Would you take back a woman that rejected you earlier in life?

[1of1]

most of you weak muthafuckas do

that's why ya'll so gotdamn bitter

let the past be the past

The "mature strong people forget the details of the past" argument...so prevalent on the IC.

 

[American.Loo]

i remember seeing an interview with tupac (which im sure most of you have also seen)

in which he describes not being able to get ANY play at the club, then a year later (after he blows up)

suddenly women find him irresistible. he didn't seem bitter, just seemed like he'd discovered a key point about alot of women:

with them, attraction can be manipulated. men dont work that way.

precious could win 5 oscars in a row, drop an album on Roc Nation and create the next ipod and niggas still wouldnt fuck

 

[Just2C]

[video=youtube;lHak9qBP9e8]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lHak9qBP9e8[/video]

Fits thread perfectly

that shit is clean. never got around to listening to that album.

as far as the subject. Hell No.... I have pulled the okeydoke on a broad though, got my revenge fuck on and never called back

 

[Just2C]

Ha! I've had this situation happen a few times in the past year or so.

Usually I revenge fuck 'em until they see it'll never be anything serious and stop calling.

They came out the woodwork after I got into a higher profile gig and began making something of myself.

I'm not with wifing chicks like that. If you couldnt see the potential before, you dont deserve the spoils after.

this man speaks the truth

 

[Bussy_Getta]

How did you fuck yourself over? Because he's making a lot of money now?

Cunt.

boy please im doing way better than he is

i fucked myself over because i wanted him to feel bad for rejecting me when i shoulda let the past be the past and stop being so damn bitter, i just hurt myself to hurt him
now i wonder what if instead of actually knowing

 

[haute]

The "mature strong people forget the details of the past" argument...so prevalent on the IC.

Who said forget?

Nigga

I said let it stay there

Now if you want cry yourself to sleep listening to boys II men 'water runs dry'

So be it

But don't try to recreate something with someone who isn't good for you

 

[American.Loo]

"i know ho's that fronted on me when they knew he was broke, they say damn yeezy, yeezy you dont know us no mo" - kanye

"you did know me when my name was sean now you should see how bitches act when benjamins come on" sheek louch

"used to tell they friends i was ugly, and wouldnt touch me. then it got fuzzy and they dont remember that. and i dont remember you" jayz

 

[American.Loo]

Yo Haute is dumb lmao

"water runs dry"

"....and make the biggest mistake of our lives...dont do it babyyy..."

that song is for real niggas only.

 

[1of1]

boy please im doing way better than he is

i fucked myself over because i wanted him to feel bad for rejecting me when i shoulda let the past be the past and stop being so damn bitter, i just hurt myself to hurt him
now i wonder what if instead of actually knowing

I see you're keeping score.

I don't see how you "hurt" yourself. You just made a decision based on bitterness. Stop acting like you're of high moral character. You're half devil and not even embracing it.

I'm going to do some thinking about whether or not "bitterness" should always be looked down upon. Is bitterness always a negative thing?

 

[1of1]

Who said forget?

Nigga

I said let it stay there

Now if you want cry yourself to sleep listening to boys II men 'water runs dry'

So be it

But don't try to recreate something with someone who isn't good for you

Semantics.

If you're "letting it stay there" you're forgetting it. What's the point of remembering it if you won't use it in the future?

I don't understand the significance of crying in this instance. Nor do I listen to a lot of R&B.

If I did cry myself to sleep it would be to "Back That Ass Up" or "Fuck The Police."

 

[mryounggun]

If I was still feeling her, why the fuck would I shove it in her face. Lol. I'ma tell you some real shit that a lot of niggas on the IC could prolly benefit from. Some shit I learned a long time ago:

Pride and Ego destroy great men.

 

[haute]

No it's not the same

Hence the reason people can forgive yet not forget

You can still take those life lessons with you without revisiting a past relationship

Most refer to that as progress

Hey if fuck the police gets you to ignore fat booty lying ass Keisha

I'm all for it

 

[American.Loo]

I see you're keeping score.

I don't see how you "hurt" yourself. You just made a decision based on bitterness. Stop acting like you're of high moral character. You're half devil and not even embracing it.

I'm going to do some thinking about whether or not "bitterness" should always be looked down upon. Is bitterness always a negative thing?

Great question. I'll say yes: bitterness is always bad because it only affects you and future interactions with others.

Plus, being bitter changes your face and changes your personality. Literally. I can look at a woman and tell if she's holding on to a past hurt just by how she holds her face.

A truly bitter person....that bitterness seeps all through the fiber of their being: the way they talk, the way they act toward the opposite sex. their views on the world.

one thing my mother taught me is to never dwell on a past hurt or past loss. after she left my father, that nigga NEVER got over it. and that was in 1994. to this day he still tells her he wishes he had done right. dude is a wreck, drinker, etc...

being bitter is like putting a cap on any hope of future happiness

 

[Bussy_Getta]

I see you're keeping score.

I don't see how you "hurt" yourself. You just made a decision based on bitterness. Stop acting like you're of high moral character. You're half devil and not even embracing it.

I'm going to do some thinking about whether or not "bitterness" should always be looked down upon. Is bitterness always a negative thing?

ok boo boo .......

 

[1of1]

Great question. I'll say yes: bitterness is always bad because it only affects you and future interactions with others.

Plus, being bitter changes your face and changes your personality. Literally. I can look at a woman and tell if she's holding on to a past hurt just by how she holds her face.

A truly bitter person....that bitterness seeps all through the fiber of their being: the way they talk, the way they act toward the opposite sex. their views on the world.

one thing my mother taught me is to never dwell on a past hurt or past loss. after she left my father, that nigga NEVER got over it. and that was in 1994. to this day he still tells her he wishes he had done right. dude is a wreck, drinker, etc...

being bitter is like putting a cap on any hope of future happiness

This is true. And it's a huge turn-off.

 

[Pusskaveli]

ok boo boo .......

ebrc.........

 

[makaveli03]

whats the difference between being bitter, and being real with yourself at all times?

 

[DarkGable]

Depends on how well she's aged.

 

[truth spitter]

naw.....im good..and has nothing to do with bitterness

 

[Hypernova]

how can you take back something that you never had?