Who Pays On A First Date?

[the dukester]

You ole "putting a down payment on the pussy paying ass niggas!!"

This shit is chess, not checkers. First date (dutch), second date, if the vibes are good during mealtime, I'll pay (but only if she orders from the "top of the menu", ie. *the cheap seats.*

Chivalry is dead, and these entitled ho's killed it.

 

[CeLLaR-DooR]

Ey you kno' what with these Tinder hoes the old skool 'yo come my yard for a smoke innit' still works

 

[LPast]

I don't mind spending a little $30 or $50 to feel a chick out. If I can spend less that's even better. I ain't gonna stop her from going in her own pockets either.

People are only worried about being taken advantage of. But the good ones will want to show you they solid. And if you get played, that's just the cost of living. Do better next time.

I feel you, but you need to reevaluate your life paying for your dates food leaves you feeling like you were taken to the cleaners...

 

[Trillfate]

If I pay on a date, I'm gonna bring his ass some roses too.

Hold the door open for him on the way in.

I wouldn't mind. First person to walk through the door should always hold it open for the next

But he has to take it from me. I'll hold it open but he can't waltz through there like your majesty. He has to take it from me. Unless he's walking directly behind me, then he can walk in while I'm holding it

Ob be like

 

[D. Morgan]

I don't mind spending a little $30 or $50 to feel a chick out. If I can spend less that's even better. I ain't gonna stop her from going in her own pockets either.

People are only worried about being taken advantage of. But the good ones will want to show you they solid. And if you get played, that's just the cost of living. Do better next time.

I feel you, but you need to reevaluate your life paying for your dates food leaves you feeling like you were taken to the cleaners...

Somebody gets it!!!

 

[Elzo69Renaissance]

The man should always pay.....I had a date 1st date w this black queen once and she said " make sure we don't go anywhere expensive cuz if it don't work out, I don't want u to feel like u wasted ur money"......I damn near fell in love

 

[texas409]

I learned my lesson from doing that and stopped that foolishness last year. If you dont know the chick dont do it cause its 2016 these chicks know the game fellas just a warning. She is getting treated often and youre just another Friday night meal and drinks with a sweet kiss on the cheek at the end of the night lol

 

[obnoxiouslyfresh]

The man should always pay.....I had a date 1st date w this black queen once and she said " make sure we don't go anywhere expensive cuz if it don't work out, I don't want u to feel like u wasted ur money"......I damn near fell in love

You are so cute. You are so stinkin cute

 

[texas409]

I don't mind spending a little $30 or $50 to feel a chick out. If I can spend less that's even better. I ain't gonna stop her from going in her own pockets either.

People are only worried about being taken advantage of. But the good ones will want to show you they solid. And if you get played, that's just the cost of living. Do better next time.

nah man just nah. Learn to peeps signs early to avoid those $50 L's. Men and women work too hard for their money to just say "oh well i'll do better next time" that shit adds up. Some folks just looking for come ups and when you fall on hard times youre gonna wish you could get that money wasted back all the while you gonna see her on snap and IG getting tricked on every weekend

 

[2stepz_ahead]

ill pay on the first date...and ill let it be know....

ill watch how you order once its said and will stop you from ordering if you getting crazy just cuase you think its an open check.

ihave been on dates where chicks thought we was going dutch and ordering water and the house wine....to finding out im paying now bitch want a bottle of nuvo or some expensive rap song liquor

 

[obnoxiouslyfresh]

If I pay on a date, I'm gonna bring his ass some roses too.

Hold the door open for him on the way in.

I wouldn't mind. First person to walk through the door should always hold it open for the next

But he has to take it from me. I'll hold it open but he can't waltz through there like your majesty. He has to take it from me. Unless he's walking directly behind me, then he can walk in while I'm holding it

Ob be like

There's methods.

I'm not gonna hold the door open for a guy like this on some "after you" shit .....

If I do, I'm assuming that he's gonna grab it from me and not waltz through.

However, I will definitely hold the door open for a guy like this, meaning I got there first, looked back and he's behind me. I'm not gonna let it close in his face.

