Relationship Issues

[deadeye]

yea she told me to stop texting and calling her

Best advice she could've given you.

You should give her exactly what she wants.

Within less than a week, she'll probably start calling and texting you.

At which point, you should ignore her calls and not respond to her texts.

Make her come to you.

The one who cares the least in a relationship has the most control.

If she wants to get back with you, take her back on your terms...not hers.

Maybe even relegate her to jumpoff status.

Other than that, it might be best to just leave her alone altogether.

 

[blakfyahking]

yea she told me to stop texting and calling her

Best advice she could've given you.

You should give her exactly what she wants.

Within less than a week, she'll probably start calling and texting you.

At which point, you should ignore her calls and not respond to her texts.

Make her come to you.

The one who cares the least in a relationship has the most control.

If she wants to get back with you, take her back on your terms...not hers.

Maybe even relegate her to jumpoff status.

Other than that, it might be best to just leave her alone altogether.

the bolded is the only thing that makes sense IMO

that's why relationships are too much work if you gotta play them other type of games

go out and get some money t/s

 

[blakfyahking]

LMAO @ Cain being a supportive friend and trying to encourage that nigga to suicide

real talk every nigga has taken that L........I don't even respect a dude who hasn't had to go thru that at least once

any mofo claiming he winning all the time either lying or he ain't really living........or he ain't lived long enough yet IMO

 

[texas409]

i haven't even told yall the worst part. she came over and tried to talk yesterday and her phone kept ringing so im like let me answer and she says no so i was pissed and said why didnt you tell your friend no that night when she tried to take your phone? she got pissed and left then about 30 mins later i get a phone call and its her uncle telling me to keep my hands to myself and im like wtf?? she told her people i had a look in my eye like i was gonna smack her so she got scared and left. thats what hurt me the most i never thought she would do that i guess her guilt got the best of her

 

[SleepwalkingInJapan]

so friday night was her birthday i was gonna come pick her up but she told me she had her friend with her so i said cool ill meet you at the restaurant. we get there we taking sake bombs and everything is good. i have a gift for her waiting at my homeboy house do we get ready to go and i said lets go to his house and she like naw we gonna go to brandies house so ok cool just answer your phone when i call cause imma need directions. so mind you she cant handle her liquor well and brandie stays with her boyfriend and one of his friends is in town so im thinking i need to be there so no nigga cant try to pull some shit. well im calling her txting her and she is not answering at all so im buzzed up and angry so i send her a txt telling her its fucked up how she did me and out of anger trll her dont call me anymore which i didnt mean. the next day she calls me and tries to tell me her homegirl took her keys and phone and wouldn't give it to her which i dont believe and how im wrong for not trusting her and how she is done with me which is bullshit. I got way more stuff but i know you niggas aint gonna read

the bold speaks to the lack of respect she has for u.

she think she can get away with saying whatev.... change that asap

 

[texas409]

cain and blakfyah i appreciate yall niggas man

 

[Meta_Conscious]

wow...

not only did she play u, but she got niggs calling your phone making threats?

I hope u love yourself more than u love a relationship...

 

[taeboo]

i haven't even told yall the worst part. she came over and tried to talk yesterday and her phone kept ringing so im like let me answer and she says no so i was pissed and said why didnt you tell your friend no that night when she tried to take your phone? she got pissed and left then about 30 mins later i get a phone call and its her uncle telling me to keep my hands to myself and im like wtf?? she told her people i had a look in my eye like i was gonna smack her so she got scared and left. thats what hurt me the most i never thought she would do that i guess her guilt got the best of her

Leave her alone for the bolded alone. I'm assuming that you two are both in your late 20's/30's, but she way too old to be playing games like that.

 

[blakfyahking]

real shit @ what @stop just said

shorty already lining you up for drama

walk away now champ now that you see her true colors

don't let your emotions get you in deeper cause I already see the future with ol girl having her uncle call your phone

 

[Copper]

So she cheated on u now she lying on u.....move the hell on...she telling her family that bc she know she did wrong and setting u up to look like the villain when shit goes south

 

[king hassan]

Homie, why you should be rappin with your lady, not asking questions on the IC

 

[a.mann]

Yo @texasboi you sound hurt as fuck right now fam. I was gonna clown but that shit does fuck your day up when your main broad jump ship on you out of nowhere.

YEAH

HOMIE FIGHTING TEARS.....

HONESTLY I DON'T THINK IT'S SO MUCH THE FACT SHE JUMP SHIP

BUT HOW SHE WENT ABOUT DOING IT (NOT THERE'S A WAY TO SOFTEN THE BLOW)

BUT SHORT REALLY TRIED TO PLAY DUDE LIKE SAM SAUSAGEHEAD

LIKE THERE WAS NO FEAR OR RESPECT OF HIM TO COME UP WITH AN OUTLANDISH BULLSHIT STORY

 

[west3rd]

I always tell my soldiers out here...know what type of relationship you have. Cuz females can be great actors. Oscar worthy. It's true most men have taken that L. It happens all the time when deployed. Muthafuckas think their women are true to them and down for them but yo...9 months, a year is a long time. And half them cats be smashin the broads out here even if they girl aint fuckin back home. It's a cold world man. Single life is straight. I understand the need for somebody as you get older but don't force it and only look for that and nothing else.

 

[a.mann]

it's like she doesn't see him as a man.......not me

a lame cornball....pass the butter

it's like he's tried her patience one to many times

that broad's girlfriend probably eggin her along that path of no return

you know how bitches do

 

[a.mann]

it's was her birthday to, I know ole boy played this for her....

 

[blakfyahking]

t/s

this thread is a gift nigga

take the clue.......

if you religious, then consider this thread as GOD showing you a sign haha

these ignant niggaz on the IC stopped with the tranny jokes just to tell you something real

 

[MrSoutCity]

What's fucked up she went out with you then go on to cool with a next nigga. Please believe her friend was the one to put her up to that. Where you fucked up was telling her don't call or text yet when she calls you answering the phone. You was suppose to ignore her ass for the next couple of days.

Now it's time to expose her ass. Start dropping them nudes.

 

[gorilla]

You already know what's up. Don't call, text, write etc. Cut all contact like she never existed. Then she'll try to come back around but the best thing for you to do is the leave that chick alone before it gets worse.

 

[texas409]

hahaha yall biggas comments are hilarious imma be aight though

 

[AZTG]

i haven't even told yall the worst part. she came over and tried to talk yesterday and her phone kept ringing so im like let me answer and she says no so i was pissed and said why didnt you tell your friend no that night when she tried to take your phone? she got pissed and left then about 30 mins later i get a phone call and its her uncle telling me to keep my hands to myself and im like wtf?? she told her people i had a look in my eye like i was gonna smack her so she got scared and left. thats what hurt me the most i never thought she would do that i guess her guilt got the best of her

The fuck? now she trying to get you hit? and her phone was ringing? that says it all man.

Let her go man. its time to find someone better. Take what you learned in your relationship and apply it to the next one.

She already got another dude but she also dont wanna let you go. haha. women are funny man. if you play their games you will lose. If you send her a text saying you too much of a man to take the shit she dished out to you, and then stop responding, I will bet money that she will apologise and want shit to go back to the way it was before the end of the month. I just hope your smart enough to not go back to her.

But yo, answer this question, did you pay for dinner at that restaurant on her bday? Did you pay for her friend too? be real.