Would you marry/date someone who has been married 2 or more times???

[blakfyahking]

I think my standards are unrealistic

cause I've given up on the whole idea of just being content with one woman

I thought my pops was cold hearted for how he handled his relationships.............but the older I get, the more I understand

he's 51 dating a 35yr old now, and everybody in fam except me got a problem with it for some reason

makes perfect sense to me

 

[BP OIL SPILL FACE]

Dating one now. 3X my nig. Twice to the same dude

Hell, my lady's been married three times to three different dudes and she'll be 49 on Thanksgiving. Honestly, it's no big deal to me; it's not like she has children by three or more men.

 

[NYCeeCee]

how old are you my brother and can you share any insight?

I'm 28, and I can already see the tides beginning to change with the women of my age group.

At 26-29 most of them arent trying to date you if you're not planning to put a ring on it within 2 years. I've been dating this one chick who's pretty cool, but i can tell she's hoping "i'm the one". that biological clock is starting to tick, and i may have to start dating younger chicks for a while.

plus alot of girls in my age range are seeing their friends getting married and having kids, so there's that pressure too. it's an odd phase...

Be prepared for the younger woman "issues", as well. Pick your poison.

 

[nex gin]

lmao...aight

1. women with kids...prolly by multiple cats (if you lucky she had'em young and they almost out the house)

2. chicks who have been thru the wringer. what i mean is she's had 4-5 long term relationships that went bad...you'll never get a straight story...and believe.... none of it was her fault...always the man's fault

3. they all just about have decent jobs but will still expect you to pick up the tab whereever yall go...that independence shit they holla only applies when they want it to

4. attitude: most live to perpetuate that loud mouth...disrespectful stereotype

5. respect: most of'em had a bad relationship with their pops if they had one at all...so her respecting you is gonna be tough. expect slick shit to be said to you often.

6. a lot of'em have been molested/raped...be prepared...this lends to the issues they have with men...its some low-life cats out there man

thats all i can think of off top for now...

my problem is i dont like younger chicks so im stuck treading these waters...its tough...but there still are some good ones out here...you just gotta understand what you gonna have to deal with

Alot of real shit here. I'm 34 & I agree w/ a lot of what you're saying....especiall #2, 4 & 5. The older the woman & the more unsuccessful relationships that she's had, the higher the drama and baggage rate.....or at least that's been my experience. In this day and age if you can find a woman who has endured all that bs and still got her head on str8, then you've found a winner.

 

[dirtyrodney]

how old are you my brother and can you share any insight?

I'm 28, and I can already see the tides beginning to change with the women of my age group.

At 26-29 most of them arent trying to date you if you're not planning to put a ring on it within 2 years. I've been dating this one chick who's pretty cool, but i can tell she's hoping "i'm the one". that biological clock is starting to tick, and i may have to start dating younger chicks for a while.

plus alot of girls in my age range are seeing their friends getting married and having kids, so there's that pressure too. it's an odd phase...

I'll be 28 next week good brother. Some of the things he pointed out I haven't personally experienced, only heard horror stories from friends of mine. And I agree with everything you just said here, most of them aren't trying to date you if its not potential for the long haul (though some act like the ring isn't important). Im actually to the point with my chick now we finally talking about the next level (marriage, kids, a family dog, etc) If it doesn't happen with this one, I dont see it happening for me personally.

I cosgin CeeCee also, cause some of these young ones got just as many head issues and some of them is racing to the finish line too (marriage, kids by 25)

 

[-Vincenzo-]

I dont know...

There's just something about vowing to God to spend the rest of your life with someone

Divorcing them

Then making the same vow to God again

Then divorcing THEM

That makes me think, 'Maybe she doesnt understand what a vow is'

/close thread

 

[lighthearted25]

I wouldn't do it.

 

[Roster Player #99]

lmao...aight

1. women with kids...prolly by multiple cats (if you lucky she had'em young and they almost out the house)

2. chicks who have been thru the wringer. what i mean is she's had 4-5 long term relationships that went bad...you'll never get a straight story...and believe.... none of it was her fault...always the man's fault

3. they all just about have decent jobs but will still expect you to pick up the tab whereever yall go...that independence shit they holla only applies when they want it to

4. attitude: most live to perpetuate that loud mouth...disrespectful stereotype

5. respect: most of'em had a bad relationship with their pops if they had one at all...so her respecting you is gonna be tough. expect slick shit to be said to you often.

6. a lot of'em have been molested/raped...be prepared...this lends to the issues they have with men...its some low-life cats out there man

thats all i can think of off top for now...

my problem is i dont like younger chicks so im stuck treading these waters...its tough...but there still are some good ones out here...you just gotta understand what you gonna have to deal with

Pretty good observation, I must say, but we all have complexes to ourselves. With something like this, its very rare that we sit back and truthfully assess our character. One of my coworkers and I talked about how men can be traced back as the root to a lot if not all of a woman's ways. The common denominator in 1-6 is the male counterpart or the "aint shit nigga". Then a virtuous cat comes along and has to deal with this baggage; and of course it can be vice versa. Even with this, I think older women are the way to go, well especially for dudes in their 20's, but we gotta be more up to par with our shit for that and that dont usually come til HOPEFULLY mid 20s.

To answer the question doe, yea I would marry/date a woman thats been married multiple times if the situation permitted. Like if I kicked it with her for some years and saw she was emotionally unstable or unstable in an unreasonable way, then I would definitely step, seeing as she's probably more-so the reason she's been divorced twice. As long as she aint in denial of her past and knows where she comes from and where she wants to go from there, we can definitely build.

 

[haute]

Depends on how much money he makes

Ain't no way in hail I'm getting screwed over in spousal support just because I was 3rd or 4th in line

 

[Well Got Dam]

I'd rather jump off a branchless tree into a swimming pool of fuck its!

 

[blackdemo]

[video=youtube;dL9EAXGc8e0]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dL9EAXGc8e0[/video]

the second verse reminds me of this song. to u single dudes n women out there in your 30s.

and the first verse is for u married men cheatin on r wives (which is pretty normal) its fucked but honestly man i bet u 40% cheat.

 

[-Vincenzo-]

Be prepared for the younger woman "issues", as well. Pick your poison.

like what? i cant imagine anything worse than damaged good tbh, youngins at least have the chance to succeed in this game.

thats why i dont fuck with worn out bitches and never will