Staying in a relationship out of convenience &/or pity....

[shit happens]

my homey hit me with the...'bruh, i love her....but i'm not IN love with her' the other day when we was catching up and he mentioned he don't know how much longer he willing to stick around. this the same woman he been with for the last 10 years. and i be telling him, like, come on man, don't leave her u gonna regret it if u do i think u just trippin because arguments been happening. He insist that it's just convenience right now tho...cuz he's disabled a bit from a work injury, and stays with her...but says he knows if he had the option to burn out on his own he would do so

Sounds like my uncle. He was with his wife for 15 years and he said he wanted to leave her. He said he just wanted to be alone. Everyone kept tellin him he was gonna regret it but he left her anyways. She ended up getting married again and now he's trying to get her to leave her husband to get back with him. My dad told him to keep trying lmao.

do she got dat ass like yo real auntie and cousin??

 

[shit happens]

bummer yall givin danny the blues again

 

[Kat]

Not really.

I'm good.

 

[9TRAY]

what's ya thoughts/opinions about this situation and the people that claim to be staying mainly because of this?

i think sometimes it's just ppl having difficulty being honest with themselves

I've seen it happen, but I personally couldn't do it myself

 

[Rasta.]

@MzGrahamBitches no answer? How you feel about reading one of my erotic novels?

 

[9TRAY]

Kat how do you seem to shift the tone of threads where the focus ends up on you?

Shits wild

 

[Kat]

@MzGrahamBitches no answer? How you feel about reading one of my erotic novels?

I think its common knowledge that I've sent out panty pics..it's not that serious, but dudes like to fabricate details with their overactive imagination. Whatev.

lol..erotic literature huh? I have certain tastes when it comes to dirty stories.

 

[Kat]

Kat how do you seem to shift the tone of threads where the focus ends up on you?

Shits wild

It's effortless.

 

[niggasthesedays]

post some thong pics

 

[Rasta.]

@MzGrahamBitches no answer? How you feel about reading one of my erotic novels?

I think its common knowledge that I've sent out panty pics..it's not that serious, but dudes like to fabricate details with their overactive imagination. Whatev.

lol..erotic literature huh? I have certain tastes when it comes to dirty stories.

Thanks for that clarification...be expecting something soon in your inbox.

ps: I shall not be blamed for any vivid wild imaginative fantasies at inopportune times or soaking up of panties at workplace ijs

 

[MARIO_DRO]

REAL TALK. . THAT'S WHY KATT IS STILL WITH TARR TARR...ITS CONVINCE FOR HER AND HER CHILD..DUDE GOT A LIL MONEY. ..EVERY MONDAY, SHE BE LIKE FUK THAT NGA...THIS AND THAT....BUT SHE STAYS CAUSE HE CHOPPIN THEM BILLS DOWN

He isn't the only MFer with a little money.

I stay cause I love him.

....LOVE HIM ENOUGH TO SEND DUDES U NEVER MET IRL SOME "HAF" NUDES?

You don't know us.

ALL JOKES ASIDE KATT...U MAKE TARR TARR SEEM SOOOOO WEAK..HE TOO OLD TO NOT HAVE CONTROL OVER HOS RELATIONSHIP

 

[sweetheart93]

do she got dat ass like yo real auntie and cousin??

lol no. she's slim, like Rihanna.

 

[Kat]

REAL TALK. . THAT'S WHY KATT IS STILL WITH TARR TARR...ITS CONVINCE FOR HER AND HER CHILD..DUDE GOT A LIL MONEY. ..EVERY MONDAY, SHE BE LIKE FUK THAT NGA...THIS AND THAT....BUT SHE STAYS CAUSE HE CHOPPIN THEM BILLS DOWN

He isn't the only MFer with a little money.

I stay cause I love him.

....LOVE HIM ENOUGH TO SEND DUDES U NEVER MET IRL SOME "HAF" NUDES?

You don't know us.

ALL JOKES ASIDE KATT...U MAKE TARR TARR SEEM SOOOOO WEAK..HE TOO OLD TO NOT HAVE CONTROL OVER HOS RELATIONSHIP

But that's what you've imagined in your head.

The reality is you don't know how this man is living.

 

[shit happens]

do she got dat ass like yo real auntie and cousin??

lol no. she's slim, like Rihanna.

he can keep her

 

[THOT PILGRIM]

Some of you niggas sound like the messy women you hate in regards to Kat & Tarr. Whatever they have is mutually beneficial & working, so why comment?

