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i tried to talk tp her but the fucked up thing in all this is how she making it seem like she did no wrong man imma be real ive smashed dudes girls before so i know some shit went down
 
MzGrahamBitches;4868048 said:
You're assuming she cheated just like she was probably worried that you cheated in ATL.

Stop assuming.

It's just 2 + 2. You can't be blinded by love in a situation like that.

Not saying he shouldn't talk to her, but what good reason would justify that story - even if she didn't cheat ?
 
texasboi409;4868057 said:
i tried to talk tp her but the fucked up thing in all this is how she making it seem like she did no wrong man imma be real ive smashed dudes girls before so i know some shit went down

either you believe her or you dont.

If you dont then, you need to leave the relationship because you BOTH will never grow because you will always have the possibility of her cheating in the back of your mind.

Everyone is not the scary "cheater" boogie man.. Weird shit just happens sometimes.
 
Yeah I won't lie, shit seems pretty suspicious.

Don't assume though. Maybe she just wanted a night out with the girls, maybe she was trying to spite you for not including her in your bday plans.

I'd let her soak in silence for a minute.
 
yea she told me to stop texting and calling her she couldnt take it anymore so i guess imma move on but i never gave up on her but imma man the fuck up and stay strong i just dont wanna be with anyone else that single life sucks its not fun anymore
 
ey yo son. Your girl fucked up. Ima give you the realest advice, not the most idealistic advice, not what sounds good, but ima be real as fuck.

It was your girls bday, a day where she supposed to be celebrating with you, but instead, she puts priority in doing other things, like coming to the restaurant with a friend, and leaving with a plan and pursuing her own plans and not "y'all" plans.

Now she went with her friend, who lives with her bf, who has another dude over the house. Your girl knew who was there, and went there drunk as fuck, looking to fuck. People gonna disagree but come on. Your girl is grown as fuck. Why did she go to her friends house with other dudes over, drunk, and didn't call and text. she a grown ass person and her friend took her phone and wouldn't give it back? yo that is a dumb ass excuse, and with it, she is disrespecting your intelligence. A grown person takes another grown persons phone and doesn't give her phone back and your girl ain't get mad and tell her like "yo give me back my fucking phone, I need to send my man the address" come on son. She played you, knowingly.

The fucked up part of it all is that this shit was planned in advance. Instead of making plans with you, she comes and meets you at a restaurant, with a friend, and leaves with a friend who got dudes over. Sounds like she came to dinner just to get it out the way son. You probably payed for dinner to. haha. damn that's fucked up.

find a new girl my dude. when grown people are in a relationship there has to be a level of respect and dos and donts. if she can't decide that going over her friends house when dudes are over on her bday is wrong, its best to end it.

Now, the reason she did what she did? 2 possibilities. either the relationship ain't fun and exciting to her anymore so she had to get excitement elsewhere on her bday, which means its time to end the relationship, keep its because of the atl vacation you took that people are talking about and she wanted revenge, and you don't wanna be with a girl like that neither.

@Charlie_danger is giving good advice but yo, realistically, on her bday, at her friends house there was two dudes, one was the friends bf, the other was a single dude, and they were two girls. it wasn't no party. 2 dudes, 2 girls, one of which is a grown person who gets her phone taken away by another grown person.

Its fucked up how it went down son, but you gotta end it. dont be a sucker.
 
Just from reading about the text you sent her, and the response she gave, leads me to believe the relationship was on its last leg. Some things are for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. This was a reason for you, as well as a season. You know how to conduct yourself in a relationship, and you also learned that you are ready for something more fulfilling.

With this knowledge, the one for you will now find YOU. Be easy and know, there are some hoes out here, and there are some ladies. Don't waste your time with distractions. She was good, and she served her purpose. Now it's time to move on.
 
MY NIGGA...

NO ONE TAKES YOUR PHONE WHEN UR DRUNK... YA KEYS YEAH, BUT PHONE!, HELLLLLL NAW!.... AND THEN SHE COULDNT GET TO A PHONE UNTIL THE NEXT DAY..

COME ON MAN... I KNOW U LOVE HER BUT LETS BE REAL... U KNOW THAT NIGGA TRIED HER AND DID SOMETHING... ATE HER, KISSED HER OR SOMETHING!
 
texasboi409;4868057 said:
texasboi409;4868057 said:
i tried to talk tp her but the fucked up thing in all this is how she making it seem like she did no wrong man imma be real ive smashed dudes girls before so i know some shit went down

that shit come back around full god damn circle dont it
 
texasboi409;4867808 said:
so friday night was her birthday i was gonna come pick her up but she told me she had her friend with her so i said cool ill meet you at the restaurant. we get there we taking sake bombs and everything is good. i have a gift for her waiting at my homeboy house do we get ready to go and i said lets go to his house and she like naw we gonna go to brandies house so ok cool just answer your phone when i call cause imma need directions. so mind you she cant handle her liquor well and brandie stays with her boyfriend and one of his friends is in town so im thinking i need to be there so no nigga cant try to pull some shit. well im calling her txting her and she is not answering at all so im buzzed up and angry so i send her a txt telling her its fucked up how she did me and out of anger trll her dont call me anymore which i didnt mean. the next day she calls me and tries to tell me her homegirl took her keys and phone and wouldn't give it to her which i dont believe and how im wrong for not trusting her and how she is done with me which is bullshit. I got way more stuff but i know you niggas aint gonna read

She spent the night with a strange man bruh.....that's all you need to know
 
ms.jones;4868269 said:
Just from reading about the text you sent her, and the response she gave, leads me to believe the relationship was on its last leg. Some things are for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. This was a reason for you, as well as a season. You know how to conduct yourself in a relationship, and you also learned that you are ready for something more fulfilling.

With this knowledge, the one for you will now find YOU. Be easy and know, there are some hoes out here, and there are some ladies. Don't waste your time with distractions. She was good, and she served her purpose. Now it's time to move on.

thanks jonesy shit hurts i dont know why or how shit changed for her so quick
 
It's wasn't quick...she was just working up the courage to actually do it. And please believe, her friend knew about everything, and set that little date up for her.
 
Pico Roscoe;4868588 said:
Cs jonesy and azad.

Give it some time and move on playa. Single life suck but it's better than wasting your time.

nosign @ the bolded

single life doesn't suck

be free t/s and stop worrying about what these chicks doing.......shorty too grown to try to pass you a line like that

troop up and smash something new
 

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