Should you cockblock if you know your friend is a Complete Douchebag?

[KingJamal]

I woulda just told her he aint 4 u. But if she wanted to go on with it thats her bizness (or funeral)

 

[Olorun22]

I just tell her she has to see for her self

 

[Gooner]

fuck her she can make her own decisions...if thats your boy u never cockblock unless its family

 

[Coby Vibes]

yeah you shoulda told her. pretty much all the guys I ever dealt with were friends of friends because I needed the security in someone who could vouch for their character. I dont deal with a random guy who step to me in the street (too dangerous). that dude automatically gets shut down.

I would have been hurt too

I thank god I have different kind of male friends who protected me

 

[bugsy0911]

It's a situation where you were placed in the middle and you did your best to remain neutral. There was no way you could have come out the good guy in that situation and you made the right choice. If she made her decision to date the guy solely on what you told her, she's a fool. Sometimes, people need to take the time to evaluate people before jumping into relationships, that's not on you. If he's that big of a douche and it took her a year to figure that out, that's definitely not on you.

 

[bugsy0911]

yeah you shoulda told her. pretty much all the guys I ever dealt with were friends of friends because I needed the security in someone who could vouch for their character. I dont deal with a random guy who step to me in the street (too dangerous). that dude automatically gets shut down.

I would have been hurt too

I thank god I have different kind of male friends who protected me

That's bullshit! Security? That's not security, that's insecurity. You have to judge a person's character for yourself.

 

[Pura~Diabla]

I fudged his attributes up

Yeah, that was grimy.

If anything you shoulda told her you don't get involved with love connections and if she was smart, she woulda picked up on it.

 

[Maalik]

yeah you shoulda told her. pretty much all the guys I ever dealt with were friends of friends because I needed the security in someone who could vouch for their character. I dont deal with a random guy who step to me in the street (too dangerous). that dude automatically gets shut down.

I would have been hurt too

I thank god I have different kind of male friends who protected me

It's a situation where you were placed in the middle and you did your best to remain neutral. There was no way you could have come out the good guy in that situation and you made the right choice. If she made her decision to date the guy solely on what you told her, she's a fool. Sometimes, people need to take the time to evaluate people before jumping into relationships, that's not on you. If he's that big of a douche and it took her a year to figure that out, that's definitely not on you.

@ Coby

Yea...I could've kept it realer. It's a tough line to straddle, you not tryna look like a lame to your niggas by cockblocking & fuckin his game up but.......its hard to see a girl you know ain't really bout that life (e.g. really good chick) get involved with a cat she not built for.

@ Bugsy

It's not like people find out how fucked up someone can be over a week or two. Infatuation, great sex, I love yous & all that in the beginning might blind some.......then 4-6 months later, you see how that individual really is.

 

[gns]

if its a chick thats a good friend ima tell her to keep it moving, i won't block, just tell her to figure it out for herself.

If a bish know me, thats a good enough red flag.

if she just an acquaintance i'm feeding her to the dogs if i ain't wanna eat myself

 

[bugsy0911]

It's not like people find out how fucked up someone can be over a week or two. Infatuation, great sex, I love yous & all that in the beginning might blind some.......then 4-6 months later, you see how that individual really is.

Man, I hear ya but there is no way to win in that situation. Seriously, on the flip side, that nigga may have done right by her and she dogged him out. You just never know. I'm sure her decision wasn't based solely on what you told her. If they made it a year, there's more to this than him being a dog. Like most women, she's looking for a scape goat.

 

[playmaker88]

I just came here to say if i was president id ban the word Douche..it would be a federal crime to utter the word..

 

[Coby Vibes]

That's bullshit! Security? That's not security, that's insecurity. You have to judge a person's character for yourself.

nope I am not taking that chance. I would never hook up a good friend with a known asshole or a bitch if I respect them. and if they are bot good friends I would tell them the truth. that's what friends do.

I would never put a friend in that position ...never.

