deadeye;9094527 said:Westie;9093466 said:Kwan Dai;9093409 said:Westie;9093393 said:deadeye;9091396 said:Westie;9086293 said:BiblicalAtheist ;9086238 said:At least I do.
I do try to teach prevention from being in those situations.
Hold up.....
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How is that any different than what I've been saying all along???
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I'll tell you how it's different. Me teaching my daughters, who have never had anything happen to them to be aware of their surrounding and to not trust strangers drinks or be alone in settings like that is completely different than stating that a woman who has already been raped should have done all of those things. Its too fucking late. Who are you helping with that? I have already said in this thread numerous times that it's fine to tell young women that before the fact but stating that she should have done this things after the fact helps no one. You also need to keep in mind that most women aren't raped because they are passed out. Some of you in here acting like only stupid decisions lead you to getting raped that is completely untrue.
While it may not help after the fact. How does a grown, sane woman not know how to protect herself? It's unfortunate what happened to this young lady. Her poor choices led to life changing consequences. So, even if rape never crossed this young ladies mind, why didn't getting robbed, killed, or maybe even drunk driving and hurting someone else cross her mind?
I get it people need someone to blame, a villain and want to live their lives doing whatever the fuck they want despite the consequences. That is the American way. You know the cliche "this is a free country". I totally sympathize with this young lady but it's hard to not look at her and ask why the fuck would you risk\gamble with your life like that?
You say her poor choices led to this. People make poor choices every day they don't result and rape. The fact is there was a rapist around. He was a predator. She was in a location in a bad state which led to a predator being able to pray on her period. that doesn't put responsibility on her for what happened. And I'm sure this woman did not mean to pass out by the way. She couldn't handle her liquor, you've never been too drunk? And if you read more into the story and she wasn't even alone. She got fucked up as many people do. How does that make her responsible for someone doing something that despicable to her?
@Westie
No one's saying she's responsible though.......just that it "might not" have happened if she exercised better judgment.
The very title of the thread suggests otherwise...
"So It Wasn't Ole Girl's Fault That Brock Turner Took That Ass When She Passed Out Drunk By Dumpster"
That's not ambiguous - the implication is pretty clear.