What's The Worst Habit A Woman Can Have In Your Opinion?

[BEAM]

* Feeling that a man is obligated to entertain all of their emotions / insecurities / speculations, would be mine.

Just because we're friends/in a relationship doesn't mean I've got to endure whatever's going on in your head, even if it concerns me or you think it's my "fault." You can be wrong before someone else proves it to you, and debating assumptions/faulty logic is taxing, esp if it's out of obligation. And then most people ( esp women ) never want to own up for the unnecessary stress and time wasted because we just had to sort out something she was wrong about to begin with.

I didn't call it before we fleshed this thing out tho. You were only wrong once you realized you were wrong.

And damn, I added stress to the situation because I didn't just go along with your questions, right?

People always have a reason why they want to know something, and if that why is wrong to begin with, we're not doing any of it.

 

[aneed123]

Always complaining bout food or svc when u go out...

 

[Westie]

.. Tbh I'm an inquisitive person so this is a habit of mine, it has nothing to do with me feeling emboldened in a relationship to push buttons. I'm a habitual button-pusher ..

Or otherwise, lol.

I usually don't let things like that play out long-term, esp if I can see that she's wrong from a mile away.

Questions and discussions can be just as unnecessary as arguments.

Questions and discussions are unnecessary?

Yeah.... sounds like a successful relationship with zero communication at all. Let's not know anything about each other at all. sounds healthy.

 

[blackrain]

Trap questions and mind games...asking questions they already know the answer to see how you respong. My mom did it to me all the time growing up and now I'm like "how do niggas still be falling for this shit?"

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guilty!!!!

Fam.....when I tell you I HAAAAAATE that shit??? And by the time you get to the point I'm already mad cuz you coulda just said what the problem was in the beginning...and because I'm mad the change you seek ain't gonna happen lol

it's really bad with me because I'm super duper Blunt, but I like to know motives and reasons behind everything so I'll ask a million questions to get to why, what, when, and where and have a full-blown circular ass argument. All gone about in a round about way.

and I'll be over that shit in 5 minutes and wondering why he's mad lol

I'll be like I know what I wanted to know, I'm done what's the problem?

I'm one frustrating woman.

this is annoying. but what is more annoying is the fact that women know that they are this way and do nothing to change/improve/better themselves. they KNOW they are a pain in the fuckin ass when they do this shit. make a nigga not want to talk to yall.

Yeah I don't necessarily agree but you're entitled to your opinion. My thing is I'll ask a direct question if I don't get a direct answer and I got to go around I'ma go around the direct answer and I'ma find out what I need to know. Don't lie, don't avoid topics, and I won't annoy you simple

I don't disageee that answering directly makes for easier convos. Thing is alot of women take a man's short answer to a question as trying to not be direct or hide something. Sometimes shit really is just that simple and you frustrate yourself more looking for a deeper answer that's not even there than just accepting the original answer you were given

 

[blackrain]

What's that's shit when u ask them what's wrong and they say "nothin," but blow up 2 hours later.

Oh and disrespectful getting loud in public

Any woman I've ever dealt with I set the standard off top if you're upset about something and I ask what and you say nothing then thats the answer you're stuck with and you forfeit your right to come back later on mad that I didn't play mind reader and guess what has you upset. You do that shit from jump and either forces women to deal with their shit straight up or realize they can't and they just leave you alone.

 

[Westie]

Trap questions and mind games...asking questions they already know the answer to see how you respong. My mom did it to me all the time growing up and now I'm like "how do niggas still be falling for this shit?"

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guilty!!!!

Fam.....when I tell you I HAAAAAATE that shit??? And by the time you get to the point I'm already mad cuz you coulda just said what the problem was in the beginning...and because I'm mad the change you seek ain't gonna happen lol

it's really bad with me because I'm super duper Blunt, but I like to know motives and reasons behind everything so I'll ask a million questions to get to why, what, when, and where and have a full-blown circular ass argument. All gone about in a round about way.

and I'll be over that shit in 5 minutes and wondering why he's mad lol

I'll be like I know what I wanted to know, I'm done what's the problem?

I'm one frustrating woman.

this is annoying. but what is more annoying is the fact that women know that they are this way and do nothing to change/improve/better themselves. they KNOW they are a pain in the fuckin ass when they do this shit. make a nigga not want to talk to yall.

Yeah I don't necessarily agree but you're entitled to your opinion. My thing is I'll ask a direct question if I don't get a direct answer and I got to go around I'ma go around the direct answer and I'ma find out what I need to know. Don't lie, don't avoid topics, and I won't annoy you simple

I don't disageee that answering directly makes for easier convos. Thing is alot of women take a man's short answer to a question as trying to not be direct or hide something. Sometimes shit really is just that simple and you frustrate yourself more looking for a deeper answer that's not even there than just accepting the original answer you were given

I agree with this. Sometimes women look for a deeper meaning when some men can be pretty simple minded.

 

[blackrain]

A woman who doesn't clean their gotdamn house/car or who isn't tidy in general. That shit is an omen and tells a lot about that person!

I done been to a some PRETTY brawds spot for the first time and walked in like....

And then have the nerve to tell me..... "Ya know you can sit down!"

