sionb55;2693844 said:Let it out my nigga..... thats what this thread's for.
Can't be all that bad.....
i will lol its kinda long but im tryin to sum it up as much as can imma sleep on it and post it tomorrow
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sionb55;2693844 said:Let it out my nigga..... thats what this thread's for.
Can't be all that bad.....
shawnbrown;2693246 said:yeaaa.... this bitch is drunk rite now.. I heard a few dudes and bitches in the background... she bout to get fucked
jackthemack;2693550 said:Im out here looking like Millhouse, wincing and shit.
black caesar;2695313 said:So what did she say to you on the phone?
peacetothereal1;2692580 said:I mean...have you even dropped a story.... miss all of us with this Oprah Winfrey shit.... drop a story or kick stones....
Ms Eudoxie;2695795 said:LOL @ Oprah shit. The only thing that ever hurt or affected me is my ex cheating on me.
I met "G" like a year after highschool, about 19, working some menial job in a warehouse. I REALLY wanted to be with G but I met another guy the same time as him and they were both cool so I decided to weigh my options. G was a clown but he was also laid back and everytime we went out he was so cool and mannerable. I loved that about him. The other guy was a character. Vibrant personality, loved eating out at restaraunts and started doing the most as far as courting goes, so i went with the second guy but never told G. I just stopped talking to him (I know, terrible).
The timing must have been off for the other guy b/c he hit an all time low once we started talking..lost his job, car got repo'd, lost his apartment had to move back with his mom and his attitude became pure shit. He was mad everyday about nothing bc of his situation. I was willing to stick in there until he got on his feet but we went to a party and he started openly flirting with other chicks and I dropped him. He had nothing and didn't give a fuck about anything so I left him. We were only together about 5 months.
G had been calling me during this time but I wasnt really taking his calls. Once I left the other guy, I called G back and explained why I was distant. You could cut the silence with a knife. I knew he was pissed, but he decided to play the friend role instead of go off on me. Time goes on, a lil over a year goes by, and me and G are hanging out as usual one weekend at his place. G was the type to stay on chill. We'd flirt but he'd never go all the way, he liked for the girl to make the first move, so knowing my friend, I tried him and we hooked up that night. I was actually pissed afterwards bc he blew my mind and I was mad at myself for choosing and wasting time with the other guy .
So after a month of hooking up, we decide to be in a relationship. Long story short, he cheated bc he was mad at me for choosing the other guy over him and said I could have handled it better. He felt like I led him on and should have been upfront about dating two guys. So I guess he felt I burned him so he got his revenge. At first he wasn't going to tell me bc he claims he regretted it and is still trying to rekindle what we had, but we never really talked about that period or the other guy and his frustration came out in him using cheating as weapon.
deadeye;2699668 said:Props for posting your story.
You may not realize it, but the bolded and underlined actually supports what everyone else has been trying to tell you about their experiences.
kai_valya;2700705 said:this is my only etherous-type experience with men. i dated my b/f all thru high school. he was african like i was, our families had known each other forever, and we were supposed to get married and everything. so anyway, i'm 17, almost 18 when this happened.
i used to babysit for this family, and one day he stopped by to drop off some food for me and one of the little kids asks him where is your other girlfriend? and i'm like what are u talking about i'm his only girlfriend and he says "he was over here when crysytal was babysitting us last week". turns out he had been fucking this chick that i could not stand, and was just being so brazen with it. i was seeing red, it took everything in me to not jump on him right there in front of the kids. he denied it at first, but i found out it was true. i heard a rumor that he even got her pregnant, but either it was false or she had an abortion, cuz i never saw a baby.
anyway, we broke up, both our families wanted us to stay together, but i didn't. aside from the cheating, he had been getting into a lot of shit. he was 2 years older than me, but he wasn't in college, and was into drugs (selling them). so he ends up moving to toronto and gets into it with jamaicans over some drugs probably and ends up in a coma at the hospital for like a month. he wasn't ever really the same after that, his behaviour got even more violent and erratic. and then one night after he had moved back, he was at the club and for some reason afterward, a fight or melee broke out and he ended up shooting and killing his friend. now he's on the run for murder and the last i heard he had either gone back to our country or he was dressing up as a woman now.
in some ways i'm glad it happened, cuz i don't want to think what would've happened if i had stayed with him. i've been happily married now for 4 years, and even though my fam doesn't approve (my husband's not african), breaking up with my ex made me stop giving a fuck about their opinion.
