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What motivates you? Could your surroundings be stopping you? Are you your best you?
Young_Chitlin
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T. Sanford
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Law 29: Plan all the way to the end
Always think strategically & see several steps ahead and plan your moves all the way to the end. Do not be tempted by emotions or by the desire to improvise. Your clarity will rid you of the anxiety and vagueness that are the primary reasons why so many fail to conclude their action successfully. By planning to the end you will not be overwhelmed by circumstances and you will know when to stop. Gently guide fortune and help determine the future by thinking far ahead
Always think strategically & see several steps ahead and plan your moves all the way to the end. Do not be tempted by emotions or by the desire to improvise. Your clarity will rid you of the anxiety and vagueness that are the primary reasons why so many fail to conclude their action successfully. By planning to the end you will not be overwhelmed by circumstances and you will know when to stop. Gently guide fortune and help determine the future by thinking far ahead
LEMZIMUS_RAMSEY
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My life is like a kettlebell training
No fancy
No smoke and mirrors
No ego
Effort
Discipline
Plan
MY boss was telling me how crazy how was to save half my salary. He told me that i should have some plesure in life. I asked him why should i change my plan and goals if im smiling and living way less stressed?
He didnt have an answer to that.
Cause in the end it comes down to this : no stress, happyness, progress, opprtunities.
Evrytime somebody tries to derail you from that ask him how stressed he is when he goes to his mailbox. Ask him about his car payments. Ask him about how much he got left by the 15 th of the month.
Most of them will put their head down and stay speechless. They will even get mad at you lol.
No fancy
No smoke and mirrors
No ego
Effort
Discipline
Plan
MY boss was telling me how crazy how was to save half my salary. He told me that i should have some plesure in life. I asked him why should i change my plan and goals if im smiling and living way less stressed?
He didnt have an answer to that.
Cause in the end it comes down to this : no stress, happyness, progress, opprtunities.
Evrytime somebody tries to derail you from that ask him how stressed he is when he goes to his mailbox. Ask him about his car payments. Ask him about how much he got left by the 15 th of the month.
Most of them will put their head down and stay speechless. They will even get mad at you lol.
LEMZIMUS_RAMSEY
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Last saturday i was at a mall ( mall are so disgusting , feeled with ego and testosterone)
To buy a watch with a collegue. Dude webt mad cause i ve bought a 20 dollars watch. He was arguing loud how i was classless.
The woman at the payment area asked me what happened. I told her about that shit and finished with ' LIVE LIKE NOONE ELSE so tommorow you can be like noone else'
She smiled and blinked.
To buy a watch with a collegue. Dude webt mad cause i ve bought a 20 dollars watch. He was arguing loud how i was classless.
The woman at the payment area asked me what happened. I told her about that shit and finished with ' LIVE LIKE NOONE ELSE so tommorow you can be like noone else'
She smiled and blinked.
felliwonda
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2stepz_ahead;c-9514413 said:we all need to help and hold each other accountable.
we can make this right....we can create something powerful
if i am fukkin up ...i need someone to tell me
but i also need to have someone help me if i ask for it....
or maybe just help cause i said i ran into a problem and didnt ask for help.
what is the harm in helping just because...
did it harm you in anyway....does it make you feel a grown man can do it himself.
do you feel ...since you made it without ...he should be able to as well....
guess what...we never know when we may be on the other end of that need......
so i will go outta my way just because i want to help.
people talk about karma.....but what about the positive things that come back because of the positive you out out there......
You know @2stepz_ahead man I try my best at all times to not depend on anyone I really try until well yeah I need some help. But even than I can't help but think Danm I really wish you didn't have to go out of your way to help me because for some sick reason yo I feel like sometimes people just want to help to be able to ask back in return from you or directly hold one against you just in case. I know there are still good people out there like you that hey they wanna help just because in fact is crazy but I am like that very much. I just hate the notion of someone like I said helping me and no is not because it makes me feel better than anyone it just satisfies me and allows me to feel free and dependent. A lot of times though I wonder if that drags me back some towards betterness although I feel like it has held me steady on my way forward idk if I make sense.
2stepz_ahead
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felliwonda;c-9843525 said:2stepz_ahead;c-9514413 said:we all need to help and hold each other accountable.
we can make this right....we can create something powerful
if i am fukkin up ...i need someone to tell me
but i also need to have someone help me if i ask for it....
or maybe just help cause i said i ran into a problem and didnt ask for help.
what is the harm in helping just because...
did it harm you in anyway....does it make you feel a grown man can do it himself.
do you feel ...since you made it without ...he should be able to as well....
guess what...we never know when we may be on the other end of that need......
so i will go outta my way just because i want to help.
people talk about karma.....but what about the positive things that come back because of the positive you out out there......
