Who Pays On A First Date?

[taeboo]

The man should always pay.....I had a date 1st date w this black queen once and she said " make sure we don't go anywhere expensive cuz if it don't work out, I don't want u to feel like u wasted ur money"......I damn near fell in love

I would always suggest that a first be something simple and not expensive, like getting drinks or coffee for this reason. Plus if the date is not going well I don't have to stick around for very long.

Oh and the man should pay for the first date.

 

[_Lefty]

No self respecting man is going to let his date pay.

No self respecting man wouldn't at least TRY to get her to pay.

Na, that kind of shit don't even cross my mind. I got enough for the both of us.

 

[mrtdb]

I'm not the type to take random hoes on date...so if I'm taking her on a date at all that means I'm feeling her. I'm cool with paying...that's why I work...so I can afford to treat the people I care about right. It's not trickin if you got it..with that being said it all depends on the situation. For all you know the girl might now be feeling you enough to let you pay for her (doesn't want to give the wrong intentions).

I can tell the difference between someone who wants to go out to be around me...and someone who wants to go out just to get free food. The right woman in your eyes will deserve to be treated right...if you question whether or not you should have to pay for the bill...you either aren't feeling her enough, don't know her enough to be dating her yet, or just don't have the funds (it's cool if you don't...struggle is only temporary...you'll get your bread up eventually.)

 

[D. Morgan]

I'm not the type to take random hoes on date...so if I'm taking her on a date at all that means I'm feeling her. I'm cool with paying...that's why I work...so I can afford to treat the people I care about right. It's not trickin if you got it..with that being said it all depends on the situation. For all you know the girl might now be feeling you enough to let you pay for her (doesn't want to give the wrong intentions).

I can tell the difference between someone who wants to go out to be around me...and someone who wants to go out just to get free food. The right woman in your eyes will deserve to be treated right...if you question whether or not you should have to pay for the bill...you either aren't feeling her enough, don't know her enough to be dating her yet, or just don't have the funds (it's cool if you don't...struggle is only temporary...you'll get your bread up eventually.)

The bold is a lie plain and simple. Whether you have it or not it will always be trickin. Just cause you got it don't mean you can change the definition of trickin. Shit don't work that way.

I ain't against trickin for the record.

 

[32DaysOfInfiniti]

Alot of yall niggas sounding broke as fuck. If you are dating/on a date pay for her meal, if you are friends split the check.

If she let's you fuck regardless of whether you pay or not, you got an easy bitch, good for you. I'm sure your not the only one not paying for her meals.

Because a man generally initiates a date, you are the one that pays. Unless bitches out here asking you out, she has no obligation to you other than finding out if she likes you or not, and you are doing her no favors by taking her out, might as well make the best impression.

I can tell alot of young niggas are in here, or alot of old young minded niggas.

Aint shit niggas all around this bitch. Swear niggas act like girls should be lining up to hang out with them these days, thats some ho shit

 

[CeLLaR-DooR]

The man should always pay.....I had a date 1st date w this black queen once and she said " make sure we don't go anywhere expensive cuz if it don't work out, I don't want u to feel like u wasted ur money"......I damn near fell in love

Funny how people are different coz I wudda been mad AF. Like, 'seriously you're sittin' there expectin' me to pay for our future dates? Nah man if I'm payin' she needs to be flattered and thankful

 

[ms.jones]

I paid for my own on the first date. Subsequent dates, I offer to pay half. Relationship, I'll offer to pay the whole tab.

 

[JokerzWyld]

Alot of yall niggas sounding broke as fuck. If you are dating/on a date pay for her meal, if you are friends split the check.

If she let's you fuck regardless of whether you pay or not, you got an easy bitch, good for you. I'm sure your not the only one not paying for her meals.

Because a man generally initiates a date, you are the one that pays. Unless bitches out here asking you out, she has no obligation to you other than finding out if she likes you or not, and you are doing her no favors by taking her out, might as well make the best impression.

I can tell alot of young niggas are in here, or alot of old young minded niggas.

Aint shit niggas all around this bitch. Swear niggas act like girls should be lining up to hang out with them these days, thats some ho shit

I find your simpery disturbing. Take the pussy off a pedestal.

 

[soul rattler]

Alot of yall niggas sounding broke as fuck. If you are dating/on a date pay for her meal, if you are friends split the check.

