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^^^I hear you, but we just gon havr to agree to disagree.

The only way i agree w/ that tactic is if you're trying to find 'the one'. In that case you can afford to lose out on miscellaneous pussy lol

But if you're casually dating trying to meet women, its just like sales, no matter how much a woman is feeling u u must apply game.

Women by nature want/need to be persuaded to do some shyt they wanna do anyway.
 
xxCivicxx;6639154 said:
JDSTAYWITIT.;6638899 said:
S2J;6638722 said:
JDSTAYWITIT.;6636883 said:
S2J;6636253 said:
JDSTAYWITIT.;6636202 said:
Sion;6635889 said:
Leaving responsibility in her hands ? Doubt it'll work.

Always felt women needed the guidance and for a man to take charge.

You could always tell her to call you at a particular time ..that way you kill two birds with one stone A. If she hits you at that point you know she's fucking with you and B.you now know that she can follow direction/instruction

Yall nggas need to make up your mind...are you playin it cool or do you wanna be a alpha male. How you gon delegate leadership Lol 'You call me at 5pm and i mean it!'

What basic bytches yall talkin to that got the time for phone appointments lllls

How is that delegating leadership when your the one givin the instruction bro bro? What kinda bitch can't carve out 5 mins of her time to call a dude she supposedly "feelin" is a better question ...like I said if a chick can't follow a simple ass hey I'm free at 5 hit me up tmmrw direction coo ... I guess that's asking for too much outta these females for niggas *shrugs* I'd figure y'all niggas would see how direct and to the point that was to a chick ...hardly wishy washy

Theres only 1 way to take charge, so by tellin her to call you, u relinquishing that a lil...then u askin for it back by seein if she follow instructions. ??

Everything u sayin would make sense if men and women were equals, but we're not. Women r not built to hunt. I.e. I used to b on POF. Lol Anybody who's been there will tell u, under 'first date', id say 80% of women say 'let the man choose'. And thats how it should be imo

Not really bro ... The fact of the matter is you can't "take" the pussy ... So already there's only but so much you can control as a man when it comes to initiating intimacy between the two sexes you digg? But you definately can do certain things that will have a female in a state where she shows you that shes more readily willing to "offer" the pussy to you..In every situation the female has to choooooooose you.. So when you put the onus on her to make first phone contact your essentially expediting that choosing procees and eliminating some wasted time ..that's all it is ...lets keep it funky right .. Most females that are worth a damn gone have a couple options if she out here single ..you don't want to be lumped up with the 3 other niggas hittin her up talking bout "hey what chu doin girl" you want your game your approach to stand out ..and you also want to let her know your time is valuable you can't just get me whenever you want especially if we just first meeting.. Nah you can't just get my time like that ...and conversely I damn sure ain't got time to be chasing her down either ...so what we gone do is ima give you my number and you gone call me at ________ and when she does you know it's own and poppin because at that point now it's out there that the interest is mutual ...it weeds out the bullshit

And like I said its not about her being a hunter ...she has your number because YOU initiated conversation YOU initiated the idea of further conversation and its YOU that she's taking instruction from when she hits you... That sounds like a nigga in total control to me

But this is best used in person ..females can't really feel your vibe over the Internet .. She needs to see what your mouthpiece is about directly

I've never used the internet to try and pick up girls I speak from 100% real life experience. I rarely if ever see this working in real life. The approach seems "romantic comedy"eque to me but that's just my opinion. A lot of females feel awkward having to be the first one to initiate contact.



Can you give me an honest example of when this has worked for you in real life? Most of the chicks I mess with are in the 19-26 year old range so maybe that's where the discrepancy is

but they're not

you approach them first, show interest, then give them your # so they can choose

& think about this, most fairly attractive females gettin approached by dudes are usually asked for their #.. so when you give them yours instead that right there can set you apart
 
Brian B.;6639599 said:
xxCivicxx;6639154 said:
JDSTAYWITIT.;6638899 said:
S2J;6638722 said:
JDSTAYWITIT.;6636883 said:
S2J;6636253 said:
JDSTAYWITIT.;6636202 said:
Sion;6635889 said:
Leaving responsibility in her hands ? Doubt it'll work.

Always felt women needed the guidance and for a man to take charge.

