Whens the best time to have children?

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evoljeanyes;4890628 said:
RuffDraft;4890310 said:
Why bother having children? Why not see the world with the one that you love and share and indulge in all that you love and be able to live a stable, secure and enjoyable lifestyle? I see no point of having children, all they seem to do is bring stress, bills and joy; the first two means that I'm out as the latter can be found elsewhere.

This is how I used to think...but its not so bad.

So do you guys think girls or boys are more difficult

I think its d same..your still raising a human being

 
ATTS;4890723 said:
evoljeanyes;4890628 said:
RuffDraft;4890310 said:
Why bother having children? Why not see the world with the one that you love and share and indulge in all that you love and be able to live a stable, secure and enjoyable lifestyle? I see no point of having children, all they seem to do is bring stress, bills and joy; the first two means that I'm out as the latter can be found elsewhere.

This is how I used to think...but its not so bad.

So do you guys think girls or boys are more difficult

I think its d same..your still raising a human being

Old heads say girls get difficult when they are older

 
Some of yall don't need to have kid bruh

This best time to have kids is never

Love kids to death but no way I'm bringing a child into this world

fuck that
 
Dr.Chemix;4891059 said:
Some of yall don't need to have kid bruh

This best time to have kids is never

Love kids to death but no way I'm bringing a child into this world

fuck that

Most folks shouldn't have kids. Especially black kids. These niggas need tutelage for this lifw
 
In Your Moms Room;4891107 said:
evoljeanyes;4891091 said:
In Your Moms Room;4891071 said:
When she forget to take the pill or the condom breaks. shrugs. Shit happens. Kids happen too.

I have never seen you make a good post ever g

My G. If i had 100 fucks in my pocket i wouldn't give you one.

Your response says otherwise. As do your damn near 7,000 posts...that's whole lot of no fucks you're giving
 
evoljeanyes;4891044 said:
ATTS;4890723 said:
evoljeanyes;4890628 said:
RuffDraft;4890310 said:
Why bother having children? Why not see the world with the one that you love and share and indulge in all that you love and be able to live a stable, secure and enjoyable lifestyle? I see no point of having children, all they seem to do is bring stress, bills and joy; the first two means that I'm out as the latter can be found elsewhere.

This is how I used to think...but its not so bad.

So do you guys think girls or boys are more difficult

I think its d same..your still raising a human being

Old heads say girls get difficult when they are older

nope...depends on how you raise them.....

 
evoljeanyes;4889862 said:
SocialAssassinRati;4889678 said:
When youre grown and established...when you have a home to raise them in, when you are able to take care of yourself comfortably and you are mature enough to understand that life isnt so much about you anymore as it is raising your seeds and building a legacy for them to build onto.

How old are you family...you think parents should be home owners?

29 and yes raising kids in apts=WOAT imo

Plus when people own cribs they tend to have a better mentality, direction and stability in life and that will rub off on the kids more often than not. Its kinda like when ghetto ass people say "P.O.M.E." except the middle class version
 
VIBE;4889801 said:
SocialAssassinRati;4889691 said:
VIBE;4889136 said:
Yeah, I'm married. I've been with her for 12 years, married 4.

The first one, it was easy. Aside the nights and what not, it was peaceful and easy. Now with 4, it's hella difficult, constant fighting, a billion questions, trying to keep them all in check etc... It's stressful and hectic.

Can't wait until they grow out of this stage, everything is such a big deal to them LOL

damn bruh...yall were together 8 of them thangs BEFORE marriage...that shit should count toward the marriage like federal retirement plans or something...my girl and I been together two yrs and living together 1 and I might be bout ready to pop the ?.

I don't care about marriage TBH, it's stupid. We're together many years, we were practically "married".

C/S I think the institution of marriage is dumb an archaic as well...but women love it probably all that fairy tale shit growing up and the fact that its more beneficial to them than us but unlike the vast majority of bitches that tend to be in love with the idea of marriage but not understand nor care about the concept...the one I have does I guess when you grow up upper middle class with both parents you tend to understand the natural order of things and a relationship and believe in patriarchy...all that shit...thats the ONLY reason i'm considering it.

but congratz bruh
 
SocialAssassinRati;4891152 said:
evoljeanyes;4889862 said:
SocialAssassinRati;4889678 said:
When youre grown and established...when you have a home to raise them in, when you are able to take care of yourself comfortably and you are mature enough to understand that life isnt so much about you anymore as it is raising your seeds and building a legacy for them to build onto.

How old are you family...you think parents should be home owners?

29 and yes raising kids in apts=WOAT imo

Plus when people own cribs they tend to have a better mentality, direction and stability in life and that will rub off on the kids more often than not. Its kinda like when ghetto ass people say "P.O.M.E." except the middle class version

I feel you! But what the heck is p.o.m.e?
 
SocialAssassinRati;4891177 said:
VIBE;4889801 said:
SocialAssassinRati;4889691 said:
VIBE;4889136 said:
Yeah, I'm married. I've been with her for 12 years, married 4.

The first one, it was easy. Aside the nights and what not, it was peaceful and easy. Now with 4, it's hella difficult, constant fighting, a billion questions, trying to keep them all in check etc... It's stressful and hectic.

Can't wait until they grow out of this stage, everything is such a big deal to them LOL

damn bruh...yall were together 8 of them thangs BEFORE marriage...that shit should count toward the marriage like federal retirement plans or something...my girl and I been together two yrs and living together 1 and I might be bout ready to pop the ?.

I don't care about marriage TBH, it's stupid. We're together many years, we were practically "married".

C/S I think the institution of marriage is dumb an archaic as well...but women love it probably all that fairy tale shit growing up and the fact that its more beneficial to them than us but unlike the vast majority of bitches that tend to be in love with the idea of marriage but not understand nor care about the concept...the one I have does I guess when you grow up upper middle class with both parents you tend to understand the natural order of things and a relationship and believe in patriarchy...all that shit...thats the ONLY reason i'm considering it.

but congratz bruh

Does your girl want marriage? If so how do those conversations go?

 
Early teens is good. That way you can spend 80-90 years with your family. Most people only get 60 years. Plus you can see great great great grandchildren.
 
evoljeanyes;4891204 said:
SocialAssassinRati;4891152 said:
evoljeanyes;4889862 said:
SocialAssassinRati;4889678 said:
When youre grown and established...when you have a home to raise them in, when you are able to take care of yourself comfortably and you are mature enough to understand that life isnt so much about you anymore as it is raising your seeds and building a legacy for them to build onto.

How old are you family...you think parents should be home owners?

29 and yes raising kids in apts=WOAT imo

Plus when people own cribs they tend to have a better mentality, direction and stability in life and that will rub off on the kids more often than not. Its kinda like when ghetto ass people say "P.O.M.E." except the middle class version

I feel you! But what the heck is p.o.m.e?

POME=Product of my environment
 

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