Would u be okay with your s/o having sex with you once a week?

[BarryHalls]

 

[5th Letter]

Maybe once a week is fine for the couple. The sex drive maybe isn't what it used to be.

 

[Ol Jay's]

@Ol Jay's

How old is she and how long have y'all been together?

both early 30's, 14 years

Heard her telling her bf awhile ago that the sex is as good as when we 1st met, weird

 

[HafBayked]

^^wtf just happened?

 

[Tymoney19]

Nah I'm cheating

 

[mryounggun]

^^wtf just happened?

BF = Best friend.

Shit fucked me up for a second too. Lol

 

[Kyle_Lurker]

Age has something to do with these responses tho...

Niggas 40 plus talkin bout once is fine wit me haha

Im young and she young, we aint bout that once a week life

a lot of times, age has nothing to do with anything. Its more of the opportunity. Demanding careers, kids, stress from the previous two mentioned, etc... can all influence when nasty time happens

your statement leads me to believe that ya'll dont have those types of responsibilities that most people who are fine with once a week have.

damn..good point.

Lol but thats obvious

The only thing that would hold us back right now is kids, which wont be happening no time soon.

 

[Ol Jay's]

^^wtf just happened?

dont know, it slowly progressed to this point tho

 

[huey]

Why not just talk with her about it

 

[emrulz]

Nah, once is not enough. 3-5 times. We have kids, jobs, etc. Gotta stay committed to getting it in and I am.

I have no idea how two people who live together, are around each other, and are attracted to each other, only get it in 1-2 times per.

 

[HafBayked]

^^wtf just happened?

BF = Best friend.

Shit fucked me up for a second too. Lol

oh ok....no shit lol

 

[nex gin]

@Ol Jay's

How old is she and how long have y'all been together?

both early 30's, 14 years

Heard her telling her bf awhile ago that the sex is as good as when we 1st met, weird

I don't think the problem is the age then. 14 years is a long time to be sexing the same person ( nothing wrong w/ that though, but intimacy in relationships can change over extended periods of time ). I hear a lot of men complaining about how the sex decreases as the # of years increases. I don't know if it is a female thing or what but it is not abnormal.

psychologytoday.com/blog/the-power-pleasure/201204/does-desire-really-decrease-length-relationship

livescience.com/18233-women-lose-sexual-desire.html

 

[MsSouthern]

I want it more than once a week

2-3 times is good . Our relationship isn't just about sex ....we enjoy being around each other

But life gets busy and sometimes it just gets like that. As long as he is not turning down sex ....I'm good

 

[Shuffington]

The last 3 women Ive been seriously committed to wanted sex ALL THE TIME .... way way way more than me ...

and aside from them having a higher sex drive than me ... they also, more than likely, wanted sex a lot because I never begged and pleaded them for sex EVER.

on a deeper level they could never use Sex as their last bargaining chip with me because they knew they wouldn't win those odds.

Maybe if you discipline yourself and not illustrate an overt active NEED for sex so much to her... that will help.

She will start to think your cheating but if thats not the case, she will then realize that she cant bribe you with sex.. thus making her more horny and intimate ... she will then start trying to take it, in the morning or in the night, or while your watching sports...

... but its up to you to be the discipline one.

 

[Kat]

Age has something to do with these responses tho...

Niggas 40 plus talkin bout once is fine wit me haha

Im young and she young, we aint bout that once a week life

a lot of times, age has nothing to do with anything. Its more of the opportunity. Demanding careers, kids, stress from the previous two mentioned, etc... can all influence when nasty time happens

your statement leads me to believe that ya'll dont have those types of responsibilities that most people who are fine with once a week have.

Age has something to do with these responses tho...

Niggas 40 plus talkin bout once is fine wit me haha

Im young and she young, we aint bout that once a week life

a lot of times, age has nothing to do with anything. Its more of the opportunity. Demanding careers, kids, stress from the previous two mentioned, etc... can all influence when nasty time happens

your statement leads me to believe that ya'll dont have those types of responsibilities that most people who are fine with once a week have.

damn..good point.

Lol but thats obvious

The only thing that would hold us back right now is kids, which wont be happening no time soon.

Okay, how does that change what he said though?

And kids are HUGE cockblocks..all it takes is one.

 

[deadeye]

twice a week would be good for me shrugs to much of the same will get boring to me

That's cause your old as shit..no diss.

How many times a week were you fucking at 32 Cain?

But ya'll are quick to want to jump in relationships with younger women.

@Kat

 

[deadeye]

^^wtf just happened?

dont know, it slowly progressed to this point tho

Head is more important.

How does your girl feel about that?

 

[nex gin]

Age has something to do with these responses tho...

Niggas 40 plus talkin bout once is fine wit me haha

Im young and she young, we aint bout that once a week life

a lot of times, age has nothing to do with anything. Its more of the opportunity. Demanding careers, kids, stress from the previous two mentioned, etc... can all influence when nasty time happens

your statement leads me to believe that ya'll dont have those types of responsibilities that most people who are fine with once a week have.

Age has something to do with these responses tho...

Niggas 40 plus talkin bout once is fine wit me haha

Im young and she young, we aint bout that once a week life

a lot of times, age has nothing to do with anything. Its more of the opportunity. Demanding careers, kids, stress from the previous two mentioned, etc... can all influence when nasty time happens

your statement leads me to believe that ya'll dont have those types of responsibilities that most people who are fine with once a week have.

damn..good point.

Lol but thats obvious

The only thing that would hold us back right now is kids, which wont be happening no time soon.

Okay, how does that change what he said though?

And kids are HUGE cockblocks..all it takes is one.

They have to go to sleep at some point in the day. Plus you have to be creative to combat the cockblockers. Lock the bedroom door and turn the tv up so they can't hear you. Get a quickie in the bathroom. Ship the kids off to a friend or relative for a few hours so y'all can have some bucked naked freaky alone time. Hell...make them go out side and play so you can have some adult time. People get old and forget all of the creative ways & places there are to get some.

 

[SneakDZA]

Hells yes!

but i wouldn't be having sex once a week though.

 

[Rasta.]

You niggas are crazy with that once a week talk. Unless she's on her period, she's doing something to make me nut and it's definitely more than half the week days.