Staying in a relationship out of convenience &/or pity....

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T. Sanford;6350513 said:
My brother gotta home boy name Krazy K aka Cross eyed Kenny that's probably wear the tightest cape to ever grasp on a captain save a chick

His home boy (Cross eyed Kenny) been with his s/o for 15 years & before he hook up with her, he didnt have any kids but she had 2 kids by 2 different dudes. That nigga was the female in the relationship, clean up the house, doing her kids hair, cooking for the house, doing laundry & etc. She always use to dump the kids on him to go kick it with her friends, while he at home being a soccer mom.

Meanwhile, she use to be bopping like a mf on facebook with random dudes & he'll catch her in her act but won't address the situation. One day, He threw her a bday party, he cooking for everybody like a chef & she invited a nigga that she sleep with to her party. My home brother & the rest of the niggas was there was like "damn nigga, yo girl all hug up on that unknown dude over there" & he didn't do anything. My brother's home boys was about to gang dude for disrespecting but my brother called it off because it was up to Cross eyed Kenny if he wanted to or not since it's his beef with dude. Another time, Cross eyed Kenny ask his ol lady can he come to his job & bring him something to eat, when she pulled up she only brought him a biscuit for lunch smgdh

Now he got 2 kids by her & have recently got married & didn't tell anyone, but in order to marry her. She said "he had to catch her cheating first before he marry her".......& what he do? he ran off & marry that out of control bopper. The best super hero in Marvel Comics

This post made me sad.

You might catch this nigga on the Most Wanted list oneday.

He might flip and catch a homicide.

 
My homie BM invited the nigga she was cheating with to a New Years party. My homie said he knew the bitch was cheating with him when she got mad that he brought a date.

 
T. Sanford;6350513 said:
My brother gotta home boy name Krazy K aka Cross eyed Kenny that's probably wear the tightest cape to ever grasp on a captain save a chick

His home boy (Cross eyed Kenny) been with his s/o for 15 years & before he hook up with her, he didnt have any kids but she had 2 kids by 2 different dudes. That nigga was the female in the relationship, clean up the house, doing her kids hair, cooking for the house, doing laundry & etc. She always use to dump the kids on him to go kick it with her friends, while he at home being a soccer mom.

Meanwhile, she use to be bopping like a mf on facebook with random dudes & he'll catch her in her act but won't address the situation. One day, He threw her a bday party, he cooking for everybody like a chef & she invited a nigga that she sleep with to her party. My home brother & the rest of the niggas was there was like "damn nigga, yo girl all hug up on that unknown dude over there" & he didn't do anything. My brother's home boys was about to gang dude for disrespecting but my brother called it off because it was up to Cross eyed Kenny if he wanted to or not since it's his beef with dude. Another time, Cross eyed Kenny ask his ol lady can he come to his job & bring him something to eat, when she pulled up she only brought him a biscuit for lunch smgdh

Now he got 2 kids by her & have recently got married & didn't tell anyone, but in order to marry her. She said "he had to catch her cheating first before he marry her" .......& what he do? he ran off & marry that out of control bopper. The best super hero in Marvel Comics

What a infuriating read.

Terrible all around.

 
this chick im messing with has a sister who is married.

the sister is a stripper and is a drunk and she found a simp from Louisiana who met her in the strip club and fell in love smh. Now she is cheating on him every weekend and he is at the house watching her kids and paying her bills.

ol girl that i mess with is at my crib chilling with me while her sisters husband is blowing her phone up looking for her while her sister is creeping with random dudes.

shit like that is the reason i dont trust no chicks no matter how innocent they claim to be
 
T. Sanford;6350513 said:
My brother gotta home boy name Krazy K aka Cross eyed Kenny that's probably wear the tightest cape to ever grasp on a captain save a chick

His home boy (Cross eyed Kenny) been with his s/o for 15 years & before he hook up with her, he didnt have any kids but she had 2 kids by 2 different dudes. That nigga was the female in the relationship, clean up the house, doing her kids hair, cooking for the house, doing laundry & etc. She always use to dump the kids on him to go kick it with her friends, while he at home being a soccer mom.

