THOT PILGRIM;6731319 said:
I think that the reason people liken tricking to marriage is because its hinged on what you can provide for the other person
If you stop providing sex, security, support, money, the system stops working.
Only difference is that in marriage, you have a friendship and obligation to make it work.
With tricking you can cancel that bitch like Nino and keep it moving
but you know inevitably all that is bullshit from a cynical mind
The
true principle and foundation of marriage goes far beyond all that you named.
You already said it yourself in so many ways.
Here is the definitively difference between tricking and being married(the REAL shit not that fake,set up shit)
Your husband made a
sacrifice. What is sacrifice? An act of giving up something valued for the sake of something else regarded as more important. What's more important to a man than his "good name" and reputation? But even at the risk of getting relentlessly clowned and many other things only you are privy to your man made that sacrifice.
But he does not care because he obviously feels you are worth it.
He is willing to
invested in you. And what is an
investment? When you make a
commitment to something but DO NOT see the immediate payoff. But you have
faith that it will be worth it.
All that shit you named about sex, security, support, money etc.
That's just the byproduct of loving and caring for someone. Not because you are "obligated",but because you are
committed to making your shit work. And it only makes sense to provided for and take care of your "investment" the best way possible .