Ajackson17
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Niggas dont get married in 2013, only black men do
Knock_Twice
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Folk you answered your own question...lol..but it's tricky becuz they're some good girls out here who are looking for a good dude who can bring something to the table...I give chicks a hard time about this becuz some like to leech "what all they can get outta you"... but some have a good head an want that dude that's working hard and has a solid foundation...now Lol...to see if she's tru to you..you have to evaluate the situation...see what's she's bringing to the table that can help you both...see the things that she's willing to do for "you"....if you lose your job tomorrow ask yourself if babygirl will still be around...see if she take you out to eat and she pays..(and not on your b-day) see if she folds your clothes up (voluntary) when she's chillin at your crib..what I do...I'll purposely wash clothes and take them out the dryer and leave them on the couch when a chick comes over....I'll observe and see if she's going to take the extra mile and fold my shit up or if she's going to talk about me and say I live dirty LOL..cray and some may call it foolish but it separates her from the rest...See if she'll do lil odd things for you..buy you t-shirts and underwear and shit..ask you do you want or need anything before she comes over..and don't say no becuz you can get it...say yea a few times and see if she'll get it..even if it's just her stopping and pickin you up some soap..washin powder...deodorant..make her ass know lol......I do believe it's gotta be 50/50 folk she gotta be that way.....especially if you got your shit together..in this situation..you gotta play it like you the catch and not her...not sayin don't do for her, but put her ass through some test for your sake....Don't always be quick to give give even though you have to give..make her do some things...you may feel that you got your job and all is left is that wifey..I mean if so..you gotta put her through lil things to know and see if she'll go the extra mile for you...fuck her sayin she will..see it through her actions....
Congrads on the gig folk...
Congrads on the gig folk...
King Erauno
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when you doing well in your career and making money, you will have access to plenty of women. get with a chick who has as much to lose as you. dont settle for the bitch who wouldnt talk to you before and is on you now
What if you was with a chick before making it she was cool but she still has a while before she finishes college while you graduated and started making real paper. She kind of start getting lazy not wanting to work cause she know you getting paid and she causing stress cause she expecting you to take care of her emotional needs to? Would you stay loyal or say f it and go into playa mode and kick her to the curb
Knock_Twice
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Folk...
If she don't have that drive to do...all she's going to do is pull you down....lazy aint a good thing in both parties...shit is like a small scab...it'll start to work on you...you gotta be equally yoke...alot folks don't believe in this or stand on this..but to me IMO it's somewhat true....if she isn't there yet..at least she should be showing signs to get there and when I say signs...you see her taking classes..gettin her study on..(not complaining all the time..doing what she gotta do..applyin for jobs this and the other)..hustling to get to that point and she's ""still" willing to take care/do for you..Folk you can't be no baby-sitter for no grown ass woman..again you the catch not her..it's more of her than it is you out here lol...she aint 18 no mo...it's life folk..she gotta get on her grind or something lol..I mean that's just me...lazy and not wanting to work....mayne aint nothing fun about being around someone like that...me..I would say f it..folk I don't even put energy in chicks like that..hell if I gotta get up and get it..you gotta do the same too..it's only fair....I wouldn't put all my energy into tryin to make something work with her...you can still be friends...but as far as trying to make something happen..nah folk...her drive isn't there and yours is...it wont work IMO...I been there...shit will only bring stress to your life and situation lol.. fuk loyal...loyalty aint nothing but a excuse in some instances....and in this one..it could be bad...
If you have any further doubts about this situation..just change the roles in your situation...
See if she'll be willing to let you be lazy and not work...let you lay on her and spend her money lol...Where I'm from a successful woman with her head on right..Won't...a grown woman won't...some birds may..but a woman who's about gettin alot outta this life..she'll be quick to put yo ass out lol...just sayin..