Meanwhile, she use to be bopping like a mf on facebook with random dudes & he'll catch her in her act but won't address the situation. One day, He threw her a bday party, he cooking for everybody like a chef & she invited a nigga that she sleep with to her party. My home brother & the rest of the niggas was there was like "damn nigga, yo girl all hug up on that unknown dude over there" & he didn't do anything. My brother's home boys was about to gang dude for disrespecting but my brother called it off because it was up to Cross eyed Kenny if he wanted to or not since it's his beef with dude. Another time, Cross eyed Kenny ask his ol lady can he come to his job & bring him something to eat, when she pulled up she only brought him a biscuit for lunch smgdh

Now he got 2 kids by her & have recently got married & didn't tell anyone, but in order to marry her. She said "he had to catch her cheating first before he marry her".......& what he do? he ran off & marry that out of control bopper. The best super hero in Marvel Comics

Lol at bringing him a biscuit for lunch. No fucks given. It probably was a biscuitfor left over from a meal her side piece bought for her.

 
T. Sanford;6350513 said:
My brother gotta home boy name Krazy K aka Cross eyed Kenny that's probably wear the tightest cape to ever grasp on a captain save a chick

His home boy (Cross eyed Kenny) been with his s/o for 15 years & before he hook up with her, he didnt have any kids but she had 2 kids by 2 different dudes. That nigga was the female in the relationship, clean up the house, doing her kids hair, cooking for the house, doing laundry & etc. She always use to dump the kids on him to go kick it with her friends, while he at home being a soccer mom.

Meanwhile, she use to be bopping like a mf on facebook with random dudes & he'll catch her in her act but won't address the situation. One day, He threw her a bday party, he cooking for everybody like a chef & she invited a nigga that she sleep with to her party. My home brother & the rest of the niggas was there was like "damn nigga, yo girl all hug up on that unknown dude over there" & he didn't do anything. My brother's home boys was about to gang dude for disrespecting but my brother called it off because it was up to Cross eyed Kenny if he wanted to or not since it's his beef with dude. Another time, Cross eyed Kenny ask his ol lady can he come to his job & bring him something to eat, when she pulled up she only brought him a biscuit for lunch smgdh

Now he got 2 kids by her & have recently got married & didn't tell anyone, but in order to marry her. She said "he had to catch her cheating first before he marry her".......& what he do? he ran off & marry that out of control bopper. The best super hero in Marvel Comics

Is kenny mentally retarded?
 
SickoMobb_LilJay;6351036 said:
T. Sanford;6350513 said:
My brother gotta home boy name Krazy K aka Cross eyed Kenny that's probably wear the tightest cape to ever grasp on a captain save a chick

His home boy (Cross eyed Kenny) been with his s/o for 15 years & before he hook up with her, he didnt have any kids but she had 2 kids by 2 different dudes. That nigga was the female in the relationship, clean up the house, doing her kids hair, cooking for the house, doing laundry & etc. She always use to dump the kids on him to go kick it with her friends, while he at home being a soccer mom.

Meanwhile, she use to be bopping like a mf on facebook with random dudes & he'll catch her in her act but won't address the situation. One day, He threw her a bday party, he cooking for everybody like a chef & she invited a nigga that she sleep with to her party. My home brother & the rest of the niggas was there was like "damn nigga, yo girl all hug up on that unknown dude over there" & he didn't do anything. My brother's home boys was about to gang dude for disrespecting but my brother called it off because it was up to Cross eyed Kenny if he wanted to or not since it's his beef with dude. Another time, Cross eyed Kenny ask his ol lady can he come to his job & bring him something to eat, when she pulled up she only brought him a biscuit for lunch smgdh

Now he got 2 kids by her & have recently got married & didn't tell anyone, but in order to marry her. She said "he had to catch her cheating first before he marry her".......& what he do? he ran off & marry that out of control bopper. The best super hero in Marvel Comics

Is kenny mentally retarded?

He's pretty stupid nh, if he is not retarded then he is right around the corner from it

 
QZA;6348976 said:
I was once with a girl for 5 months and figured the whole relationship thing wasn't really for me. So when I attempted to dead it, she tried to kill herself. I didn't know what to do.. She was a real cool girl and I didn't want to see her go out like that. I ended up staying outa pity I guess.

yall still together? how yall end?
 
QZA;6348976 said:
I was once with a girl for 5 months and figured the whole relationship thing wasn't really for me. So when I attempted to dead it, she tried to kill herself. I didn't know what to do.. She was a real cool girl and I didn't want to see her go out like that. I ended up staying outa pity I guess.

yea it's pity... I did thr same thing but only because the girl started boo-hooin' like real bad wen I started talking bout breaking it off...

a female coworker of mine laughed and warned me about doing that, but i don't remember her going into much detail about why it's a bad idea
 
DreadlockRasta;6348907 said:
obnoxiouslyfresh;6348883 said:
s.free;6348721 said:
I'm convinced my homies bitch is cheating. I'm trying to tell him to kick her to the curb but he won't and I can't prove what I'm saying so he just keeps acting like everything is everything. Dude could net next pussy. I dunno what it is. She ain't even dime.

