Spoiling your mate VS buying their love

[Bussy_Getta]

I think you sound like a very caring husband. Keep it up. Don't let these broke boiz tell you that you shouldn't be doing what you're doing.

 

[leftcoastkev]

That's your wife so live it up and be happy. You ain't gotta answer to nobody for that.

 

[CeLLaR-DooR]

Do as you please my G. I try not to let it get to the stage where she expects GOATness outta you all the time, though. Also, I believe in equal relationships, so Id hope she spoils you as much as you spoil her; even if it's in a different way

 

[Colin$mackabi$h]

Its your money do what you want with it.

 

[CapitalB]

why do u care??

 

[blacktux]

If she was with you from the dirt you not buying anything, you just maintaining.

Like you supposed to.

 

[_Goldie_]

Either ur niggas is some bama ass cornball niggas or they know something bout ur bitch that u dont.

 

[CP203]

Lol nigga, fuck them niggas they probably want to fuck her and its your money do with it what you please

 

[kzzl]

Niggas?

Shit, when I had this situation it was her damn friends putting that bullshit in her ear.

Bitches took acts of kindness and twisted it into a form of manipulation for power. But if your wife knows whats up don't even trip bout other folks and they bullshit. They wouldn't be complaining if someone was spoiling them.

If that's your niggas saying that, he probably fucked around read a Cosmopolitan mag in a waiting lobby somewhere. That nigga don't know what he talking bout.

 

[Batman.]

 

[blackrain]

Unless buying shit is the only time you show her any type of affection or that's the only way she knows how to be grateful then no it's nothing wrong with it.

 

[2stepz_ahead]

i was using my situation as a topic point...

i am not looking for an ok...

i was trying to start a discussion about

spoiling vs buying a person.

yall niggas always going past the place

 

[BiblicalAtheist]

I think the difference between spoiling someone you love and buying their love is; spoiling them is something done out of your own will to see them happy. Buying their love is done out of feeling like you have to or were manipulated into it, or do it to try and appease them.

 

[Beech Oss Neega]

If she truly appreciates what you do you're not buying her imo.

 

[_Goldie_]

i was using my situation as a topic point...

i am not looking for an ok...

i was trying to start a discussion about

spoiling vs buying a person.

yall niggas always going past the place

I think your question was answered fam. Treating your woman like a queen is cool , aslong as the treatment is reciprocated.

With that being said, mental jewels have a longer lasting effect on her than physical ones.

 

[Meta_Conscious]

who told u that tho? that sounds like some snake shit to say to someone.

 

[REV_RAGE]

I think the difference between spoiling someone you love and buying their love is; spoiling them is something done out of your own will to see them happy. Buying their love is done out of feeling like you have to or were manipulated into it, or do it to try and appease them.

And guilt for screwwing around, it becomes a currency for your fuck ups too. you are in the good though, as far as tem other fuckers go, misery loves company this applies to your haters. she is your wife bottom line fuck them assholes.

 

[BarryHalls]

If she was loyal to you while you was on the come up, I see nothing wrong with sharing your success with her so as long as she's doing the same. If not, cancel that bitch.

 

[CapitalB]

i was using my situation as a topic point...

i am not looking for an ok...

i was trying to start a discussion about

spoiling vs buying a person.

yall niggas always going past the place

okay...

then why should WE care??

why should this even be a discussion??

 

[2stepz_ahead]

i was using my situation as a topic point...

i am not looking for an ok...

i was trying to start a discussion about

spoiling vs buying a person.

yall niggas always going past the place

okay...

then why should WE care??

why should this even be a discussion??

a topic for discussion.

shit none of us care about any topic really but we engage in conversation.