You could always tell her to call you at a particular time ..that way you kill two birds with one stone A. If she hits you at that point you know she's fucking with you and B.you now know that she can follow direction/instruction

Yall nggas need to make up your mind...are you playin it cool or do you wanna be a alpha male. How you gon delegate leadership Lol 'You call me at 5pm and i mean it!'

What basic bytches yall talkin to that got the time for phone appointments lllls

How is that delegating leadership when your the one givin the instruction bro bro? What kinda bitch can't carve out 5 mins of her time to call a dude she supposedly "feelin" is a better question ...like I said if a chick can't follow a simple ass hey I'm free at 5 hit me up tmmrw direction coo ... I guess that's asking for too much outta these females for niggas *shrugs* I'd figure y'all niggas would see how direct and to the point that was to a chick ...hardly wishy washy

Theres only 1 way to take charge, so by tellin her to call you, u relinquishing that a lil...then u askin for it back by seein if she follow instructions. ??

Everything u sayin would make sense if men and women were equals, but we're not. Women r not built to hunt. I.e. I used to b on POF. Lol Anybody who's been there will tell u, under 'first date', id say 80% of women say 'let the man choose'. And thats how it should be imo

Not really bro ... The fact of the matter is you can't "take" the pussy ... So already there's only but so much you can control as a man when it comes to initiating intimacy between the two sexes you digg? But you definately can do certain things that will have a female in a state where she shows you that shes more readily willing to "offer" the pussy to you..In every situation the female has to choooooooose you.. So when you put the onus on her to make first phone contact your essentially expediting that choosing procees and eliminating some wasted time ..that's all it is ...lets keep it funky right .. Most females that are worth a damn gone have a couple options if she out here single ..you don't want to be lumped up with the 3 other niggas hittin her up talking bout "hey what chu doin girl" you want your game your approach to stand out ..and you also want to let her know your time is valuable you can't just get me whenever you want especially if we just first meeting.. Nah you can't just get my time like that ...and conversely I damn sure ain't got time to be chasing her down either ...so what we gone do is ima give you my number and you gone call me at ________ and when she does you know it's own and poppin because at that point now it's out there that the interest is mutual ...it weeds out the bullshit

And like I said its not about her being a hunter ...she has your number because YOU initiated conversation YOU initiated the idea of further conversation and its YOU that she's taking instruction from when she hits you... That sounds like a nigga in total control to me

But this is best used in person ..females can't really feel your vibe over the Internet .. She needs to see what your mouthpiece is about directly

I've never used the internet to try and pick up girls I speak from 100% real life experience. I rarely if ever see this working in real life. The approach seems "romantic comedy"eque to me but that's just my opinion. A lot of females feel awkward having to be the first one to initiate contact.



Can you give me an honest example of when this has worked for you in real life? Most of the chicks I mess with are in the 19-26 year old range so maybe that's where the discrepancy is

but they're not

you approach them first, show interest, then give them your # so they can choose

& think about this, most fairly attractive females gettin approached by dudes are usually asked for their #.. so when you give them yours instead that right there can set you apart

1)Most fairly attractive women know how to avoid those nggas. #1 tactic being getting his number instead of giving hers

2) Most fairly attractive women have other nggas on the roster. She doesnt 'need' you. If she never calls u her life would go on as planned. The onus is on YOU to sell yourself into the draws. If u don5 have the time to do that, another ngga does. Like me (when single)

Thats all with a 'catch' of a woman. No diss, but im startin g to think yall talkin bout pullin basic broads lol

 
S2J;6639725 said:
Brian B.;6639599 said:
xxCivicxx;6639154 said:
JDSTAYWITIT.;6638899 said:
S2J;6638722 said:
JDSTAYWITIT.;6636883 said:
S2J;6636253 said:
JDSTAYWITIT.;6636202 said:
Sion;6635889 said:
Leaving responsibility in her hands ? Doubt it'll work.

Always felt women needed the guidance and for a man to take charge.

You could always tell her to call you at a particular time ..that way you kill two birds with one stone A. If she hits you at that point you know she's fucking with you and B.you now know that she can follow direction/instruction

Yall nggas need to make up your mind...are you playin it cool or do you wanna be a alpha male. How you gon delegate leadership Lol 'You call me at 5pm and i mean it!'

