Poly-life or nah...

[Max.]

Yall want an update or nah??

Ya

 

[AP21]

now she wanna get ghost

 

[MoneyPowerRespect]

now she wanna get ghost

Sssshhhhhhhhh..I've been 'lurking'

First and foremost, this situation is old.

I made the decision a few months ago to stay.

The biggest thing that I liked about the D were the dispensaries and the mall. (I don't see how you can beat 3.5g/25..I just don't). But my son is special needs and I'm not going to uproot him, be put back on waiting lists and the shit fall apart. I don't need that sort of bullshit in my life.

The only reason I gave it some that is because he'd be around his siblings and I'd have the help outside of my family.

He and I talked about our relationship because he saw some shit in my phone. It was kinda major, but not really.

His health is getting better and I'm doing what I can to help him (meal planning + we've started working out together).

I cut him a little bit of slack because he hasn't been in a relationship in 5 years. But, there's no excuses at this point.

I'm going to work through it tho.

He's a good man who loves all my kids. Simp or not..I do cherish what we have. If I didn't then the situation wouldn't be so hard to navigate.

 

[MoneyPowerRespect]

look....

a threesome always sounds good until it starts.

poly sounds good...but it can take a turn for the worse very fast.

what if someone piping more or screaming more or cummin more? but the other nigga paying a majority of the bills?

what if feeling get involved ...now somebody only cooking for two when its three of yall.

whos room do you go to when you want to be held?

when you fight...do you run to the other person?

if theres a sound in the middle of the night...who goes to check on it? is there a plan in motion?

who takes the cars for repairs and inspections?

alot of questions......me..i like to know this shit ahead of time.

but i can not say i would be anywhere ok with my wife getting smashed an i know about it. thats the shit that makes niggas shoot from vegas hotels into country music concerts cause im killing up the block. neighbors, kittens, cousins...they all getting it.

but yall should just agree to live together...not be in a relationship. just room mates.

that way no titles....split the rent and a 3am knock on the bedroom door is a maybe.

That's kinda what I see happening but I don't know if I'd be happy with that.

I'd feel like I was taking advantage of him and I'm not going to do that.

 

[lord nemesis]

I started on page 1 and I'm still confused as shit

 

[VIBE]

wait, this thread was made a few days ago but you made up your mind months ago?

 

[Kai]

look....

a threesome always sounds good until it starts.

poly sounds good...but it can take a turn for the worse very fast.

what if someone piping more or screaming more or cummin more? but the other nigga paying a majority of the bills?

what if feeling get involved ...now somebody only cooking for two when its three of yall.

whos room do you go to when you want to be held?

when you fight...do you run to the other person?

if theres a sound in the middle of the night...who goes to check on it? is there a plan in motion?

who takes the cars for repairs and inspections?

alot of questions......me..i like to know this shit ahead of time.

but i can not say i would be anywhere ok with my wife getting smashed an i know about it. thats the shit that makes niggas shoot from vegas hotels into country music concerts cause im killing up the block. neighbors, kittens, cousins...they all getting it.

but yall should just agree to live together...not be in a relationship. just room mates.

that way no titles....split the rent and a 3am knock on the bedroom door is a maybe.

That's kinda what I see happening but I don't know if I'd be happy with that.

I'd feel like I was taking advantage of him and I'm not going to do that.

Are you not sorta taking advantage of him now? Staying because he loves all your kids when you are clearer not in love with or even sexually satisfied by him?

 

[MoneyPowerRespect]

look....

a threesome always sounds good until it starts.

poly sounds good...but it can take a turn for the worse very fast.

what if someone piping more or screaming more or cummin more? but the other nigga paying a majority of the bills?

what if feeling get involved ...now somebody only cooking for two when its three of yall.

whos room do you go to when you want to be held?

when you fight...do you run to the other person?

if theres a sound in the middle of the night...who goes to check on it? is there a plan in motion?

who takes the cars for repairs and inspections?

alot of questions......me..i like to know this shit ahead of time.

but i can not say i would be anywhere ok with my wife getting smashed an i know about it. thats the shit that makes niggas shoot from vegas hotels into country music concerts cause im killing up the block. neighbors, kittens, cousins...they all getting it.

but yall should just agree to live together...not be in a relationship. just room mates.

that way no titles....split the rent and a 3am knock on the bedroom door is a maybe.

That's kinda what I see happening but I don't know if I'd be happy with that.

I'd feel like I was taking advantage of him and I'm not going to do that.

Are you not sorta taking advantage of him now? Staying because he loves all your kids when you are clearer not in love with or even sexually satisfied by him?

I don't take advantage of him financially.

He already knows how I feel about him, our relationship, and the sex.

we aren't 'in love'.

I just made it seem like it was current.

 

[Kai]

i wasn't talking about financially. i'm talking about taking advantage of his kind nature in regards to your kids

this isn't a relationship, it's just a matter of convenience. y'all really need to split, maybe still live together (do you?)

hopefully you already ended it, cuz that shit seems like it'd be depressing as hell

 

[Hevalisk]

But damn, MPR ready to toot that ass up, but this dude wont pipe.

MPR put up a pic of you in a sundress.

 

[MoneyPowerRespect]

But damn, MPR ready to toot that ass up, but this dude wont pipe.

MPR put up a pic of you in a sundress.

@thatboydizz

Drop that heat

 

[Hevalisk]

But damn, MPR ready to toot that ass up, but this dude wont pipe.

MPR put up a pic of you in a sundress.

@thatboydizz

Drop that heat

Ahem, an updated photo, not a blast from a past. You know women get thicker with age.

 

[MoneyPowerRespect]

But damn, MPR ready to toot that ass up, but this dude wont pipe.

MPR put up a pic of you in a sundress.

@thatboydizz

Drop that heat

Ahem, an updated photo, not a blast from a past. You know women get thicker with age.

I tried...

I was pregnant all summer