You know @2stepz_ahead man I try my best at all times to not depend on anyone I really try until well yeah I need some help. But even than I can't help but think Danm I really wish you didn't have to go out of your way to help me because for some sick reason yo I feel like sometimes people just want to help to be able to ask back in return from you or directly hold one against you just in case. I know there are still good people out there like you that hey they wanna help just because in fact is crazy but I am like that very much. I just hate the notion of someone like I said helping me and no is not because it makes me feel better than anyone it just satisfies me and allows me to feel free and dependent. A lot of times though I wonder if that drags me back some towards betterness although I feel like it has held me steady on my way forward idk if I make sense.
bruh..i understand and it does make sense
you have to change how you think an who is around you.
but i understand your point. some people are just like that. but you cant let them stop your progress.
its 7billion other souls out there that dont deserve to be shut out and could potentially change your life which can change your families life for the better. but if you dont allow it because of something your feeling, you can only blame you. you should get to the root of why you feel like that.
i have had many mentors. i often go back to say thank you in some sort of way....but i can honestly say...none of them expected anything from me except my best. and if i was slipping they came down hard on me because they put their neck on the line. at times i didnt understand but now i do.
i would just say....before you ask for or accept help in the future, watch how that person carries themselves. that can tell you alot. then you will know how to approach them and how to deal with them and if thats even an option you want to deal with. You might just have to say...let me think about it, to give yourself time to think about it.
but dont think you can do this alone...we all need help in some capacity. its honorable that you want to do it, but dont make it harder on yourself than it has to be. its already not easy.
as long as you believe in you...thats the first and most major step.
trust your instincts and give yourself time to assess.
Young_Chitlin
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felliwonda
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2stepz_ahead;c-9843584 said:felliwonda;c-9843525 said:2stepz_ahead;c-9514413 said:we all need to help and hold each other accountable.
we can make this right....we can create something powerful
if i am fukkin up ...i need someone to tell me
but i also need to have someone help me if i ask for it....
or maybe just help cause i said i ran into a problem and didnt ask for help.
what is the harm in helping just because...
did it harm you in anyway....does it make you feel a grown man can do it himself.
do you feel ...since you made it without ...he should be able to as well....
guess what...we never know when we may be on the other end of that need......
so i will go outta my way just because i want to help.
people talk about karma.....but what about the positive things that come back because of the positive you out out there......
You know @2stepz_ahead man I try my best at all times to not depend on anyone I really try until well yeah I need some help. But even than I can't help but think Danm I really wish you didn't have to go out of your way to help me because for some sick reason yo I feel like sometimes people just want to help to be able to ask back in return from you or directly hold one against you just in case. I know there are still good people out there like you that hey they wanna help just because in fact is crazy but I am like that very much. I just hate the notion of someone like I said helping me and no is not because it makes me feel better than anyone it just satisfies me and allows me to feel free and dependent. A lot of times though I wonder if that drags me back some towards betterness although I feel like it has held me steady on my way forward idk if I make sense.
bruh..i understand and it does make sense
you have to change how you think an who is around you.
but i understand your point. some people are just like that. but you cant let them stop your progress.
its 7billion other souls out there that dont deserve to be shut out and could potentially change your life which can change your families life for the better. but if you dont allow it because of something your feeling, you can only blame you. you should get to the root of why you feel like that.
i have had many mentors. i often go back to say thank you in some sort of way....but i can honestly say...none of them expected anything from me except my best. and if i was slipping they came down hard on me because they put their neck on the line. at times i didnt understand but now i do.
i would just say....before you ask for or accept help in the future, watch how that person carries themselves. that can tell you alot. then you will know how to approach them and how to deal with them and if thats even an option you want to deal with. You might just have to say...let me think about it, to give yourself time to think about it.
but dont think you can do this alone...we all need help in some capacity. its honorable that you want to do it, but dont make it harder on yourself than it has to be. its already not easy.
as long as you believe in you...thats the first and most major step.
trust your instincts and give yourself time to assess.
True words thanks respect man.
Young_Chitlin
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Young_Chitlin
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Young_Chitlin
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Young_Chitlin
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"When you know what your goals are, suddenly you're not so tired."
T. Sanford
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I've been watching a lot of Dr. Boyce Watkins videos lately.
