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kai_valya;2275268 said:i'm confused, you've been married for only 2 years and together longer, or you were married when you were 18?
if you want your kids living with you, you should be happy then.
kinda related, my husband's baby mama has for the 2nd time dropped their son off at our doorstep, like "you take him, i can't take care of him anymore". the first time she did it, she had primary physical custody and just up and moved downsouth and came back a year later after having another baby, thought his son was just coming to visit. but she tells him "oh i can't take care of both kids, you gotta keep him", which we did.
then 3 years later (last dec) she's upset cuz she was put on child support (she just would not contribute any other way) so she fabricated allegations that my hubby is physically abusive to their son. it was investigated and found baseless, but during the investigation, they had given her primary physical custody. and like a month ago, she drops him off, like "i'm going thru stuff wit my husband, prolly gettin a divorce, you take him". my husband's just fed up with her bullshit at this point and has filed for full custody.
i'd recommend getting all this stuff on paper cuz divorces can get messy, and the courts aren't always fair towards the father in these situations
blakfyahking;2272492 said:seen this thread coming eventually
bruh, you bout to go thru some highs and lows for a minute
ms.jones;2272691 said:T/S.... aren't you the one that had her and another female pregnant at the same time? It came down to the wire, and you chose her, to keep the peace, and you wanted to do right by your baby, since the other chick was jumpoff...kinda knew that she was gonna get back at you, but you didn't know how...I remember that thread you made. I guess this is her get back...you wanted a slew of babies, now you got them.
I just don't get it...you knew it wasn't going to work from the jump, yet you put on the rose colored glasses, and crossed your fingers. You knew she was still mad about the jumpoff having your first son....damn. A loss of tremendous proportions.
louis the great;2272625 said:damn son sorry to hear that. I remember tellin you shorty wasnt right back when she wanted you to miss your son first birthday party. Smh
ms.jones;2272691 said:t/s.... Aren't you the one that had her and another female pregnant at the same time? It came down to the wire, and you chose her, to keep the peace, and you wanted to do right by your baby, since the other chick was jumpoff...kinda knew that she was gonna get back at you, but you didn't know how...i remember that thread you made. I guess this is her get back...you wanted a slew of babies, now you got them.
I just don't get it...you knew it wasn't going to work from the jump, yet you put on the rose colored glasses, and crossed your fingers. You knew she was still mad about the jumpoff having your first son....damn. A loss of tremendous proportions.
dts-rida;2271520 said:could care less about the next nigga she fucking...i work late 3 days out the week so she gotta pick them up...and we split weekends...i gets my time off and only pick them up from school two days a week...but i take them to school 5 days a week
ms.jones;2273175 said:Wow...cheated, got the jump preggo, and now he's unhappy. Didn't see that one coming.
797mrtemp797;2273404 said:same shit happened to my cousin man. I got mad respect for ya man. Hang in there man. You'll be alright!!
dts-rida;2277102 said:I MEANT 1999 and u cant edit the title.....ill be 31 this year and some of u have valid points and some of u ....well whatever, like i said before i wanted to get a womans perspective who doesnt have any alterior motives to jus shit on my soon to be ex wife cause every chick i know has a hidden agenda when it comes to this....so thank you for the opinons and advice. and for a few of u...jus keep living life and ya shit wont always smell like roses...belee dat
dts-rida;2277102 said:I MEANT 1999 and u cant edit the title.....ill be 31 this year and some of u have valid points and some of u ....well whatever, like i said before i wanted to get a womans perspective who doesnt have any alterior motives to jus shit on my soon to be ex wife cause every chick i know has a hidden agenda when it comes to this....so thank you for the opinons and advice. and for a few of u...jus keep living life and ya shit wont always smell like roses...belee dat
American.Loo;2277159 said:i was just tryna lighten the mood bruh bruh. you good money in my book.
i know with age comes different tribulations and trials. i've shared many of mine on here.
all i can say is that i hope the best for you and hopefully you dont repeat this cycle
pralims;2277381 said:i would say ...maybe she needs a break from everything....stop listening to these dumb ass niggas always thinking another dude is involved....if you knew you was a no-good dude then maybe she just needs a break from you and the kids to get herself together...but just be prepared for when he comes back....she will come back either to work it out or she will come back to hurt you real hard
American.Loo;2277074 said:According the thread title, he's been on and off with this woman since 199 BC.
Yeah, I think its time to move on.
Yep, you are right. I only know what you posted. You posted that if it wasn't for weed, you can't stand to be around your wife...she doesn't cook,clean, or keep herself "Girly" as you have stated in the past. You also fucked your jump off because shit wasn't going right between you two at the time...sooooo, it's really easy to come to the conclusion that you ain't happy, seeing as how you've stated it once before.dts-rida;2277059 said:U A TRIP...lol so im unhappy? yeah that my daughter is upset we couldnt make it work...so chill wit the shit u on cause u only know the half...