Settling Down After Getting A Good Job

[spit_fiya]

Ahhh this thread is gonna be good...*hops on the couch and reads

 

[GodNThaBuild'n]

What you gonna do when someone with a better job and longer cash throw money at that said girl and take her? What then? I'm just asking bruh

 

[BarryHalls]

Fuck settling down. You making that bread? U better go to strip club and make it rain!

 

[Undefeatable]

Ditch her.

I know I'll never settle down with a woman who wouldn't have given me the time of day if I were broke. But what's worse is women who you kind of have to advertise your education/job to even get your foot in the door. Like you can't just dress like a regular dude, or else they won't even talk to you. Not for me at all.

 

[Purr]

so you landed that gig? congratulations. i know it was touch and go for a minute there.

hi who are you? @Yroc

 

[BarryHalls]

Find a woman that has her own money that doesnt need to depend on you for it.

 

[Premeer]

this board is warping my mind. just got done reading some of those posts in ms.scorps fellatio thread and reading this thread title, i thought it said, "settling down after getting a good blow job"

why do i have to be celibate!!!!

 

[jay83]

Ditch her.

I know I'll never settle down with a woman who wouldn't have given me the time of day if I were broke. But what's worse is women who you kind of have to advertise your education/job to even get your foot in the door. Like you can't just dress like a regular dude, or else they won't even talk to you. Not for me at all.

haha. When I was younger it was the one thing that bugged me the most. You dont know me, yet "I" have to prove myself to you. I could have a lucrative business somewhere, or on the verge of doing big things, yet Im the one who has to meet your goofy ass expectations. Its not the expectation part that was the issue. But just the attitude and body language that a woman can give you that makes it annoying. Especially running into them in different places. a conversation turns into a job interview. lol

But you get older and realize that most stuff isnt worth gettin worked up over. Honestly, if a woman gives you attitude or the "what can you do for me?" vibe, just be thankful she is showing her intentions to you from the jump, and calmly move along. lol.

 

[spit_fiya]

Any woman that you're considering a serious relationship with, check her credit score; if it's below 650, drop her. A credit score tells you a lot about someone...hopefully your credit score is up to par....can't expect her to have a good score when yours is f'd up.

 

[spit_fiya]

@knock_twice needs to be a motivational speaker...I'm sitting here reading his posts like....

 

[rockets]

You can't get mad at chicks that have standards and don't wanna fuck with bum ass niggas. Even an ol' fashion gal knows that a man has to be able to support a family in some way. If she see's that you can't do as nature intended then why should she waste time with a weaker one of the species? Being a leader means being

worth following. And financial stability is one of the many things that females should consider when choosing the man of her life. Hoes, sluts, or wives money will always be a factor. So don't knock her for wanting the best in what you can offer.

Ladies should understand that money isn't the end all, be all of it. Rich niggas get cheated on. Rich niggas get divorced. So as I said before, financial stability is ONE of the many things to look for when choosing. But in the case of a hoes and gold diggers... just keep doing as you been doing.

Im quoting this post for realness. I tell my cousin this all the time. If a man cant provide, what good is he?

 

[rockets]

Just like it has already been mentioned if she was down with you when you didn't have much and still with you now that you're doing better wife her.

Niggaz think they going to be young bucks and able to smash hoes on the regular but that shit loses its appeal as you start to mature more in your mind set.

You going to deal with all kinda shit in life.

Illness, death of loved ones, confusion, and other things that may not even be conceivable right now.

When you have someone that has your back and loves you unconditionally it makes the transition through different chapters in your life much easier.

You not going to be a young 20 or 30 something year old man forever.

This is a real post. These dudes out here dont know.

 

[mohamed]

In the word of s.carter

"Before the love birds get moved to the surburbs, I need to double check your story."

You better double check her story nigga

 

[Undefeatable]

Ditch her.

I know I'll never settle down with a woman who wouldn't have given me the time of day if I were broke. But what's worse is women who you kind of have to advertise your education/job to even get your foot in the door. Like you can't just dress like a regular dude, or else they won't even talk to you. Not for me at all.

haha. When I was younger it was the one thing that bugged me the most. You dont know me, yet "I" have to prove myself to you. I could have a lucrative business somewhere, or on the verge of doing big things, yet Im the one who has to meet your goofy ass expectations. Its not the expectation part that was the issue. But just the attitude and body language that a woman can give you that makes it annoying. Especially running into them in different places. a conversation turns into a job interview. lol

But you get older and realize that most stuff isnt worth gettin worked up over. Honestly, if a woman gives you attitude or the "what can you do for me?" vibe, just be thankful she is showing her intentions to you from the jump, and calmly move along. lol.

Yeah, even the body language can be very annoying. But to tell the truth, I've gotten more worked up over it as I've gotten old, collected degrees and basically got my act together. It's more annoying to me when I know that if these women knew what I now do, their attitude would be totally different.

Also, I have to say that where I live now, black women are actually worse than white women. Every brother is broke, unless proven otherwise. I swear, if I end up with a white woman, this will be a factor.

 

[AZTG]

I don't get it. If I'm making money and I see a cute ass broke girl going nowhere in life I'm not gonna give her a chance. If I see the same chick a year or two later and she got a good job found some class and she still look good, then I might wanna get to know her better. This would make me smart. So why would I not expect my girl to be as smart?

If a girl does what the o/p explained then she is smart and deserves a chance. We wanna talk about being grown and mature? What type of grown and mature person, regardless of gender, starts dating a person way below their class? No one. So that chick doing that is not wrong for that alone

You should give the chick a chance, and get to know her and her get to know you. If y'all agree and are compatable and feelings grow then you take it from there and to the next level.

As a grown and mature person you should be able to judge if a person has ulterior motives or not, so if after a few dates you see is genuinely interested then you wife her up and see how far y'all go.

If after a few months the bitch don't know your middle name and your birthday but always wants you to take her out and take her shopping then you know she in it for the money.

Just don't decide that a bitch only wants you for the money cause she aint give you a chance when you wasn't up to par. It just means she has standards and a girl with standard is always better then a girl without.

So yea, get to know her and see if she is genuine or not

 

[jay83]

@knock_twice needs to be a motivational speaker...I'm sitting here reading his posts like....

How come "roc" is always sacrificing himself for white women in sci fi movies? Lol

alien 3 and mimic. Lol.

 

[FucktheIC]

I only fuck with chicks on my level or higher.

 

[Copper]

this nigga texas409 needs a therapist and a father

 

[Paul Hate.]

You need moderation.You cant be with a doormat(what happens when your not around?) and you can't be with a feminist/loud mouth bitch.

That's my opinion.

 

[HarlemThumzUp]

my dude have u ever been with a chick thats already got her own shit? a chick that introduces you to new and the finer things in life? She already own property,graduated college, and got bread, plus she fine? When this happens lets reintroduce this thread.