Safe to say many black women are trying to act like men and are failing horribly?

[American.Loo]

on some real shit, I think men heads are pumped up, because personally I don't want a lot of men....& I don't want to be a man, but when a dude think he gonna holla like I am a piece of meat, I know how to TURN YOU OFF.

Some men don't get that the CHICK is trying to TURN YOU OFF. LOL @ ya'll thinking we slow...we don't want all these men turned on at once, because then they start fighting and shooting, then stalkers may get the wrong impression..*hint* if a woman starts acting boyish/manish around you, SHES TRYING TO TURN YOU OFF!

This girl can never stay on topic,

Yet she's filled to the brim with opinion

If she could hold an actual conversation (you know -- the kind where two adults discourse on the same subject) she'd be dangerous.

 

[quiet1]

Sounds like it was a back-to-reality Cutty slap

You got me kicked out of class with this shit. Damn lol

 

[American.Loo]

From the way it was described to me, it really was a back to reality slap.

Like i said, if a grown man were to put his hand in the face of another man. and dude says "dont disrespect me."

And dude's reply is "What you gonna do about it?"

More than likely, n*ggas bout to fight. Why she expected anything different because she's a female is beyond me.

 

[desertrain10]

Now I dont know if its because of songs like Ciara's "like a boy", the tv show sex and the city or a new age of feminism, but carrying on like a man is something very few women can do successfully.

no matter how you slice it, men and women are wired differently. thats it.

men: desire for sex> desire to be wanted

women: desire to be wanted > desire for sex

ultimately, thats why the fuck buddy situation never lasts. niggas treat fuckbuddy's like how Robert DeNiro treated his life in the movie Heat. We'll walk away from it all in 30 seconds flat if circumstances require it. most women cant do that.

also, got a call from my boy last night, said he saw a chick get slapped at the club.

apparently she put her hand in some dudes face. dude told her not to disrespect him. she said "What you gone do about it?"

and he slapped her. now, i cant condone that. but had it been two dudes, the situation would have probably ended the same, with a punch instead of a slap.

bottom line, men are men and women are women.

what does acting like a man even mean? lol. being promiscuous?....being violent? ... only men enjoy the act of sex?

i get what you are saying though about domestic violence. a woman should never put her hands on a man in anger but that goes for any one. violence is never the answer.

and really women haven't lost their femininity, men haven't lost their masculinity, it's the concepts of femininity and masculinity which are changing.... the gender line is being blurred...

 

[MissLeading]

Lol at you using Sex in the City to claim "black" women are trying to act like men... Girlfriends would have been a more appropriate show to make your narrow minded point...

 

[American.Loo]

Lol at you using Sex in the City to claim "black" women are trying to act like men... Girlfriends would have been a more appropriate show to make your narrow minded point...

Girlfriends was the generic brand of Sex in the City.

You must not have had HBO, I feel you ma.

*slaps a**, swaggers off*

 

[haute]

Loo the next 2 threads you make need to be about something other than dysfunctional woman you attract or I'm going to put you on jadaross status

I'm saying this because ilu

 

[MissLeading]

Girlfriends was the generic brand of Sex in the City.

You must not have had HBO, I feel you ma.

*slaps a**, swaggers off*

Why would you use a show about white women being promiscuous to criticize only blackwomen?

 

[S2J]

Now I dont know if its because of songs like Ciara's "like a boy", the tv show sex and the city or a new age of feminism, but carrying on like a man is something very few women can do successfully.

no matter how you slice it, men and women are wired differently. thats it.

men: desire for sex> desire to be wanted

women: desire to be wanted > desire for sex

ultimately, thats why the fuck buddy situation never lasts. niggas treat fuckbuddy's like how Robert DeNiro treated his life in the movie Heat. We'll walk away from it all in 30 seconds flat if circumstances require it. most women cant do that.

also, got a call from my boy last night, said he saw a chick get slapped at the club.

apparently she put her hand in some dudes face. dude told her not to disrespect him. she said "What you gone do about it?"

and he slapped her. now, i cant condone that. but had it been two dudes, the situation would have probably ended the same, with a punch instead of a slap.

bottom line, men are men and women are women.

I mean look no further than the IC for validation of this phenomenon..shyt's scustin'

Lame nggas/simps play a significant part in empowering these chicks, too...

 

[S2J]

Man i work in DC...so once you got chicks makin a lil money? Oh forgetaboutit....

Got bytches out here thinkin they 'socialites' smh

Juts...yuck...what a topic, what a thread lol

 

[American.Loo]

Why would you use a show about white women being promiscuous to criticize only blackwomen?

Because I only date chocolate.

I have no interest in whats occuring in the white netherworld.

But I also cited black music, so holla back.