Settling Down After Getting A Good Job

[spit_fiya]

my dude have u ever been with a chick thats already got her own shit? a chick that introduces you to new and the finer things in life? She already own property,graduated college, and got bread, plus she fine? When this happens lets reintroduce this thread.

 

[major pain]

this nigga texas409 needs a therapist and a father

 

[NothingButTheTruth]

I don't get it. If I'm making money and I see a cute ass broke girl going nowhere in life I'm not gonna give her a chance. If I see the same chick a year or two later and she got a good job found some class and she still look good, then I might wanna get to know her better. This would make me smart. So why would I not expect my girl to be as smart?

If a girl does what the o/p explained then she is smart and deserves a chance. We wanna talk about being grown and mature? What type of grown and mature person, regardless of gender, starts dating a person way below their class? No one. So that chick doing that is not wrong for that alone

You should give the chick a chance, and get to know her and her get to know you. If y'all agree and are compatable and feelings grow then you take it from there and to the next level.

As a grown and mature person you should be able to judge if a person has ulterior motives or not, so if after a few dates you see is genuinely interested then you wife her up and see how far y'all go.

If after a few months the bitch don't know your middle name and your birthday but always wants you to take her out and take her shopping then you know she in it for the money.

Just don't decide that a bitch only wants you for the money cause she aint give you a chance when you wasn't up to par. It just means she has standards and a girl with standard is always better then a girl without.

So yea, get to know her and see if she is genuine or not

Lol, so you only date girls who are on your level financially?

Some of y'all take this whole capitalism mindset a little too far.

 

[rockets]

I don't get it. If I'm making money and I see a cute ass broke girl going nowhere in life I'm not gonna give her a chance. If I see the same chick a year or two later and she got a good job found some class and she still look good, then I might wanna get to know her better. This would make me smart. So why would I not expect my girl to be as smart?

If a girl does what the o/p explained then she is smart and deserves a chance. We wanna talk about being grown and mature? What type of grown and mature person, regardless of gender, starts dating a person way below their class? No one. So that chick doing that is not wrong for that alone

You should give the chick a chance, and get to know her and her get to know you. If y'all agree and are compatable and feelings grow then you take it from there and to the next level.

As a grown and mature person you should be able to judge if a person has ulterior motives or not, so if after a few dates you see is genuinely interested then you wife her up and see how far y'all go.

If after a few months the bitch don't know your middle name and your birthday but always wants you to take her out and take her shopping then you know she in it for the money.

Just don't decide that a bitch only wants you for the money cause she aint give you a chance when you wasn't up to par. It just means she has standards and a girl with standard is always better then a girl without.

So yea, get to know her and see if she is genuine or not

Lol, so you only date girls who are on your level financially?

Some of y'all take this whole capitalism mindset a little too far.

I think that could apply. I say date women on your level unless you dont mind taking care of a woman for the rest of your life while she contributes nothing financial. Shedoesnt have to be a rocket scientist. But your comment reeks of the kinda of nigga that would go to DR to scope up some broad that dropped out of 8th grade and barely speaks english and your a lawyer or engineer. Those type of dudes always fail. Wiving some bottom bitch because she has a big booty and nothing else. Then when she learns the language and divorces your azz, ur crying and the rest of us are laughing at ur dumbazz. So yes try to get a woman that has something for herself. Especially in America.

 

[rockets]

I don't get it. If I'm making money and I see a cute ass broke girl going nowhere in life I'm not gonna give her a chance. If I see the same chick a year or two later and she got a good job found some class and she still look good, then I might wanna get to know her better. This would make me smart. So why would I not expect my girl to be as smart?

If a girl does what the o/p explained then she is smart and deserves a chance. We wanna talk about being grown and mature? What type of grown and mature person, regardless of gender, starts dating a person way below their class? No one. So that chick doing that is not wrong for that alone

You should give the chick a chance, and get to know her and her get to know you. If y'all agree and are compatable and feelings grow then you take it from there and to the next level.

As a grown and mature person you should be able to judge if a person has ulterior motives or not, so if after a few dates you see is genuinely interested then you wife her up and see how far y'all go.

If after a few months the bitch don't know your middle name and your birthday but always wants you to take her out and take her shopping then you know she in it for the money.

Just don't decide that a bitch only wants you for the money cause she aint give you a chance when you wasn't up to par. It just means she has standards and a girl with standard is always better then a girl without.

So yea, get to know her and see if she is genuine or not

Lol, so you only date girls who are on your level financially?

Some of y'all take this whole capitalism mindset a little too far.

What type of women do you expect men to date? Just ones that look good? explain.

 

[AZTG]

I don't get it. If I'm making money and I see a cute ass broke girl going nowhere in life I'm not gonna give her a chance. If I see the same chick a year or two later and she got a good job found some class and she still look good, then I might wanna get to know her better. This would make me smart. So why would I not expect my girl to be as smart?

If a girl does what the o/p explained then she is smart and deserves a chance. We wanna talk about being grown and mature? What type of grown and mature person, regardless of gender, starts dating a person way below their class? No one. So that chick doing that is not wrong for that alone

You should give the chick a chance, and get to know her and her get to know you. If y'all agree and are compatable and feelings grow then you take it from there and to the next level.

As a grown and mature person you should be able to judge if a person has ulterior motives or not, so if after a few dates you see is genuinely interested then you wife her up and see how far y'all go.

If after a few months the bitch don't know your middle name and your birthday but always wants you to take her out and take her shopping then you know she in it for the money.

Just don't decide that a bitch only wants you for the money cause she aint give you a chance when you wasn't up to par. It just means she has standards and a girl with standard is always better then a girl without.

So yea, get to know her and see if she is genuine or not

Lol, so you only date girls who are on your level financially?

Some of y'all take this whole capitalism mindset a little too far.

Son, we grown right? Then let's look at this. Financially bitch don't gotta be on my level, but, she gotta have something. Its not about her being rich, its bout the mind state. Take two chicks, same age, equally cute. Bitch A has a degree and a job and good credit. She ain't rich, but her finances are set and she trying to do better. Bitch b, broke as fuck living with moms waiting for a dude to bail her out.

I'm a man yo. I don't need for my girl to take care of me, I got my own. But, if ima wife a chick, Ill take the chick with the degree and job cause her mind state will let us both grow while the broke chick will bring me down.

SMH at grown dudes wifing broke bitches. We ain't talking about fucking we talking bout wifing. My dick don't care about no class, both bitches will get fucked, but only 1 gets wired.