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MrsWest;3488136 said:I don't agree that men do this because of forsight, it's more like selfishness and greed-MOST of the time. You know damn well a lot of chicks get strung along because some men want to keep the pussy for themselves while reserving the right to fuck other women. Come on now.
naw yo... we got a spider sense for drama...a problematic chick just gives off a certain glow.....it just be diffiocult to shake the puss....cuz it's been proven time and time again that crazy chicks have the best puss
so yea greed and selfishness plays a part.....but every nigga suffering from this knows he's fucking up... they jsut keep doing it cuz the shits good... it's almost like substance abuse....
but chicks..yall don't got that filter..yall really think yall in lvoe..and think it's the real thing...
we know full well it's just the sex....
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truth spitter
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im available for a relationship ladies
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Niggersauce
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kai_valya;3487990 said:damn how slow do you wanna take it? a year is long enough to decide whether you want a relationship or not. i knew within 2 weeks that i wanted a relationship. i've noticed when guys really like someone and want a relationship, all that taking it slow crap goes right out the window and they're all of a sudden ready for a commitment.
like some other posters said tho, the female sorta put herself in this position. women need to stop using sex as a weapon/tool. if a guy seems like he doesn't want a relationship, you sleeping with him won't change his mind. figure out beforehand if he wants a relationship, and if he doesn't and u do, don't waste a number on him.
Real...same goes for females.
If a person is really that into you they can't help but be lovey around you.....alot of people out here placeholding.
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A year son??? 12 months? Christmas, Valentines Day and Thanksgiving? Cuffing Season and Smut Summer.
That's a relationship cuzzin. You wasting her time playing those games. Obviously you aint keeping it real with the "fuck buddy" situation otherwise she wouldn't be expecting anything more.
That's a relationship cuzzin. You wasting her time playing those games. Obviously you aint keeping it real with the "fuck buddy" situation otherwise she wouldn't be expecting anything more.
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dusouljah;3488175 said:naw yo... we got a spider sense for drama...a problematic chick just gives off a certain glow.....it just be diffiocult to shake the puss....cuz it's been proven time and time again that crazy chicks have the best puss
so yea greed and selfishness plays a part.....but every nigga suffering from this knows he's fucking up... they jsut keep doing it cuz the shits good... it's almost like substance abuse....
but chicks..yall don't got that filter..yall really think yall in lvoe..and think it's the real thing...
we know full well it's just the sex....
Spider sense for drama? Some of yall need to pay attention to that shit then, I've seen many keyed cars and scared ass men. And women have a sense for no-good men, we just don't pay attention to it unfortunately. Men and women are stupid in their own ways pretty much equally.
And please "we know it's just the sex" for men - like yall don't ever catch feelings. LMAO
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kai_valya;3488331 said:awww, poor darlin
i want women to open their eyes and stop selling themselves short. you can't make a guy want to have a relationship with you, either he does or he doesn't. and if a relationship is what you want but you notice he's dragging his feet, he obviously doesn't want what you want, don't waste your time. that's a year of her life she's not gonna get back. she could have saved herself 11 months by asking him after the first month if he was looking for a relationship.
@ Bolded especially, but all of this.
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Mindstarter
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lighthearted25;3487931 said:Most times when men say they wanna take it slow they also don't want to share you so that puts the woman in an awkward position. Or the man is contradictory in his words and actions. He wants to take it slow but y'all have spent the past week together and he pretty much treats u like an actual girlfriend. Niggas don't know what they want sometimes.
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Knock_Twice
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darkone360;3487606 said:nigga i swear you just hit home wit this thread.
you aint lying..I'm thinking about this shit now...Thinking back on the women I've dealt with..I've been rushed into a relationship without fully fully knowing that person...
3-5 months of knowing that lovely lady she was already trying to make a nigga stop talkin on the phone with other females
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T. Sanford
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soul rattler;3488091 said:Why women try to have long-distance relationships is beyond me, too. It's like they're asking to be neglected and possibly cheated on.
even tho you an day by day wack poster, I gotta cosign you on this
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Bussy_Getta
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kat2180;3487930 said:Hold up..a YEAR is too soon to expect a commitment and monogamy?
Yeah no.
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fiat_money
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Gotdayum @ 365 days.
That's as many as 73 business weeks.
That's as many as 73 business weeks.
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Cabana_Da_Don
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To me no lie a month I know if she is dating material or just a jump off.Im quick on my toes with that you dont want a unstable female on your hands.
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Intellectual_Liberal
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Dr.Chemix;3487518 said:Yesterday I'm talking to one of my chicas and she hits me with the progress report conversation. Ya know, the "where are we going from here" type of talk. We have been talking for a year but I've told her in the beginning that I'm into taking it slow. I want to get to know her more. Rushing into relationships is not my cup of liquor. Well she tells me she cant do it no more with me, she wants a relationship with me. Of course I cannot do that at this time.
It's a pattern that I don't commit to and I see often with these women. They exchange numbers with a man, go out for two or three dates, have sex on one of em and then they are ready to be in a relationship. I am convinced this is just how they roll in this state. Only a very few understand my rather unique approach on dating and relationships.
What is your take on the situation? How long do you date someone before commitment? Is it a "flow" vibe where you two just naturally hook up?
Just give me some feedback. I don't even understand why after a year she wants to just close it when we having a good time. I do understand, but then I don't
Bolded for emphasis. He told her from the get-go how he operates and everyone on here is basically jumping all over dude for taking a year. I don't see what the huge deal is personally. In this day and age, you MUST take your time in getting to know people.
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Cabana_Da_Don
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kai_valya;3492563 said:exactly. a year is way too long to decide whether u want a relationship or not. that's too much time to waste
I think hes joking or hes a youngin.Or that nigga is insane.
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PURP_L_A_BOL
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Let her go.. If a girl is rushing you into a relationship shell rush you into marriage. unless you explain to her that you dont plan on getting married until your ready (insert age here) and shes cool with it...
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