If I have a female friend that wants to be in a relationship and a male friend who just wants to fuck her and be out....who do you think is gonna be left to pick up the pieces when she is crying and feeling played. and that is IF she still speaks to me. that shit kills friendships

if I have a nice guy friend and my female friend just wants to run his pockets and I let that shit go down. How can my male friend think I respect him as a friend? I could lose a friend over that.

you dont do that shit. you tell the truth

 

[bugsy0911]

nope I am not taking that chance. I would never hook up a good friend with a known asshole or a bitch if I respect them. and if they are bot good friends I would tell them the truth. that's what friends do.

I would never put a friend in that position ...never.

If I have a female friend that wants to be in a relationship and a male friend who just wants to fuck her and be out....who do you think is gonna be left to pick up the pieces when she is crying and feeling played. and that is IF she still speaks to me. that shit kills friendships

if I have a nice guy friend and my female friend just wants to run his pockets and I let that shit go down. How can my male friend think I respect him as a friend? I could lose a friend over that.

you dont do that shit. you tell the truth

You're saying you wont give a random dude a chance because he doesn't have someone you know to vouch for him. That's some major insecurity issues right there. You can't make your own judgement on someone's character? Just because someone hooks you up with a good friend doesn't mean that person wont dog you out.

 

[ICame4Pussy]

Hoes Goin Be Hoes.

.............meaning she probably wouldnt have listened once he got in her head

 

[Maalik]

nope I am not taking that chance. I would never hook up a good friend with a known asshole or a bitch if I respect them. and if they are bot good friends I would tell them the truth. that's what friends do.

I would never put a friend in that position ...never.

If I have a female friend that wants to be in a relationship and a male friend who just wants to fuck her and be out....who do you think is gonna be left to pick up the pieces when she is crying and feeling played. and that is IF she still speaks to me. that shit kills friendships

if I have a nice guy friend and my female friend just wants to run his pockets and I let that shit go down. How can my male friend think I respect him as a friend? I could lose a friend over that.

you dont do that shit. you tell the truth

Pretty much what happened....when my boy dogged her out....she looked at me funny style. Im not that cool with either anymore & looking back in hindsight, she was a much better friend than dude....

and exactly at the second part. she said the same thing to me...

 

[bugsy0911]

Pretty much what happened....when my boy dogged her out....she looked at me funny style. Im not that cool with either anymore & looking back in hindsight, she was a much better friend than dude....

and exactly at the second part. she said the same thing to me...

Dude, you said after a year, he fucked her over. So what the fuck happened for that whole year. You're letting her put this on you when she's looking for a scape goat. So for that year he wasn't a douche and suddenly showed his true colors and that's on you? That doesn't make sense.

 

[Coby Vibes]

You're saying you wont give a random dude a chance because he doesn't have someone you know to vouch for him. That's some major insecurity issues right there. You can't make your own judgement on someone's character? Just because someone hooks you up with a good friend doesn't mean that person wont dog you out.

not that I dont trust my own judgement. niggas lie. and how will I know otherwise until it's too late. It worked for me. I trust my friends to look out for me, a random nigga on the street has an agenda.

you can call it insecure all you want to. I have lead a very sheltered, protected dating life and it kept me from having some of these fucked up experiences that other chicks go through

unless I approach a guy in the "street" and initiate it... it's a no go. I have to be in control and set that tempio

and I dont literally mean street. because I cant do that. it was either in school or at work or in some other social setting of which I observed him for a while first.

 

[bugsy0911]

not that I dont trust my own judgement. niggas lie. and how will I know otherwise until it's too late. It worked for me. I trust my friends to look out for me, a random nigga on the street has an agenda.

you can call it insecure all you want to. I have lead a very sheltered, protected dating life and it kept me from having some of these fucked up experiences that other chicks go through

No wonder chicks out here single. Don't trust their instincts and intuition to give a nigga a chance. If it worked for you you would still be with the first nigga a friend hooked you up with so obviously your theory has a huge flaw.

 

[Coby Vibes]

Pretty much what happened....when my boy dogged her out....she looked at me funny style. Im not that cool with either anymore & looking back in hindsight, she was a much better friend than dude....

and exactly at the second part. she said the same thing to me...

I am sure. but this is one of the lessons that you learn by going thru it. now you know.

 

[MallyG]

I technically don't think you should ever CB one of ya homeboy's.

The thing is, if you would have told her how dude REALLY was, she prolly would have been more intrigued/inclined to get @ him anyway. U know how brawds is cuh.