I'm jus like......

Sometimes I still can't believe them yamps lived like that. smh

One girl I talked to in college...lil Trinidadian chick. First time I went to her campus apartment I was disgusted. Clothes everywhere, papers all over the place, dishes sitting all over. When I asked her why she didn't clean her shit up she said "I'm not a maid. Why would I clean?" I said "Because you live here..." She looked so confused at that basic concept. That was the first and last time I went to her spot.

 

[Qiv_Owan]

Bad HYGIENE. Especially down south.

How the fuck has this not been said yet?

Y'all tolerating some funky broads or nah?

Cuz hygiene is a requirement not a habit

 

[fuc_i_look_like]

Stay posting everything on social media

Man i got a homeboy like that. Nigga posts like 10+ FB updates a day. I be like bruh, women dont even post THAT much on my timeline. Shit is borderline gay

 

[CashmoneyDux]

Yall talking about smoking weed or cigarettes

 

[playboy buddy rose]

Not havin a job

 

[blacktux]

Outside of the obvious like poor hygiene, bad judgment, drama and cheating...

A Sense of entitlement.

Someone who doesn't appreciate anything but always thinks that they deserve what you do for then. These women ultimately think they deserve more when they haven't increased their end of the deal.

Show some fuckin appreciation.

Gospel.

#1 reason im getting this divorce right now.

 

[Rozetta5tone]

I don't think it's a habit but women who have become used to toxic relationships or being independent for an extend period of time bother me to the core.

They work hard to block all chance of positive and genuine connection.

I used to be a gentleman about the shit and "stick it out and be patient". Now I'm like "here's a number to a good therapist. Holla at me when you get your mind right".

 

[luke1733]

My worst habit is overanalyzing shit and seeing things that ain't there. My man could say that he's thirsty and wants a glass of water and I will call all of my friends trying to dissect precisely what he meant by the word "thirsty" and what he could have really meant by saying "glass" instead of "cup". By the time I'm done, I'll have it figured out that by thirst he was talking about a deep inner soul longing that can only be filled by the love of another woman who is independent and whole and knows what she needs and that is why he needed a glass which was actually a metaphor for the self reflection required of him which will allow him to see the attributes of that woman clearly in order to decipher whether she is the one who could fulfill his needs as a life-long partner in holy matrimony.

Meanwhile... this nigga be just wanting a beverage and I've already broken up with him in my mind because I deserve better than someone who doesn't see me as whole already.

uhhh.....wow?

 

[luke1733]

Addiction to drama and other peoples business

See this is what separates us as a species. Y'all really have no interest in that shit. Oprah said on her show once that she and Stedman were close to this married couple. Stedman was on the golf course with the guy earlier in the day. Stedman gets home and tells Oprah "Oh yea Mark and Susie are getting a divorce. Susie is leaving him for a woman." So Oprah start asking Stedman a million questions... "Omg, are you serious? Who is the woman? How did he find out? Do their kids know? Did she move out? How did she meet the woman?" Stedman goes "I don't know. I didn't ask."

Oprah said she was astonished but she really understood how different men and women are that day. This nigga didn't ask not one follow up question when his friend told him "my wife is divorcing me for a woman." I would have gotten all the fuckin tea. That is such an interesting concept to me in terms of how we are wired. I would have had a 3 pages of notes to report back if my friend tell me some shit like that.

I guess. I don't really care for details like that

I've had those kind of things happen a lot. I figure people will tell me what they want me to know. I'm not really going to go digging on personal shit UNLESS that person keeps bringing it up and wants to talk specifically about that. Other than that, I hear friends saying they cheated on their wife and we go right from that one 5 second statement to talking about Steph Curry or Trump for an hour.

I was only shocked once. Had a buddy (not a close friend. ONe of those friends you see about 3x a year) I'd known since 6th grade (which is over 20 years) and just found out two years ago he had like 4 kids when he told me he had to go pick them up from school.

I was like what the fuck? When that shit happen? Dude never mentioned that shit before.

 

[Inglewood_B]

Going off on tangents when I ask a simple question

 

[Inglewood_B]

Never knowing what they wanna eat

Or touchin any of my damn food when she declined my offer to buy her somethin. If she touches my fries im goin back to the drive thru to order a whole new meal for myself.

Done this more times than I care to admit

 

[So ILL]

worst habit a women can have is setting a sex schedule

Yeah, you're definitely the bitch in that relationship if she's on that. How are you getting put on the schedule for some pussy and you can't just get that ass? Might as well accept that you share that.

 

[VulcanRaven]

.. Tbh I'm an inquisitive person so this is a habit of mine, it has nothing to do with me feeling emboldened in a relationship to push buttons. I'm a habitual button-pusher ..

Or otherwise, lol.

I usually don't let things like that play out long-term, esp if I can see that she's wrong from a mile away.

Questions and discussions can be just as unnecessary as arguments.

Questions and discussions are unnecessary?

Yeah.... sounds like a successful relationship with zero communication at all. Let's not know anything about each other at all. sounds healthy.

Girl, all you need to know is I'm in my zone

 

[Rasta.]

Laziness and inability to cook.

Kill it with fiyah