If she let's you fuck regardless of whether you pay or not, you got an easy bitch, good for you. I'm sure your not the only one not paying for her meals.

Because a man generally initiates a date, you are the one that pays. Unless bitches out here asking you out, she has no obligation to you other than finding out if she likes you or not, and you are doing her no favors by taking her out, might as well make the best impression.

I can tell alot of young niggas are in here, or alot of old young minded niggas.

Aint shit niggas all around this bitch. Swear niggas act like girls should be lining up to hang out with them these days, thats some ho shit

This is where you fuckin up. Females is trying to kick it too. We don't live in a world run by early 1900's gender roles. Everybody is fucking. Anybody can pay.

If you're a man of respect and attract respecting women, you'll experience women who simply want to pay for you to show that THEY appreciate YOU for you, not just for your fucking wine, lobster, and movie money.

 

[DNB1]

When you dating chicks always let em' know you can ball out when you choose to. If u got it like that.

At the same time the very next day you let em' know your broke as fuck. Doesn't matter if you got money or not. Doesn't matter what the excuse is, from saving for a car, a house or your pension. You ain't got money to waste on seeing if this chick worthy or not.

You only ball out (don't let them pay for shit) to let them know your a man of worth that can offer a security blanket to the right one. At the end of the day that's what a chick wants to know. Is your head screwed on financially.

But you have them believing your broke because if she is the one, you both have the frame of mind to get rich together.

A real bitch doesn't love you because you got money. If she happy to pay her way if it means she can spend time with you it's worth looking at the possibility of a future with her.

If you spend money just to fuck a bitch, you need more self esteem. Don't get me wrong, I pursue bitches that I know it will take a lil spending just so they know I'm in their league. Levels. But I'll be damned if a chick ever thought I'll pay for everything after a first date/fuck.

The only reason I'd ever pay for some pussy is for personal fantasies which involve having a bitch that will give you some pussy for some money. Power. Even if she doesn't think she selling her soul for money. Cause trust me, there is plenty of bitches that are prostitutes and don't know it.

 

[DNB1]

Lol @ "the man should always pay" ass niggas.

You niggas are the reason the court gives her half of what you got and half your future earnings when it's time for the divorce.

Disgusting.

 

[_Lefty]

I paid for my own on the first date. Subsequent dates, I offer to pay half. Relationship, I'll offer to pay the whole tab.

If I took you out and let you pay your half, would you look at me differently than if I took care of the whole thing.

 

[_Lefty]

Lol @ "the man should always pay" ass niggas.

You niggas are the reason the court gives her half of what you got and half your future earnings when it's time for the divorce.

Disgusting.

Stretch armstrong status on that one buddy.

 

[BrideofKilla]

I would offer to split the bill if I could just reach it:

 

[ChillaDaKilla]

Shit. .........dine and dash

 

[ms.jones]

I paid for my own on the first date. Subsequent dates, I offer to pay half. Relationship, I'll offer to pay the whole tab.

If I took you out and let you pay your half, would you look at me differently than if I took care of the whole thing.

No.

 

[anduin]

If Im asking then I'll pay but she get the olive garden TOPS on date 1 and we're splitting the unlimited pasta. Want better then she gotta shell out too.

 

[KLICHE]

Same niggaz that don't pay probably want tbe door opened for them also!

 

[Elzo69Renaissance]

I remember I once went out w this " independent woman" yo this girl spent the whole dinner telling me how independent and self sufficient she is ...u know I don't need a man for shit type.....check comes the waiter puts it on the table, I aCT like I ain't even see it..15 mins later she like are u ready to pay? So we can go....im like what happened to all the gangster shit u were just talking? Made her pay for it she didn't pick up my calls after that lmao

 

[CapitalB]

86 new posts!!?

i aint gonna even read them shits..

but was talkin earlier wit one of my P pa'tnas..

a nigga out here gettin money as i am..

wont get into specifics but we choppin it and i came to the conclusion some niggas aint cut from the same cloth and that shit ALWAYS comes out "in the wash"

any nigga that places money over principle aint a real nigga to me..

u got bitches payin for the date do u got bitches askin u "who's is this!!?" in the bedroom!!?

nah man.. jus nah..

but anyways..

jus dusted the whip off.. bout to go take this Native broad out and buy her all the drinks she can swallow..

hopefully by the end of the night she'll be swallowin somethin else besides this game.. CAUSE THAT!? imma have to spoon feed the bitch! hahaha