Get out that man's business. He'll learn it on his own time.

Do women ever stay outta their girlfriends business? The fall of many relationships is due to women listening to other women smh

Men are just as bad, hell dudes on this board be snitching on complete strangers all the time.
 
MazterChef;6351208 said:
QZA;6348976 said:
I was once with a girl for 5 months and figured the whole relationship thing wasn't really for me. So when I attempted to dead it, she tried to kill herself. I didn't know what to do.. She was a real cool girl and I didn't want to see her go out like that. I ended up staying outa pity I guess.

yall still together? how yall end?

Nah, we were only together for a month and a half after that.. I learned she was abused by her father, damn shame it was her only parent growing up. So I assumed that's why she had the issues with attachment.

I stayed with her to make sure she was aight. I would take her to a psychiatrist and just support her well being. tried to raise her self-esteem n all that. When her mindset cleared up she understood the whole breakup thing, but we stayed friends.. She's good now, married with a couple kids. Sometime I trip out how that all took place.
 
s.free;6349137 said:
MzGrahamBitches;6348855 said:
s.free;6348721 said:
I'm convinced my homies bitch is cheating. I'm trying to tell him to kick her to the curb but he won't and I can't prove what I'm saying so he just keeps acting like everything is everything. Dude could net next pussy. I dunno what it is. She ain't even dime.

You seem like a hater.

Naw.

I've known how she moves from time cause she used to be tight with my girl and them times she was just out to get fucked and run game on niggas. I put him on game early but he was still interested and to his credit she seemed to calm down immediately once they started dating. She moved into the niggas crib after 2-3 months tho. 2 and a half years later. She doesn't really cook or clean up after herself anymore, she be coming home odd hours, stopped paying this nigga rent even tho she got a government job, she hardly fucks and a month ago when they were fucking she asked him if he was almost done (thats one of the most evil things you can say to your nigga when he's fucking).

Tell me my nigga ain't sharing his girl.
My dude coming with every excuse for her saying she's gained weight and lost confidence, her job is stressing her, fam issues etc etc.

I be wanting to tell this nigga to stfu but when niggas get this deep they just get in their feelings and don't hear shit. Its like you gonna marry and breed this type of chick? But he don't wanna hear it. He thinks she'll turn around.

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it trips me out.. because I really know some people are trying to figure out my love life & they believe all types of bullshit.. LMAO. It trips me out when homeboys try to speak for such and such feelings.. My homeboy feels this way.. Most of the time the homeboy isnt going to tell his boyz his emotional feelings about his relationship. One reason he don't want u to want her.

The homeboys trip me out when they go around saying the woman is trappin the man in the relationship. .when the woman may have gave him the opportunity to walk out the relationship if he was not happy, but maybe that wasn't the case. Maybe the couple was just fine until people started scandalizing their relationship. Especially the homeboys and homegirls who think they know the emotion of 2 people, when they are completely cluessless. If people want to break up they will. Nothing can keep 2 people together who don't want to be together.. & This is why I never been a side piece, because I don't believe bullshit, when men say oh I'm not wit her like that. I don't really love her, but constantly with her. "We just got a kid". I'm only staying with her because I don't want to pay alimony.. bullshit.. When a man want to bounce HE WILL. The man will bounce faster than the women will. So even if the woman is clingy.. He will find a way to leave her and make sure she gets the impression HE DON'T WANT HER.
 
Been there done that with my ex I stayed with her off the strength of her pussy and conversation.

After a while of doing this I had to take a hard look at self and ask self why are you sustaining this broad who is bringing limited attributes to the table.

It didn't take me long to move on after that.
 
I never met a man who will stay in a relationship because of pity.. or am I that type.. I don't know how it feels.. I'm free spirit I believe in destiny... and I believe it take care of itself. When I love someone I love them for real.... not for pitty... I can tell when a man is not meant for me.. and I don't try to make relationships like that work.. I tell off the bat.. I don't believe in being miserable. one reason I was going off about NEVER BEING A RELATIONSHIP WITH SUCH AND SUCH.. His baby mamas don't have to worry.. I KNOW WE ARE NOT COSMIC or made in the CARDS. Thats why I never gave it second THOUGHT. I got all signs from the computer, that he wasnt my TYPE.
 
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people don't know how to be real with themselves.....

honesty is something that alludes far too many relationships...and that's one of the reasons why shit be going south so often.....

lying, cheating, arguing, domestic abuse...all types of unwarranted problems spark up, simply because people can't be real with themselves or the person they with about how they really feel about the relaitonship,,,,

shit's sad yo
 

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