What basic bytches yall talkin to that got the time for phone appointments lllls

How is that delegating leadership when your the one givin the instruction bro bro? What kinda bitch can't carve out 5 mins of her time to call a dude she supposedly "feelin" is a better question ...like I said if a chick can't follow a simple ass hey I'm free at 5 hit me up tmmrw direction coo ... I guess that's asking for too much outta these females for niggas *shrugs* I'd figure y'all niggas would see how direct and to the point that was to a chick ...hardly wishy washy

Theres only 1 way to take charge, so by tellin her to call you, u relinquishing that a lil...then u askin for it back by seein if she follow instructions. ??

Everything u sayin would make sense if men and women were equals, but we're not. Women r not built to hunt. I.e. I used to b on POF. Lol Anybody who's been there will tell u, under 'first date', id say 80% of women say 'let the man choose'. And thats how it should be imo

Not really bro ... The fact of the matter is you can't "take" the pussy ... So already there's only but so much you can control as a man when it comes to initiating intimacy between the two sexes you digg? But you definately can do certain things that will have a female in a state where she shows you that shes more readily willing to "offer" the pussy to you..In every situation the female has to choooooooose you.. So when you put the onus on her to make first phone contact your essentially expediting that choosing procees and eliminating some wasted time ..that's all it is ...lets keep it funky right .. Most females that are worth a damn gone have a couple options if she out here single ..you don't want to be lumped up with the 3 other niggas hittin her up talking bout "hey what chu doin girl" you want your game your approach to stand out ..and you also want to let her know your time is valuable you can't just get me whenever you want especially if we just first meeting.. Nah you can't just get my time like that ...and conversely I damn sure ain't got time to be chasing her down either ...so what we gone do is ima give you my number and you gone call me at ________ and when she does you know it's own and poppin because at that point now it's out there that the interest is mutual ...it weeds out the bullshit

And like I said its not about her being a hunter ...she has your number because YOU initiated conversation YOU initiated the idea of further conversation and its YOU that she's taking instruction from when she hits you... That sounds like a nigga in total control to me

But this is best used in person ..females can't really feel your vibe over the Internet .. She needs to see what your mouthpiece is about directly

I've never used the internet to try and pick up girls I speak from 100% real life experience. I rarely if ever see this working in real life. The approach seems "romantic comedy"eque to me but that's just my opinion. A lot of females feel awkward having to be the first one to initiate contact.



Can you give me an honest example of when this has worked for you in real life? Most of the chicks I mess with are in the 19-26 year old range so maybe that's where the discrepancy is

but they're not

you approach them first, show interest, then give them your # so they can choose

& think about this, most fairly attractive females gettin approached by dudes are usually asked for their #.. so when you give them yours instead that right there can set you apart

1)Most fairly attractive women know how to avoid those nggas. #1 tactic being getting his number instead of giving hers

2) Most fairly attractive women have other nggas on the roster. She doesnt 'need' you. If she never calls u her life would go on as planned. The onus is on YOU to sell yourself into the draws. If u don5 have the time to do that, another ngga does. Like me (when single)

Thats all with a 'catch' of a woman. No diss, but im startin g to think yall talkin bout pullin basic broads lol

What are you doing when you meet the chick? You sale yourself in person it's kinda backwards to me if your needing to sake yourself over a phone ... What can happen over a phone call that wouldnt be exponentially highlighted during your first interaction with her in person?

Civic ill get back at you when I'm off the road ... Lol
 
JDSTAYWITIT.;6639984 said:
S2J;6639725 said:
Brian B.;6639599 said:
xxCivicxx;6639154 said:
JDSTAYWITIT.;6638899 said:
S2J;6638722 said:
JDSTAYWITIT.;6636883 said:
S2J;6636253 said:
JDSTAYWITIT.;6636202 said:
Sion;6635889 said:
Leaving responsibility in her hands ? Doubt it'll work.

Always felt women needed the guidance and for a man to take charge.

You could always tell her to call you at a particular time ..that way you kill two birds with one stone A. If she hits you at that point you know she's fucking with you and B.you now know that she can follow direction/instruction

Yall nggas need to make up your mind...are you playin it cool or do you wanna be a alpha male. How you gon delegate leadership Lol 'You call me at 5pm and i mean it!'

