmao I smashed one of the kids I coach in AAU mom

 

[ms.jones]

I coach youth football this year and see and hear things that amaze me.

Boys need their father, or some type of male influence, plain and simple.

As a mom, there is only so much I can do for my son. I show him the gentleness and care of a woman, however, I can never teach him the subtle ways of a man. There are things he will never share with me that he shares with my guy, and I'm ok with that. The boys that I coach.. They don't have that outlet and it shows. Some often them are the bitchiest boys I have ever met. I can't get mad at them, as they are only behaving in the way that they are exposed to daily. When they get around my other coaches, they don't know or understand the 'maleness' and in turn, behave like a scorned female.

If any of you males on here have the free time and the capacity to care, go out and coach. Be a mentor, a big brother... Something. Even though bad choices were made somewhere down the line by a child growing up in a single household or by victim of circumstances, the cycle has got to stop somewhere. Our boys need you badly.

@‌ the bolded:

you get props for taking the time to try to teach the babies

but the bolded is part of the problem.............women have no business trying to mentor young men in this manner

a female football coach is indicative of just how much masculinity has been under assault in this country

certain activities are not gender neutral(ie. football is for males only and football is a place for male mentoring)......this is the shit that's got these youngins growing up confused

I knew this viewpoint would come up.

I was asked to coach, because I am good at what I do, regardless of the child's gender. Football is a very masculine sport and I respect that. I do not attempt to be anything other than what I am, and that is a leader, a teacher, and a motivating force to be reckoned with.

I am often seen as the 'mom' that a lot of these boys don't hav. I am a professional on and off the field, showing these boys that a female can be seen as more than just a groupie, hard up, or thirsty. There is a woman in their life right now that is positive, and loving that will push them to succeed and have there back along the way.

This is my way of breaking the cycle. As a black woman, it is my duty to uplift the black man. I wanted to make sure I got in on the ground floor. It sucks that you have such a short sighted view, as the decision was by no means a way to attack masculinity.It's about the kids, and having positive influences where ever possible.

 

[obnoxiouslyfresh]

I meant to post this on father's day, but didn't get a chance. Dads, You the Real MVP!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Jpb2_YdxYM

 

[marc123]

Debating any point on daytime tv is a huge waste of time...

Jus sell whatever movie ur promoting, tell the audience that you love the show, tell a funny story then gtfo

 

[A$AP_A$TON]

Jenny McCarthy wanna be taken seriously now. Just show them titties and shut the hell up.

 

[kzzl]

I coach youth football this year and see and hear things that amaze me.

Boys need their father, or some type of male influence, plain and simple.

As a mom, there is only so much I can do for my son. I show him the gentleness and care of a woman, however, I can never teach him the subtle ways of a man. There are things he will never share with me that he shares with my guy, and I'm ok with that. The boys that I coach.. They don't have that outlet and it shows. Some often them are the bitchiest boys I have ever met. I can't get mad at them, as they are only behaving in the way that they are exposed to daily. When they get around my other coaches, they don't know or understand the 'maleness' and in turn, behave like a scorned female.

If any of you males on here have the free time and the capacity to care, go out and coach. Be a mentor, a big brother... Something. Even though bad choices were made somewhere down the line by a child growing up in a single household or by victim of circumstances, the cycle has got to stop somewhere. Our boys need you badly.

@‌ the bolded:

you get props for taking the time to try to teach the babies

but the bolded is part of the problem.............women have no business trying to mentor young men in this manner

a female football coach is indicative of just how much masculinity has been under assault in this country

certain activities are not gender neutral(ie. football is for males only and football is a place for male mentoring)......this is the shit that's got these youngins growing up confused

I knew this viewpoint would come up.

I was asked to coach, because I am good at what I do, regardless of the child's gender. Football is a very masculine sport and I respect that. I do not attempt to be anything other than what I am, and that is a leader, a teacher, and a motivating force to be reckoned with.

I am often seen as the 'mom' that a lot of these boys don't hav. I am a professional on and off the field, showing these boys that a female can be seen as more than just a groupie, hard up, or thirsty. There is a woman in their life right now that is positive, and loving that will push them to succeed and have there back along the way.

This is my way of breaking the cycle. As a black woman, it is my duty to uplift the black man. I wanted to make sure I got in on the ground floor. It sucks that you have such a short sighted view, as the decision was by no means a way to attack masculinity.It's about the kids, and having positive influences where ever possible.

Well, damn....

[/img].... now how do I put one of these on?

 

[blakfyahking]

I coach youth football this year and see and hear things that amaze me.

Boys need their father, or some type of male influence, plain and simple.

As a mom, there is only so much I can do for my son. I show him the gentleness and care of a woman, however, I can never teach him the subtle ways of a man. There are things he will never share with me that he shares with my guy, and I'm ok with that. The boys that I coach.. They don't have that outlet and it shows. Some often them are the bitchiest boys I have ever met. I can't get mad at them, as they are only behaving in the way that they are exposed to daily. When they get around my other coaches, they don't know or understand the 'maleness' and in turn, behave like a scorned female.

If any of you males on here have the free time and the capacity to care, go out and coach. Be a mentor, a big brother... Something. Even though bad choices were made somewhere down the line by a child growing up in a single household or by victim of circumstances, the cycle has got to stop somewhere. Our boys need you badly.

@‌ the bolded:

you get props for taking the time to try to teach the babies

but the bolded is part of the problem.............women have no business trying to mentor young men in this manner

a female football coach is indicative of just how much masculinity has been under assault in this country

certain activities are not gender neutral(ie. football is for males only and football is a place for male mentoring)......this is the shit that's got these youngins growing up confused

I knew this viewpoint would come up.

I was asked to coach, because I am good at what I do, regardless of the child's gender. Football is a very masculine sport and I respect that. I do not attempt to be anything other than what I am, and that is a leader, a teacher, and a motivating force to be reckoned with.

I am often seen as the 'mom' that a lot of these boys don't hav. I am a professional on and off the field, showing these boys that a female can be seen as more than just a groupie, hard up, or thirsty. There is a woman in their life right now that is positive, and loving that will push them to succeed and have there back along the way.

This is my way of breaking the cycle. As a black woman, it is my duty to uplift the black man. I wanted to make sure I got in on the ground floor. It sucks that you have such a short sighted view, as the decision was by no means a way to attack masculinity.It's about the kids, and having positive influences where ever possible.

like I said, nothing is wrong with you doing whatever you can to support the kids

but unfortunately males have few sacred venues where we learn critical developmental skills..........especially for the little dudes without father figures....and especially in the black community

there is already a lack of male leadership for young black males to see growing up........so not only female teachers and administrators, but even a female football coach?

and cats are cool with this??? SMH