Would you marry/date someone who has been married 2 or more times???

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I Dont Know.. I think after a while a person coming out of two fucked up marriages will get their act together and notice a patern hence correct their shortcomings. If not steer clear of professional fuck ups and broken home creators.
 
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lol...yall young...im 37...wailt til you get my age..people have sooooo much baggage by the time you get this age
 
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Louis Cipher;3640009 said:
lol...yall young...im 37...wailt til you get my age..people have sooooo much baggage by the time you get this age

Can you please tell us the type of things we have to look forward to
 
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fyi, when 2 people fall inlove...census & polls don't keep them apart. So people can keep having their rallys, and what do their opinion means nada...I already made up in my mind that I would only get married once... Thats why I like to weigh it out carefully, because once I make decisions the decisions are made.

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Yeah I would... It sort of rings an alarm I guess but yeah I would... I guess if I ever get to that point where I'd want to marry her I might get a little less confident in it working out since she has had a history of broken marriages and I'm sure she loved them as much as she loves me, but then again everybody has broken relationsships so... But yeah...
 
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it could be a situation where someone died, or something tragic broke them up. Judging people is why people can't find love now.
 
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I dont know...

There's just something about vowing to God to spend the rest of your life with someone

Divorcing them

Then making the same vow to God again

Then divorcing THEM

That makes me think, 'Maybe she doesnt understand what a vow is'
 
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Depends on the reasons for getting a divorce. If the mate died, he was abusive, or he just left, I can understand. But if there is a pattern of getting with someone and qucikly marrying only to get divorced a short time later (a la Kim Kardashian) yeah, that would raise a red flag.
 
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American.Loo;3640681 said:
Can you please tell us the type of things we have to look forward to

lmao...aight

1. women with kids...prolly by multiple cats (if you lucky she had'em young and they almost out the house)

2. chicks who have been thru the wringer. what i mean is she's had 4-5 long term relationships that went bad...you'll never get a straight story...and believe.... none of it was her fault...always the man's fault

3. they all just about have decent jobs but will still expect you to pick up the tab whereever yall go...that independence shit they holla only applies when they want it to

4. attitude: most live to perpetuate that loud mouth...disrespectful stereotype

5. respect: most of'em had a bad relationship with their pops if they had one at all...so her respecting you is gonna be tough. expect slick shit to be said to you often.

6. a lot of'em have been molested/raped...be prepared...this lends to the issues they have with men...its some low-life cats out there man

thats all i can think of off top for now...

my problem is i dont like younger chicks so im stuck treading these waters...its tough...but there still are some good ones out here...you just gotta understand what you gonna have to deal with
 
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Louis Cipher;3640975 said:
lmao...aight

1. women with kids...prolly by multiple cats (if you lucky she had'em young and they almost out the house)

2. chicks who have been thru the wringer. what i mean is she's had 4-5 long term relationships that went bad...you'll never get a straight story...and believe.... none of it was her fault...always the man's fault

3. they all just about have decent jobs but will still expect you to pick up the tab whereever yall go...that independence shit they holla only applies when they want it to

4. attitude: most live to perpetuate that loud mouth...disrespectful stereotype

5. respect: most of'em had a bad relationship with their pops if they had one at all...so her respecting you is gonna be tough. expect slick shit to be said to you often.

6. a lot of'em have been molested/raped...be prepared...this lends to the issues they have with men...its some low-life cats out there man

thats all i can think of off top for now...

my problem is i dont like younger chicks so im stuck treading these waters...its tough...but there still are some good ones out here...you just gotta understand what you gonna have to deal with

Chruch............
 
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dirtyrodney;3641013 said:
Chruch............

how old are you my brother and can you share any insight?

I'm 28, and I can already see the tides beginning to change with the women of my age group.

At 26-29 most of them arent trying to date you if you're not planning to put a ring on it within 2 years. I've been dating this one chick who's pretty cool, but i can tell she's hoping "i'm the one". that biological clock is starting to tick, and i may have to start dating younger chicks for a while.

plus alot of girls in my age range are seeing their friends getting married and having kids, so there's that pressure too. it's an odd phase...
 
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