Ms Eudoxie;2695795 said:LOL @ Oprah shit. The only thing that ever hurt or affected me is my ex cheating on me.
I met "G" like a year after highschool, about 19, working some menial job in a warehouse. I REALLY wanted to be with G but I met another guy the same time as him and they were both cool so I decided to weigh my options. G was a clown but he was also laid back and everytime we went out he was so cool and mannerable. I loved that about him. The other guy was a character. Vibrant personality, loved eating out at restaraunts and started doing the most as far as courting goes, so i went with the second guy but never told G. I just stopped talking to him (I know, terrible).
The timing must have been off for the other guy b/c he hit an all time low once we started talking..lost his job, car got repo'd, lost his apartment had to move back with his mom and his attitude became pure shit. He was mad everyday about nothing bc of his situation. I was willing to stick in there until he got on his feet but we went to a party and he started openly flirting with other chicks and I dropped him. He had nothing and didn't give a fuck about anything so I left him. We were only together about 5 months.
G had been calling me during this time but I wasnt really taking his calls. Once I left the other guy, I called G back and explained why I was distant. You could cut the silence with a knife. I knew he was pissed, but he decided to play the friend role instead of go off on me. Time goes on, a lil over a year goes by, and me and G are hanging out as usual one weekend at his place. G was the type to stay on chill. We'd flirt but he'd never go all the way, he liked for the girl to make the first move, so knowing my friend, I tried him and we hooked up that night. I was actually pissed afterwards bc he blew my mind and I was mad at myself for choosing and wasting time with the other guy .
So after a month of hooking up, we decide to be in a relationship. Long story short, he cheated bc he was mad at me for choosing the other guy over him and said I could have handled it better. He felt like I led him on and should have been upfront about dating two guys. So I guess he felt I burned him so he got his revenge. At first he wasn't going to tell me bc he claims he regretted it and is still trying to rekindle what we had, but we never really talked about that period or the other guy and his frustration came out in him using cheating as weapon.
Ms Eudoxie;2695795 said:LOL @ Oprah shit. The only thing that ever hurt or affected me is my ex cheating on me.
I met "G" like a year after highschool, about 19, working some menial job in a warehouse. I REALLY wanted to be with G but I met another guy the same time as him and they were both cool so I decided to weigh my options. G was a clown but he was also laid back and everytime we went out he was so cool and mannerable. I loved that about him. The other guy was a character. Vibrant personality, loved eating out at restaraunts and started doing the most as far as courting goes, so i went with the second guy but never told G. I just stopped talking to him (I know, terrible).
The timing must have been off for the other guy b/c he hit an all time low once we started talking..lost his job, car got repo'd, lost his apartment had to move back with his mom and his attitude became pure shit. He was mad everyday about nothing bc of his situation. I was willing to stick in there until he got on his feet but we went to a party and he started openly flirting with other chicks and I dropped him. He had nothing and didn't give a fuck about anything so I left him. We were only together about 5 months.
G had been calling me during this time but I wasnt really taking his calls. Once I left the other guy, I called G back and explained why I was distant. You could cut the silence with a knife. I knew he was pissed, but he decided to play the friend role instead of go off on me. Time goes on, a lil over a year goes by, and me and G are hanging out as usual one weekend at his place. G was the type to stay on chill. We'd flirt but he'd never go all the way, he liked for the girl to make the first move, so knowing my friend, I tried him and we hooked up that night. I was actually pissed afterwards bc he blew my mind and I was mad at myself for choosing and wasting time with the other guy .
So after a month of hooking up, we decide to be in a relationship. Long story short, he cheated bc he was mad at me for choosing the other guy over him and said I could have handled it better. He felt like I led him on and should have been upfront about dating two guys. So I guess he felt I burned him so he got his revenge. At first he wasn't going to tell me bc he claims he regretted it and is still trying to rekindle what we had, but we never really talked about that period or the other guy and his frustration came out in him using cheating as weapon.