Read this in another thread: " I'd def wife if she wasn't white"?

[MissLeading]

I have no problem messing with a non-black man but if he's white, then he can't be American. I can't shake the feeling that most American white men are racists or have racist tendencies or feel black people are inferior..

 

[Esiam]

No disrespect, but I don't see why this is a thread. Preference is preference. Culture is very important to a lot of people. Marrying someone from your same ethnicity implies a shared sense of your people's history and struggle. That is a comfort. If a Black dude wants that, it is what it is. If a Latino wants to marry someone else who is Latina only, it is what it is. I respect people's choices. Me myself, I want to marry into my culture so that my ethnic heritage can continue to live on through my kids and a husband that understands that fully.

Yeah I respect people's choices too but I was just interested in knowing why someone would have that mindstate to think like that and you make valid points talking about the importance of shared culture, I guess white people or at least I (can't really speak for all white people) don't feel the slightest importance in keeping traditions of what you speak of, but yes I respect the fact that some people feel that way I was just trying to get a better understanding

 

[TANGLUNG]

I’ve seen some fine white women in my lifetime, but I don’t know if I would date one. If they’re cool, I don’t see a problem.

 

[MissLeading]

How can u say this when u don't date?

When did I say I didn't date?

 

[Paul Hate.]

Theres nothing wrong with dating outside your race,blacks just got that "kill whitey" shit still in their veins...

 

[Esiam]

Theres nothing wrong with dating outside your race,blacks just got that "kill whitey" shit still in their veins...

What ethnicity are you btw?

 

[playmaker88]

I cant see me with a white chick period.. i guess it could happen but nah and that statement is retarded..

"I'd wife if she wasnt white" what the fuck does that even mean..

 

[MissLeading]

When u won't take the date u on seriously?

Oh ok.. Am I supposed to take every date seriously?

 

[Mr.LV]

Imagine dating a white girl for some time and it gets serious and she wants you to meet her parents over dinner.Now you go to this dinner and you the only black person there lol that dinner is going to be very uncomfortable when questions from her parents start flying into your direction.

 

[KidLife10200]

Imagine dating a white girl for some time and it gets serious and she wants you to meet her parents over dinner.Now you go to this dinner and you the only black person there lol that dinner is going to be very uncomfortable when questions from her parents start flying into your direction.

How would it be uncomfortable?

 

[Mr.LV]

How would it be uncomfortable?

Have you ever been in that situation?

 

[MissLeading]

Yes, unless u just out to get free food and drinks

I've paid too though.

 

[kat2180]

Imagine dating a white girl for some time and it gets serious and she wants you to meet her parents over dinner.Now you go to this dinner and you the only black person there lol that dinner is going to be very uncomfortable when questions from her parents start flying into your direction.

It would be uncomfortable for you maybe.

 

[KidLife10200]

Have you ever been in that situation?

Yeah but it wasn't uncomfortable lmfao.

 

[Aderonike]

erm i think the statement and your question are two different things.

as far as the statement .......whats the problem?

its the same thing as saying he could get if he wasnt short,dark etc. everyone has a preference

How can someone fall in love with someone they wont fuck with at all? doesnt makes sense .... Now if they chose to give the person a try n fell in love but said they couldnt wife ...thats different and dumb

 

[Moment.of.Silence]

i pretty much dont have a problem with white/black/latina..but not wife an asian..every time she gives head i see every family member of hers ive ever met..and them middle eastern broads be smelling like onion powder..

 

[Conscious__Nkechi]

It comes down to culture and it's great importance, preference and also attraction and lack thereof outside of the black race. I say whatever best fits the individual is what they should do, the next persons life certainly doesn't affect my own, this is just speaking on my behalf. And considering I have never been with a white man nor have I ever been slightly attracted to one, it makes sense for me to say it won't happen. I happen to know myself well enough at this point. Nothing discriminatory about it.

And since it's already been taken there, white folks have been doing this for centuries and do this all the time but when black folks "come out their face" with it, it becomes something of a controversial magnitude. Shocking.

 

[DarcSkies]

I never say never. BUt at this point in my life How I feel now. I could never even date a cave bitch let alone trust and respect one enough to marry.

99 percent of niggas who do arent even running towards love they're running away from black women. I dont hate black women nor do they intimidate me. And therefore I have no need for a cracker in my life.

 

[allreasoned_out]

Imagine dating a white girl for some time and it gets serious and she wants you to meet her parents over dinner.Now you go to this dinner and you the only black person there lol that dinner is going to be very uncomfortable when questions from her parents start flying into your direction.

What questions are you worried about?

If I dated a white woman seriously and there came a time when she wanted me to meet her parents, I wouldn't be worried at all. They should feel blessed that I'm seeing their daughter, and by that stage the GF would have to know that I don't take any racial shit from anyone. Presumably she would warn them in advance. And if they had a problem with me -- given all of the ways that I'm an exemplary person -- I would know that it's about race.

 

[Shuffington]

Yeah... its amazing thread start and I feel you.

Im far less concerned about our differences or what separates us. I'm more concerned about what we have in common or what we can build on.

Thats what it all boils down to for me.