Billy_Poncho
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Cunt_Lyfe;7056059 said:
Because most people aren't instantly head over heels for their s/o.
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Because most people aren't instantly head over heels for their s/o.
Billy_Poncho;7056075 said:Cunt_Lyfe;7056059 said:Billy_Poncho;7056050 said:Cunt_Lyfe;7056036 said:"If you’re under 30 and in a relationship right now, and you’re not head over heels, get out. You are way too young to be wasting your time with someone who doesn’t make you really happy to be with them every day. There’s nothing sadder than watching 23-year-olds settle."
--Carolyn Hall
Actually, there's nothing sadder than seeing anyone settle at any age.
What a dumb quote
Interesting. Care to explain why?
Because most people aren't instantly head over heels for their s/o.
I didn't see where she "instantly" head over heels, do you?
Billy_Poncho
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Cunt_Lyfe;7056080 said:Billy_Poncho;7056075 said:Cunt_Lyfe;7056059 said:Billy_Poncho;7056050 said:Cunt_Lyfe;7056036 said:"If you’re under 30 and in a relationship right now, and you’re not head over heels, get out. You are way too young to be wasting your time with someone who doesn’t make you really happy to be with them every day. There’s nothing sadder than watching 23-year-olds settle."
--Carolyn Hall
Actually, there's nothing sadder than seeing anyone settle at any age.
What a dumb quote
Interesting. Care to explain why?
Because most people aren't instantly head over heels for their s/o.
I didn't see where she "instantly" head over heels, do you?
I see the part where she says if you're not then you shouldn't bother
She's looking beyond his looks. She's looking into how she's being treated. You're supposed to do that. If she's not happy that's different, and you shouldn't be with someone just because you don't want to be alone. I don't see that as settling, that seems like she's being realistic, albeit desperate for a relationship.
Billy_Poncho
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Pics of your friend though
Billy_Poncho;7056091 said:Cunt_Lyfe;7056080 said:Billy_Poncho;7056075 said:Cunt_Lyfe;7056059 said:Billy_Poncho;7056050 said:Cunt_Lyfe;7056036 said:"If you’re under 30 and in a relationship right now, and you’re not head over heels, get out. You are way too young to be wasting your time with someone who doesn’t make you really happy to be with them every day. There’s nothing sadder than watching 23-year-olds settle."
--Carolyn Hall
Actually, there's nothing sadder than seeing anyone settle at any age.
What a dumb quote
Interesting. Care to explain why?
Because most people aren't instantly head over heels for their s/o.
I didn't see where she "instantly" head over heels, do you?
I see the part where she says if you're not then you shouldn't bother
Why should you bother staying in a relationship if you're not head over heels?
The person is basically your roommate at that point.
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Tymoney19;7056072 said:I can never see myself settling down with a chick I'm not physically attracted to. Call me shallow or whatever but it is what it is. I ain't saying she gotta Beyoncé but at least be attractive 2 me.
But y'all are the 1st to talk shit when a woman stays with a nigga with a 450 credit score and good dick.
ShiveDreadz;7056086 said:Let me tell you a secret.
You going to settle in a relationship, period.
The person you with not going to meet all your expectations and fulfill your wildest dreams in all aspects.
Pick your battles and just go with it.
Co-signed x10000
Billy_Poncho
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Cunt_Lyfe;7056102 said:Billy_Poncho;7056091 said:Cunt_Lyfe;7056080 said:Billy_Poncho;7056075 said:Cunt_Lyfe;7056059 said:Billy_Poncho;7056050 said:Cunt_Lyfe;7056036 said:"If you’re under 30 and in a relationship right now, and you’re not head over heels, get out. You are way too young to be wasting your time with someone who doesn’t make you really happy to be with them every day. There’s nothing sadder than watching 23-year-olds settle."
--Carolyn Hall
Actually, there's nothing sadder than seeing anyone settle at any age.
What a dumb quote
Interesting. Care to explain why?
Because most people aren't instantly head over heels for their s/o.
I didn't see where she "instantly" head over heels, do you?
I see the part where she says if you're not then you shouldn't bother
Why should you bother staying in a relationship if you're not head over heels?
The person is basically your roommate at that point.
There's like a mile of grey area between the two
Knock_Twice
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Ppl just need to limit their expectations (from the start) and the shit will go as smooth as planned..
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Knock_Twice;7056119 said:Ppl just need to limit their expectations (from the start) and the shit will go as smooth as planned..
This...and the fact that when titles are bestowed on people, their attitude mostly change for the worse
Cunt_Lyfe;7056102 said:Billy_Poncho;7056091 said:Cunt_Lyfe;7056080 said:Billy_Poncho;7056075 said:Cunt_Lyfe;7056059 said:Billy_Poncho;7056050 said:Cunt_Lyfe;7056036 said:"If you’re under 30 and in a relationship right now, and you’re not head over heels, get out. You are way too young to be wasting your time with someone who doesn’t make you really happy to be with them every day. There’s nothing sadder than watching 23-year-olds settle."
--Carolyn Hall
Actually, there's nothing sadder than seeing anyone settle at any age.
What a dumb quote
Interesting. Care to explain why?
Because most people aren't instantly head over heels for their s/o.
I didn't see where she "instantly" head over heels, do you?
I see the part where she says if you're not then you shouldn't bother
Why should you bother staying in a relationship if you're not head over heels?
The person is basically your roommate at that point.
