Arya Tsaddiq
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It depends on if I could tell if it was genuine or not. I would do some shit like date...If I like her I'd say some shit like I lost my job or got demoted and aint gonna be making bread like that.
If she sticks around and things are still good...Then i'd roll with it from there
If she sticks around and things are still good...Then i'd roll with it from there
Young_Chitlin
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If she seen you at your worst, broke as fuck and not much to do with anything and then she see you coming up getting that money and doing good with the job and she has not changed... wife her.
I try my hardest not to tell females Im interested in what I do. Cuz many females hear about my job and know it comes with benefits & health care smh And if the first think out a female's mouth is "so what do you do?" I already know what the bitch's focus is. First question out the gate and you in my damn wallet sizing my bank account up? I see you bitch.
Anyway, ditch her.
But lets be real for a second. The vast majority of dudes with decent jobs and benefits will damn near write, "PLEASE LOVE ME, I GOT A LOT OF MONEY & I WANT THE FUCKING WORLD TO KNOW BECAUSE I LACK THE SELF-ESTEEM AND CONFIDENCE TO ATTRACT WOMEN WITH LOOKS & PERSONALITY" on their T-Shirts.
Lets not pretend bitches even have to be gold diggers anymore. Niggas be like, "Hi, my name is Lawyer, and I like long walks in my 2014 Bentley. Have you ever seen a black card? Ya want to?"
Anyway, ditch her.
But lets be real for a second. The vast majority of dudes with decent jobs and benefits will damn near write, "PLEASE LOVE ME, I GOT A LOT OF MONEY & I WANT THE FUCKING WORLD TO KNOW BECAUSE I LACK THE SELF-ESTEEM AND CONFIDENCE TO ATTRACT WOMEN WITH LOOKS & PERSONALITY" on their T-Shirts.
Lets not pretend bitches even have to be gold diggers anymore. Niggas be like, "Hi, my name is Lawyer, and I like long walks in my 2014 Bentley. Have you ever seen a black card? Ya want to?"
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Just like it has already been mentioned if she was down with you when you didn't have much and still with you now that you're doing better wife her.
Niggaz think they going to be young bucks and able to smash hoes on the regular but that shit loses its appeal as you start to mature more in your mind set.
You going to deal with all kinda shit in life.
Illness, death of loved ones, confusion, and other things that may not even be conceivable right now.
When you have someone that has your back and loves you unconditionally it makes the transition through different chapters in your life much easier.
You not going to be a young 20 or 30 something year old man forever.
Niggaz think they going to be young bucks and able to smash hoes on the regular but that shit loses its appeal as you start to mature more in your mind set.
You going to deal with all kinda shit in life.
Illness, death of loved ones, confusion, and other things that may not even be conceivable right now.
When you have someone that has your back and loves you unconditionally it makes the transition through different chapters in your life much easier.
You not going to be a young 20 or 30 something year old man forever.
Cant blame a chick for wanting the finer things..most chicks are groomed since birth to go after a meal ticket..personally, I go after women on my level or better..when real money is being made, only real money gets attention..if her net worth is lower than mine, she can't be trusted..no exeptions..don't matter how good she suck a dick or how wet the pussy get or how the mental connect flows, if she can't match or surpass, it's a loss and potential liability..when you start playin with some real paper the rules change b..what was good enough when you were broke gotta be better once you on
Nike Cortez;5510328 said:
This is true but saying, "cant blame her for wanting the finer things" is well and good. But some people want to connect with someone on a higher level than that.
It's cool to say all that shit but lets not act like that big paper is guaranteed. NIggas end up killing and beatin bitches after they get fired or their little entrepreneur venture doesnt quite take off and now that you dont have your house & it's time to move back into an apartment the bitch is with a nigga that had a better 2nd Quarter than you lol
Best believe when she packing her shit you wont be saying, "cant blame you for wanting the finer things. Make sure to invite me to the wedding." Human emotion does come into play if we being real.
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blakfyahking
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this nigga Louisiana Crude stay trying to dupe niggaz in every thread to get married
Haha..........
Haha..........
Darxwell;5510367 said:
That's why being focused on finance trumps all that..crazy shit about life is we're often forced to choose to between the heart and the dollar..choose love and eventually it will eat at your riches..choose riches and it will eventually eat at your heart..I used to be in the t/s shoes regarding the op...
I chose finance..
blakfyahking;5510395 said:
Nah man not at all. Lol
Marriage isn't for everybody heck I'd venture to say even that it's not for most cats period young or old.
Marriage is work and it involves a lot of compromise and putting your feelings on the back burner at times.
I think the pros out weigh the cons though.
Niggaz will lay up and impregnate broads they have no intentions on being with long term but have reservations about that female that's holding them down and not really asking for shit in return.
I'm not advocating marriage but if a broad is holding you down with no alternate motives in mind then why not go ahead and make an honest woman out of her.
That's what's wrong with the Black community now to many absentee fathers not in their kids lives because they was trying to get some pussy or just live life and slipped up and got a broad pregnant.
The kids grow up and repeat the cycle.
A lot of niggaz don't care to commit or share anything with one person and that's fine but a lot of those will be the same niggaz with kids by 2 or more seeds by as many women with no plans of settling down.
ChicagoBears
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Darxwell;5510124 said:
Preach. At t/s there was a marriage thread a little while ago that discussed what Darx just touched upon above. This shouldnt even require thought. Cancel that chick. @Darxwell, lol lets be honest 90% of dudes will never be able to get a bentley. Doesnt matter where you work.
CottonCitySlim
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You pathetic soft simp ass nigga.
If you just upgraded your position in life with a nice as job, and the it still has the new car smell. then focus on the job and improving your situation there first, you should not be focusing on these hoes. they will always be there.
ole imma get me a nice job o i can finally get womenz ass nigga
If you just upgraded your position in life with a nice as job, and the it still has the new car smell. then focus on the job and improving your situation there first, you should not be focusing on these hoes. they will always be there.
ole imma get me a nice job o i can finally get womenz ass nigga
As the late great B.I.G. once said...
"Fuck bitches, get money"
I got some things in the works myself. Hopefully in a few months I'll have a full time job w/ the state & a part time job w/ the federal gov't. I'm trying have my student loans paid off in just under 3 years & save enough money to go back to school & finish my degree by paying outta pocket so I can graduate w/ no debt. I ain't thinking about these hoes & u shouldn't either.
"Fuck bitches, get money"
I got some things in the works myself. Hopefully in a few months I'll have a full time job w/ the state & a part time job w/ the federal gov't. I'm trying have my student loans paid off in just under 3 years & save enough money to go back to school & finish my degree by paying outta pocket so I can graduate w/ no debt. I ain't thinking about these hoes & u shouldn't either.
s_a_m_r_i_o
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1.I was always getting money, never broke.
2.I always got money and bitches at the same time.
3.I smashed a lot of bitches and wanted to be with me without knowing where I worked.
2.I always got money and bitches at the same time.
3.I smashed a lot of bitches and wanted to be with me without knowing where I worked.
Ghostdenithegawd
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s_a_m_r_i_o;5510777 said:
i lie alot^^^
s_a_m_r_i_o
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No lies at all. Females liked me because of my personality and other things without money involved and not knowing where I worked. I see nothing wrong with a female kind of judging a guy where he works along as she's making a decent living.