Sending that man emails & fb messages...thats some sissyfied shit breh.

Hoe shut up and go do your homework you sound stupid. lol @ mutually beneficial and working, you know all that based off her side of the stories? I know she sends out flicks behind his back and tries to fuck internet strangers so logically speaking something aint working too right.

normally the women who agree with kat have a history of doing hoe activities, its never the more dignified women. SO its probably safe to assume youre either a slut as well, or a webcam ho, or a stripper?

He's still with her, right? Doesn't seem to have any apparent obligating ties to her (kid ain't his, they're not married), so despite what she does "behind his back" (its not behind his back if yall are snitching, no?), he must like it because he hasn't left yet. Sounds like its working and mutually beneficial to me. She's doing something to make him stay.

I don't talk to Kat about her man. Matter of factly, I've learned more about him through the rest of you than I have from her. I don't recall us having a single conversation about her relationship. Says a lot about how messy some grown ass men are on this bored, no?

I don't necessarily agree with Kat sending nudes or being exposed every 3-6 months, but she's said herself that her man spends a lot of time away and he gets a hall pass on his long business trips. So if he's free to play while he's away, and she's doing whatever while he's gone, sounds like an open relationship to me.

 

[shit happens]

Some of you niggas sound like the messy women you hate in regards to Kat & Tarr. Whatever they have is mutually beneficial & working, so why comment?

Sending that man emails & fb messages...thats some sissyfied shit breh.

Hoe shut up and go do your homework you sound stupid. lol @ mutually beneficial and working, you know all that based off her side of the stories? I know she sends out flicks behind his back and tries to fuck internet strangers so logically speaking something aint working too right.

normally the women who agree with kat have a history of doing hoe activities, its never the more dignified women. SO its probably safe to assume youre either a slut as well, or a webcam ho, or a stripper?

He's still with her, right? Doesn't seem to have any apparent obligating ties to her (kid ain't his, they're not married), so despite what she does "behind his back" (its not behind his back if yall are snitching, no?), he must like it because he hasn't left yet. Sounds like its working and mutually beneficial to me. She's doing something to make him stay.

I don't talk to Kat about her man. Matter of factly, I've learned more about him through the rest of you than I have from her. I don't recall us having a single conversation about her relationship. Says a lot about how messy some grown ass men are on this bored, no?

I don't necessarily agree with Kat sending nudes or being exposed every 3-6 months, but she's said herself that her man spends a lot of time away and he gets a hall pass on his long business trips. So if he's free to play while he's away, and she's doing whatever while he's gone, sounds like an open relationship to me.

 

[s_a_m_r_i_o]

People think people will think something's wrong with them if they're single so they remain in shitty relationships or they're too weak and dumb to be alone.

 

[Hyde Parke]

Ionno. I fucked round and caught a marathon of Snapped one day. Im figuring this may play some part in it.

 

[T. Sanford]

My brother gotta home boy name Krazy K aka Cross eyed Kenny that's probably wear the tightest cape to ever grasp on a captain save a chick

His home boy (Cross eyed Kenny) been with his s/o for 15 years & before he hook up with her, he didnt have any kids but she had 2 kids by 2 different dudes. That nigga was the female in the relationship, clean up the house, doing her kids hair, cooking for the house, doing laundry & etc. She always use to dump the kids on him to go kick it with her friends, while he at home being a soccer mom.

Meanwhile, she use to be bopping like a mf on facebook with random dudes & he'll catch her in her act but won't address the situation. One day, He threw her a bday party, he cooking for everybody like a chef & she invited a nigga that she sleep with to her party. My home brother & the rest of the niggas was there was like "damn nigga, yo girl all hug up on that unknown dude over there" & he didn't do anything. My brother's home boys was about to gang dude for disrespecting but my brother called it off because it was up to Cross eyed Kenny if he wanted to or not since it's his beef with dude. Another time, Cross eyed Kenny ask his ol lady can he come to his job & bring him something to eat, when she pulled up she only brought him a biscuit for lunch smgdh

Now he got 2 kids by her & have recently got married & didn't tell anyone, but in order to marry her. She said "he had to catch her cheating first before he marry her".......& what he do? he ran off & marry that out of control bopper. The best super hero in Marvel Comics

 

[SiccoLoccJay]

I'm convinced my homies bitch is cheating. I'm trying to tell him to kick her to the curb but he won't and I can't prove what I'm saying so he just keeps acting like everything is everything. Dude could net next pussy. I dunno what it is. She ain't even dime.

You seem like a hater.

You seem lika hoe