Because that's unrealistic.
lol..people aren't just 'head over heels' throughout an entire lifelong commitment.
Sorry, I still can't get with this, "Oh, you're not gonna find the perfect person, just get over it."
Of course there is no such thing as a "perfect person", but I'd rather be lonely than just to stay with someone I had lukewarm feelings for just because they were a nice person.
If you can't make me giddy with excitement, if I can't feel that we connect on a deep level, then it just ain't happening, regardless of all the other things.
If this were the criteria people set, maybe more people would be happier instead of trying to make something "work" when y'all don't even really fit together, anyways.
Of course there is no such thing as a "perfect person", but I'd rather be lonely than just to stay with someone I had lukewarm feelings for just because they were a nice person.
If you can't make me giddy with excitement, if I can't feel that we connect on a deep level, then it just ain't happening, regardless of all the other things.
If this were the criteria people set, maybe more people would be happier instead of trying to make something "work" when y'all don't even really fit together, anyways.
Cunt_Lyfe;7056102 said:Billy_Poncho;7056091 said:Cunt_Lyfe;7056080 said:Billy_Poncho;7056075 said:Cunt_Lyfe;7056059 said:Billy_Poncho;7056050 said:Cunt_Lyfe;7056036 said:"If you’re under 30 and in a relationship right now, and you’re not head over heels, get out. You are way too young to be wasting your time with someone who doesn’t make you really happy to be with them every day. There’s nothing sadder than watching 23-year-olds settle."
--Carolyn Hall
Actually, there's nothing sadder than seeing anyone settle at any age.
What a dumb quote
Interesting. Care to explain why?
Because most people aren't instantly head over heels for their s/o.
I didn't see where she "instantly" head over heels, do you?
I see the part where she says if you're not then you shouldn't bother
Why should you bother staying in a relationship if you're not head over heels?
The person is basically your roommate at that point.
Those damn fantasy novels, love songs and tyler perry movies really got yall brains FRIED.
And you wonder why you cant be happy in relationships.
Billy_Poncho;7056113 said:Cunt_Lyfe;7056102 said:Billy_Poncho;7056091 said:Cunt_Lyfe;7056080 said:Billy_Poncho;7056075 said:Cunt_Lyfe;7056059 said:Billy_Poncho;7056050 said:Cunt_Lyfe;7056036 said:"If you’re under 30 and in a relationship right now, and you’re not head over heels, get out. You are way too young to be wasting your time with someone who doesn’t make you really happy to be with them every day. There’s nothing sadder than watching 23-year-olds settle."
--Carolyn Hall
Actually, there's nothing sadder than seeing anyone settle at any age.
What a dumb quote
Interesting. Care to explain why?
Because most people aren't instantly head over heels for their s/o.
I didn't see where she "instantly" head over heels, do you?
I see the part where she says if you're not then you shouldn't bother
Why should you bother staying in a relationship if you're not head over heels?
The person is basically your roommate at that point.
There's like a mile of grey area between the two
Aight. Stay in the grey area with a person who you're basically just seeing to pass the time.
Cunt_Lyfe;7056132 said:Sorry, I still can't get with this, "Oh, you're not gonna find the perfect person, just get over it."
Of course there is no such thing as a "perfect person", but I'd rather be lonely than just to stay with someone I had lukewarm feelings for just because they were a nice person.
If you can't make me giddy with excitement, if I can't feel that we connect on a deep level, then it just ain't happening, regardless of all the other things.
If this were the criteria people set, maybe more people would be happier instead of trying to make something "work" when y'all don't even really fit together, anyways.
I agree, but someone can make you very happy, it still takes work.
Knock_Twice
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Anansi;7056126 said:Knock_Twice;7056119 said:Ppl just need to limit their expectations (from the start) and the shit will go as smooth as planned..
This...and the fact that when titles are bestowed on people, their attitude mostly change for the worse
Hoes want a dude that's has a college degree (when she don't have one) a six pack..(she can't do 2 sit-ups) and have a six figure job (when she's an entry level personal)
Niggas want a chick that has a big ass..flat stomach ...can cook...fuck/nasty....sing in the choir....makes close to 100K..and likes sports...
Shit is getting outta control with ppl Lol....put a cap on yo shit and you wont have to settle
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Kat;7056127 said:Cunt_Lyfe;7056102 said:Billy_Poncho;7056091 said:Cunt_Lyfe;7056080 said:Billy_Poncho;7056075 said:Cunt_Lyfe;7056059 said:Billy_Poncho;7056050 said:Cunt_Lyfe;7056036 said:"If you’re under 30 and in a relationship right now, and you’re not head over heels, get out. You are way too young to be wasting your time with someone who doesn’t make you really happy to be with them every day. There’s nothing sadder than watching 23-year-olds settle."
--Carolyn Hall
Actually, there's nothing sadder than seeing anyone settle at any age.
What a dumb quote
Interesting. Care to explain why?
Because most people aren't instantly head over heels for their s/o.
I didn't see where she "instantly" head over heels, do you?
I see the part where she says if you're not then you shouldn't bother
Why should you bother staying in a relationship if you're not head over heels?
The person is basically your roommate at that point.
Because that's unrealistic.
lol..people aren't just 'head over heels' throughout an entire lifelong commitment.
Or maybe you just haven't met the right person to make you feel that way.
It seems like people expect feelings like that to disappear over time when I think it should get stronger the longer you are together.
