what can potntially be a deal breaker off top for a new relationship

[haute]

C/s Dee on music

Like at any moment bjork, smashing pumpkins, wutang, busta rhymes, and or biggie could be blaring through my speaker he better be able to latch on to 3/5 or it won't work

Oh and he has to be into holidays, not for gifts but for family

My mom loooves to cook and bake for like every damn holiday

If you can't understand why I must bring my mom flowers and cookies for sweetest day

It won't work

 

[Bussy_Getta]

if you cant bring me around your friends and family after a while im out

instant deal breaker, smoking and having a yucky mouth

 

[downbottom504]

1)materialistic
2)smoker
3)sloppy drinker
4)vain
5)no sense of humor
6)messy(as in gossiper)

ders alot mor but i'll stop there

 

[BP OIL SPILL FACE]

1. Doesn't give head
2. Smokes
3. Drinks heavily
4. Ignorant
5. Is into holidays(I'm not into holidays, but I'm not religious)
6. Lazy
7. Has children under 18(no more getting with women that has lil rascals running around)

There's more, but these are the ones I was able to come up with.

 

[tru_m.a.c]

A chick that doesn't have her own life....

Ain't nothing worse than a female that serves no purpose in life besides being a female. Go get a hobby. Get some friends. Do something beside wait on me to text/call you.

 

[D-Marco]

No job or ambition

Smoker

Clubbing on a weekly basis

Excessive tattoos and piercings

Not an independent thinker

Single mother

Golddigger

Thinks her opinion=fact

Poor etiquette and manners

Bad attitude

Poor hygiene

Criminal record

All these (cept the smoking, IDGAF bout that cuz I do)

Add on Messy bathroom(im a stickler for this cuz if ur bathroom is nasty and thats where u clean urself.....)

Messy house in general

Overall not a clean person(always got dirty dishes)

Airheaded

Clingy

Just flat out ghetto( i love a hood chick wit class tho)

 

[Meet The Sniper]

A chick that doesn't have her own life....

Ain't nothing worse than a female that serves no purpose in life besides being a female. Go get a hobby. Get some friends. Do something beside wait on me to text/call you.

Damn..... good post. I know a few females like this.

 

[tru_m.a.c]

Damn..... good post. I know a few females like this.

Appreciate it fam. Yeah I think we all do. The same red flags females show in high school just seem to follow them for life.

Guys too. Shit just never changes.

 

[kakihara]

-No job.
-Doesn't like sarcasm.
-No illegal drugs.
-Bad rap sheet.
-No plan for the future.
-Having children.

 

[HustleThaDon]

Music would be in a tie with smoking. I cant fuck with somebody listening to wack ass music. Also I dont smoke so thats out the window as well.

 

[1of1]

That's interesting Du lol I ALWAYS decline the breakfast offers...I don't like everyone's cooking and breakfast is my fav meal so I'm iffy as hell on that

Dealbreaker for me is if he doesn't know Wu or Nas lyrics. Im dead ass. He gotta go.

Race like the sperm does to the ovary
Enter through your right ventricle...

 

[down2earth]

Hmmm when it comes to females instant deal breakers would be:

1. Carrying baggage from past relationships - if that shit was life altering, you shouldn't really be back out on the dating scene till you've fully recovered....if it wasn't, get over that shit, cuz i don't give a fuck about what the last man did.

2. No female friends - all that "i don't get along with females" bullshit is for the birds...miss me with that

3. No goals in life- a person who is just blindly running through life is someone bound for disappointment....dueces

4. Bad hygiene- no explanation needed...it's just fucking nasty

5. Close Minded/Unintelligent- If i can't talk to you without wanting to strangle you then i doubt even bomb ass pussy will help facilitate a relationship

6. Uppity chicks- Nothing makes you better than anyone else, so cut that shit out.

These are the biggest things that can just irk the shit outta me.....like i'd be on some get up and walk away shit.

 

[BrownSkNBeauty]

for dudes:
no haircut
bummy clothes attire
female mannerisms
talking non-stop during a movie
and i would def call it quits it dude is not punctual! time is money!

 

[Based GAWD]

Lol all yall stayin single. Having a "list" is what got 40 yr old twice divorced women where they are now. You need to just meet someone and see what the vibe is like. Judge everyone as a whole person not on quantifiable characteristics

 

[smokelahoma]

For me it's breakfast...straight up n down.....no games, no exceptions.....

me , moms, and my lady were walking around the track saturday, and the convo came up... and i said flat out

"If you had turned down my offer for breakfast.....this woulda never happened"

i don't know why....i'll try to explain why.. but if i like a chick.. she spends the night... and can't have breakfast with me in the morning....shit's not going anywhere... i don't give a shit how they try to make it up....and i don't even look at it like a game or nothing...it's just the way my mind is programmed...

first time my lady stayed over, i made breakfast for her, and she chilled and ate with me...snd time she came over we went out together to get breakfast....

and i don't even think she had a clue until last sturday that's what it was that made me really take her seriously....

breakfast? seriously? wtf? I could see if you said, "she has to make me breakfast" or any type of food but she has to eat breakfast with you? Hungry mutha fucka.

 

[smokelahoma]

Lol all yall stayin single. Having a "list" is what got 40 yr old twice divorced women where they are now. You need to just meet someone and see what the vibe is like. Judge everyone as a whole person not on quantifiable characteristics

I should kill myself for doing this but Im co-signing this fuckin fruitcake pussy ass faggot. fuck all that deal breaker shit, only thing that I really dont want is a chick that drinks too much or does alot of drugs. other then that, game on.

 

[bdbdbd]

their smell, voice, skin smoothness and their scalp

for some reason my sense of smell is heightened prob cus i got bad sight and hearing, so her smell is very important. its not necessarily a good/bad smell thing, its just some smells i cant get down with and some drive me crazy.

im also addicted to sound, like certain accents just dont fly with me, they gotta have a ice balance of high and low frequencies.....i guess its the same with their smell....its not sumthing i or the can chane, either ure voice does it for me or it dnt, its just the way my mind is programmed.

one time i met a chick with head acne (wtf!?!), 1st and las time i touched her head shit scared the hell out of me, and it left me freaked out for days, in fact i mstill a lil disturbed, i can stlll feel it on my fingertips

 

[Zone6reppa]

if you ask me for money before i offer it to you........your out the door....and i like texting, if u can't text a nitgga we through after the first week

 

[smokelahoma]

if you ask me for money before i offer it to you........your out the door....and i like texting, if u can't text a nitgga we through after the first week

Im kinda the opposite. Id rather talk in person or on the phone. The conversations are always better anyway because there are certain things done in a verbal conversation that cant be done through an impersonal conversation such as texting.

 

[bdbdbd]

if you ask me for money before i offer it to you........your out the door....and i like texting, if u can't text a nitgga we through after the first week

this right here especially the bolded....im not big on talking on the phone unless we known each other for a while.

oh and wats the opposite of a deal breaker? either was the opposite of a deal breaker for me is when a chick offers to pay for her half of the date....if u offer ill refuse, but u then get a tick in my box.....it aint a deal breaker if u dnt offer, but if i get the feeling u expecting a nigga to pay, then we got a problem