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Leaving responsibility in her hands ? Doubt it'll work.
Always felt women needed the guidance and for a man to take charge.
You could always tell her to call you at a particular time ..that way you kill two birds with one stone A. If she hits you at that point you know she's fucking with you and B.you now know that she can follow direction/instruction
Yall nggas need to make up your mind...are you playin it cool or do you wanna be a alpha male. How you gon delegate leadership Lol 'You call me at 5pm and i mean it!'
What basic bytches yall talkin to that got the time for phone appointments lllls
How is that delegating leadership when your the one givin the instruction bro bro? What kinda bitch can't carve out 5 mins of her time to call a dude she supposedly "feelin" is a better question ...like I said if a chick can't follow a simple ass hey I'm free at 5 hit me up tmmrw direction coo ... I guess that's asking for too much outta these females for niggas *shrugs* I'd figure y'all niggas would see how direct and to the point that was to a chick ...hardly wishy washy
Theres only 1 way to take charge, so by tellin her to call you, u relinquishing that a lil...then u askin for it back by seein if she follow instructions. ??
Everything u sayin would make sense if men and women were equals, but we're not. Women r not built to hunt. I.e. I used to b on POF. Lol Anybody who's been there will tell u, under 'first date', id say 80% of women say 'let the man choose'. And thats how it should be imo
Not really bro ... The fact of the matter is you can't "take" the pussy ... So already there's only but so much you can control as a man when it comes to initiating intimacy between the two sexes you digg? But you definately can do certain things that will have a female in a state where she shows you that shes more readily willing to "offer" the pussy to you..In every situation the female has to choooooooose you.. So when you put the onus on her to make first phone contact your essentially expediting that choosing procees and eliminating some wasted time ..that's all it is ...lets keep it funky right .. Most females that are worth a damn gone have a couple options if she out here single ..you don't want to be lumped up with the 3 other niggas hittin her up talking bout "hey what chu doin girl" you want your game your approach to stand out ..and you also want to let her know your time is valuable you can't just get me whenever you want especially if we just first meeting.. Nah you can't just get my time like that ...and conversely I damn sure ain't got time to be chasing her down either ...so what we gone do is ima give you my number and you gone call me at ________ and when she does you know it's own and poppin because at that point now it's out there that the interest is mutual ...it weeds out the bullshit
And like I said its not about her being a hunter ...she has your number because YOU initiated conversation YOU initiated the idea of further conversation and its YOU that she's taking instruction from when she hits you... That sounds like a nigga in total control to me
But this is best used in person ..females can't really feel your vibe over the Internet .. She needs to see what your mouthpiece is about directly
I've never used the internet to try and pick up girls I speak from 100% real life experience. I rarely if ever see this working in real life. The approach seems "romantic comedy"eque to me but that's just my opinion.
A lot of females feel awkward having to be the first one to initiate contact.
Can you give me an honest example of when this has worked for you in real life? Most of the chicks I mess with are in the 19-26 year old range so maybe that's where the discrepancy is
but they're not
you approach them first, show interest, then give them your # so they can choose
& think about this,
most fairly attractive females gettin approached by dudes are usually asked for their #.. so when you give them yours instead that right there can set you apart
1)Most fairly attractive women know how to avoid those nggas. #1 tactic being getting his number instead of giving hers
2) Most fairly attractive women have other nggas on the roster. She doesnt 'need' you. If she never calls u her life would go on as planned. The onus is on YOU to sell yourself into the draws. If u don5 have the time to do that, another ngga does. Like me (when single)
Thats all with a 'catch' of a woman. No diss, but im startin g to think yall talkin bout pullin basic broads lol
What are you doing when you meet the chick? You sale yourself in person it's kinda backwards to me if your needing to sake yourself over a phone ... What can happen over a phone call that wouldnt be exponentially highlighted during your first interaction with her in person?
Civic ill get back at you when I'm off the road ... Lol
Once again, in
theory you'd be right
But i'm drawing from experience.
Theres more to it than 'does she like me'. She coulda been tipsy and more bold than usual, could b gettin back w/ her ex, another dude (who calls her) starts to get closer, etc. Women are fickle.
I keep goin back to sales bc it paralells. Have u ever worked sales? You can give a sales pitchh
and have them 90% there then renig. Theres a word for it: apprehension lol SHE JUST MET YOU. You have to sell and resell youself.