If she don't have that drive to do...all she's going to do is pull you down....lazy aint a good thing in both parties...shit is like a small scab...it'll start to work on you...you gotta be equally yoke...alot folks don't believe in this or stand on this..but to me IMO it's somewhat true....if she isn't there yet..at least she should be showing signs to get there and when I say signs...you see her taking classes..gettin her study on..(not complaining all the time..doing what she gotta do..applyin for jobs this and the other)..hustling to get to that point and she's ""still" willing to take care/do for you..Folk you can't be no baby-sitter for no grown ass woman..again you the catch not her..it's more of her than it is you out here lol...she aint 18 no mo...it's life folk..she gotta get on her grind or something lol..I mean that's just me...lazy and not wanting to work....mayne aint nothing fun about being around someone like that...me..I would say f it..folk I don't even put energy in chicks like that..hell if I gotta get up and get it..you gotta do the same too..it's only fair....I wouldn't put all my energy into tryin to make something work with her...you can still be friends...but as far as trying to make something happen..nah folk...her drive isn't there and yours is...it wont work IMO...I been there...shit will only bring stress to your life and situation lol.. fuk loyal...loyalty aint nothing but a excuse in some instances....and in this one..it could be bad...
If you have any further doubts about this situation..just change the roles in your situation...
See if she'll be willing to let you be lazy and not work...let you lay on her and spend her money lol...Where I'm from a successful woman with her head on right..Won't...a grown woman won't...some birds may..but a woman who's about gettin alot outta this life..she'll be quick to put yo ass out lol...just sayin..
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Knock_Twice
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texas409;5511048 said:
Fo sho..
Pass the info on to the next
Ioniz3dSPIRITZ
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texas409;490586 said:
Nope. Pump and dump.
Chef_Taylor
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Young_Chitlin;5510119 said:
Best post in thread so far...you couldve kept the "wife her" line tho.lol.....you separate the real from the fake when youre down and out...if a chick was dealing with you when you were at a low point in ya life you need to keep her around... that is one of the most flattering signs of appreciation to me.
mryounggun
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Never wife a chick and give her the 4 Seasons brunch...if she wasn't down when it was high school free lunch.
GodNThaBuild'n
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Do like mark zuckerberg did. Make your millions, or billions, first and then marry tha bish. If she trys to leave you, she won't get that much bruh. But I would ditch tha heaux.
Supreme_Mind999
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Love in america is a business deal,b full of contracts,car notes,leases,etc
If they were charging for oxygen,bishes would want the dude with the biggest oxygen tanks
You want true love?, go to africa or a island and find you a pretty bush lady
Don't believe that "bullshyt eddie murphy coming to america hype" about finding a queen in queens,USA
Give me the hop on one leg bark like a dog chick...Less headaches that way
If they were charging for oxygen,bishes would want the dude with the biggest oxygen tanks
You want true love?, go to africa or a island and find you a pretty bush lady
Don't believe that "bullshyt eddie murphy coming to america hype" about finding a queen in queens,USA
Give me the hop on one leg bark like a dog chick...Less headaches that way
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You can't get mad at chicks that have standards and don't wanna fuck with bum ass niggas. Even an ol' fashion gal knows that a man has to be able to support a family in some way. If she see's that you can't do as nature intended then why should she waste time with a weaker one of the species? Being a leader means being worth following. And financial stability is one of the many things that females should consider when choosing the man of her life. Hoes, sluts, or wives money will always be a factor. So don't knock her for wanting the best in what you can offer.
Ladies should understand that money isn't the end all, be all of it. Rich niggas get cheated on. Rich niggas get divorced. So as I said before, financial stability is ONE of the many things to look for when choosing. But in the case of a hoes and gold diggers... just keep doing as you been doing.
Ladies should understand that money isn't the end all, be all of it. Rich niggas get cheated on. Rich niggas get divorced. So as I said before, financial stability is ONE of the many things to look for when choosing. But in the case of a hoes and gold diggers... just keep doing as you been doing.