 

[D. Morgan]

LLS at some the fucking answers in this thread and niggas really wondering why they can't find or get a submissive woman.

This shit is sad and hilarious all at the same time.

 

[2stepz_ahead]

funny story

one time i stopped thru florida for my homies bday to take him out....his girl didnt know i was coming nor did she invite me. anyway once i showed up....he said she was taking him to dinner...im like ok cool...but now she all happy and asks me to come...i side eye but agree to come.

we get there an her sister..who been trynna give me the ass an knows im married was there...as well as like13 other people.

everyone was happy to see me it seems....

so we all ordering and they going in..bottles on bottles and steak an shit...alcoholic desserts. imlike damn these niggas done came up.

then the check came...it was the funniest shit look i ever seen... they looked at the waiter an nosed him in my direction not caring what was on the bill.

when i saw this my homie knew what i was about to do....an started laughing.

so i took the bill..looked at it..asked a few deep questions.looked at it again....then told him i was only paying for myself and my homie since it was his bday.

no the fukkery started...his girl sister did the flirty flirty asking " you wont pay for my dinner" with the head tilt sexy eye thing...im like nope.

now everyone was scrambling and asking if the bill was right, talking about what they didnt order and who drank more so should pay more. niggas slamming money on the table and going to there car, niggas checking credit limits...lol

so at the endmy homie pitched in to help them.

his girl gonna come over and say...it ought you woulda paid for dinner balla. he is your homie. i was like....i did pay for dinner, his dinner. remember you didnt even pick the phone up to invite me.

now she like but i didnt think you would fly here just for that. but i did and i would i told her.now she like ok next time...im like nah im good we going to the skrip club now.

i hate when people think because i show up...the bill is taken care of. they learned that day

 

[Trillfate]

I learned my lesson from doing that and stopped that foolishness last year. If you dont know the chick dont do it cause its 2016 these chicks know the game fellas just a warning. She is getting treated often and youre just another Friday night meal and drinks with a sweet kiss on the cheek at the end of the night lol

Thats like a Thing now... chicks go on first dates strictly for free meals

 

[_Lefty]

Ya'll gotta know the difference between the OB's and the Khelessis. I say it all the time.

 

[D. Morgan]

I learned my lesson from doing that and stopped that foolishness last year. If you dont know the chick dont do it cause its 2016 these chicks know the game fellas just a warning. She is getting treated often and youre just another Friday night meal and drinks with a sweet kiss on the cheek at the end of the night lol

Thats like a Thing now... chicks go on first dates strictly for free meals

Nigga that shit been going on since forever!! Its not a new thing.

When yall really going to learn the shit true when they say "AIN'T NOTHING NEW UNDER THE SUN!"

 

[Trillfate]

Ya'll gotta know the difference between the OB's and the Khelessis. I say it all the time.

I already said it depends on the woman... Ob in here on some "i wish a nigga would" knowing damn well she has gotten A1 treatment on 95% of the dates she ever been on, cuz she Deserves it..

But not every female is entitled to that..

 

[blacktux]

LLS at some the fucking answers in this thread and niggas really wondering why they can't find or get a submissive woman.

This shit is sad and hilarious all at the same time.

So only "submissive women" are getting free meals out here?

Okay man.

 

[D. Morgan]

LLS at some the fucking answers in this thread and niggas really wondering why they can't find or get a submissive woman.

This shit is sad and hilarious all at the same time.

So only "submissive women" are getting free meals out here?

Okay man.

Not hardly what I'm saying but if that is what you got out of that comment. I ain't gonna stop you from thinking that.

 

[blacktux]

If i am interested in something and would like some company, male(nh) or female; ill pay for everything. (My invite)

If i am interested in something and my company is interested, we pay for ourselves. (We were both going anyway, so we go together)

If a person who values my company would like me to go out with them, i expect them to pay for everything; although i am prepared to cover myself. (Im invited)

As i say in every thread this question is asked in... For yall to be so willy nilly on giving your money away, how can you honestly say you have a problem with tricking?