2stepz_ahead
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T. Sanford;c-9953338 said:I've been watching a lot of Dr. Boyce Watkins videos lately.
have they helped spark or affirm anything?
T. Sanford
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2stepz_ahead;c-9953339 said:T. Sanford;c-9953338 said:I've been watching a lot of Dr. Boyce Watkins videos lately.
have they helped spark or affirm anything?
He have a lot of videos on his channel. I only seen about 4 of them right now. Lately, he just been confirming things that I slightly already thought when he was talking about college tuition & how to utilize your alternatives in education. He said something about a 2 year tech school that you can apply to that's cheaper per semester & their graduates has been working at Google & other tech firms. That kinda sparked an interest. He talk everything tho especially finances
BigBallsNoWorries
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T. Sanford;c-9953369 said:2stepz_ahead;c-9953339 said:T. Sanford;c-9953338 said:I've been watching a lot of Dr. Boyce Watkins videos lately.
have they helped spark or affirm anything?
He have a lot of videos on his channel. I only seen about 4 of them right now. Lately, he just been confirming things that I slightly already thought when he was talking about college tuition & how to utilize your alternatives in education. He said something about a 2 year tech school that you can apply to that's cheaper per semester & their graduates has been working at Google & other tech firms. That kinda sparked an interest. He talk everything tho especially finances
Look up Patrick Bet David
Dude has his whole channel dedicated to entrepreneurship
Young_Chitlin
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"The what will come to you, and the how will come to you when the why is important enough." - Dave Ramsey
Young_Chitlin
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T. Sanford
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1. Never shake a man’s hand sitting down.
2. There are plenty of ways to enter a pool. The stairs ain’t one.
3. The man at the grill is the closest thing we have to a king.
4. In a negotiation, never make the first offer.
5. Act like you’ve been there before. Especially in the end zone.
6. Request the late check-out.
7. When entrusted with a secret, keep it.
8. Hold your heroes to a higher standard.
9. Return a borrowed car with a full tank of gas.
10. Don’t fill up on bread.
11. When shaking hands, grip firmly and look him in the eye.
12. Don’t let a wishbone grow where a backbone should be.
13. If you need music on the beach, you’re missing the point.
14. Carry two handkerchiefs. The one in your back pocket is for you. The one in your breast pocket is for her.
15. You marry the girl, you marry her whole family.
16. Be like a duck. Remain calm on the surface and paddle like crazy underneath.
17. Experience the serenity of traveling alone.
18. Never be afraid to ask out the best looking girl in the room.
19. Never turn down a breath mint.
20. In a game of HORSE, sometimes a simple free throw will get ’em.
21. A sport coat is worth 1000 words.
22. Try writing your own eulogy. Never stop revising.
23. Thank a veteran. And then make it up to him.
24. If you want to know what makes you unique, sit for a caricature.
25. Eat lunch with the new kid.
26. After writing an angry email, read it carefully. Then delete it.
27. Ask your mom to play. She won’t let you win.
28. See it on the big screen.
29. Give credit. Take the blame.
30. Write down your dreams.
One of my home boys made this status on FB. I had to drop it here
2. There are plenty of ways to enter a pool. The stairs ain’t one.
3. The man at the grill is the closest thing we have to a king.
4. In a negotiation, never make the first offer.
5. Act like you’ve been there before. Especially in the end zone.
6. Request the late check-out.
7. When entrusted with a secret, keep it.
8. Hold your heroes to a higher standard.
9. Return a borrowed car with a full tank of gas.
10. Don’t fill up on bread.
11. When shaking hands, grip firmly and look him in the eye.
12. Don’t let a wishbone grow where a backbone should be.
13. If you need music on the beach, you’re missing the point.
14. Carry two handkerchiefs. The one in your back pocket is for you. The one in your breast pocket is for her.
15. You marry the girl, you marry her whole family.
16. Be like a duck. Remain calm on the surface and paddle like crazy underneath.
17. Experience the serenity of traveling alone.
18. Never be afraid to ask out the best looking girl in the room.
19. Never turn down a breath mint.
20. In a game of HORSE, sometimes a simple free throw will get ’em.
21. A sport coat is worth 1000 words.
22. Try writing your own eulogy. Never stop revising.
23. Thank a veteran. And then make it up to him.
24. If you want to know what makes you unique, sit for a caricature.
25. Eat lunch with the new kid.
26. After writing an angry email, read it carefully. Then delete it.
27. Ask your mom to play. She won’t let you win.
28. See it on the big screen.
29. Give credit. Take the blame.
30. Write down your dreams.
One of my home boys made this status on FB. I had to drop it here