What basic bytches yall talkin to that got the time for phone appointments lllls

How is that delegating leadership when your the one givin the instruction bro bro? What kinda bitch can't carve out 5 mins of her time to call a dude she supposedly "feelin" is a better question ...like I said if a chick can't follow a simple ass hey I'm free at 5 hit me up tmmrw direction coo ... I guess that's asking for too much outta these females for niggas *shrugs* I'd figure y'all niggas would see how direct and to the point that was to a chick ...hardly wishy washy

Theres only 1 way to take charge, so by tellin her to call you, u relinquishing that a lil...then u askin for it back by seein if she follow instructions. ??

Everything u sayin would make sense if men and women were equals, but we're not. Women r not built to hunt. I.e. I used to b on POF. Lol Anybody who's been there will tell u, under 'first date', id say 80% of women say 'let the man choose'. And thats how it should be imo

Not really bro ... The fact of the matter is you can't "take" the pussy ... So already there's only but so much you can control as a man when it comes to initiating intimacy between the two sexes you digg? But you definately can do certain things that will have a female in a state where she shows you that shes more readily willing to "offer" the pussy to you..In every situation the female has to choooooooose you.. So when you put the onus on her to make first phone contact your essentially expediting that choosing procees and eliminating some wasted time ..that's all it is ...lets keep it funky right .. Most females that are worth a damn gone have a couple options if she out here single ..you don't want to be lumped up with the 3 other niggas hittin her up talking bout "hey what chu doin girl" you want your game your approach to stand out ..and you also want to let her know your time is valuable you can't just get me whenever you want especially if we just first meeting.. Nah you can't just get my time like that ...and conversely I damn sure ain't got time to be chasing her down either ...so what we gone do is ima give you my number and you gone call me at ________ and when she does you know it's own and poppin because at that point now it's out there that the interest is mutual ...it weeds out the bullshit

And like I said its not about her being a hunter ...she has your number because YOU initiated conversation YOU initiated the idea of further conversation and its YOU that she's taking instruction from when she hits you... That sounds like a nigga in total control to me

But this is best used in person ..females can't really feel your vibe over the Internet .. She needs to see what your mouthpiece is about directly

I've never used the internet to try and pick up girls I speak from 100% real life experience. I rarely if ever see this working in real life. The approach seems "romantic comedy"eque to me but that's just my opinion. A lot of females feel awkward having to be the first one to initiate contact.



Can you give me an honest example of when this has worked for you in real life? Most of the chicks I mess with are in the 19-26 year old range so maybe that's where the discrepancy is

but they're not

you approach them first, show interest, then give them your # so they can choose

& think about this, most fairly attractive females gettin approached by dudes are usually asked for their #.. so when you give them yours instead that right there can set you apart

1)Most fairly attractive women know how to avoid those nggas. #1 tactic being getting his number instead of giving hers

2) Most fairly attractive women have other nggas on the roster. She doesnt 'need' you. If she never calls u her life would go on as planned. The onus is on YOU to sell yourself into the draws. If u don5 have the time to do that, another ngga does. Like me (when single)

Thats all with a 'catch' of a woman. No diss, but im startin g to think yall talkin bout pullin basic broads lol

What are you doing when you meet the chick? You sale yourself in person it's kinda backwards to me if your needing to sake yourself over a phone ... What can happen over a phone call that wouldnt be exponentially highlighted during your first interaction with her in person?

Civic ill get back at you when I'm off the road ... Lol

Once again, in theory you'd be right

But i'm drawing from experience.

Theres more to it than 'does she like me'. She coulda been tipsy and more bold than usual, could b gettin back w/ her ex, another dude (who calls her) starts to get closer, etc. Women are fickle.

I keep goin back to sales bc it paralells. Have u ever worked sales? You can give a sales pitchh

and have them 90% there then renig. Theres a word for it: apprehension lol SHE JUST MET YOU. You have to sell and resell youself.
 
Man jo please stop this shit. If the nigga cant get a number or whatever he trying to accomplish my nigga jump on the world wide web gotdammit, get on xnxx.com search big booty hoes, and say fuck it my nigga. you aint gotta have new nookie every night big homie
 
S2J;6640356 said:
JDSTAYWITIT.;6639984 said:
S2J;6639725 said:
Brian B.;6639599 said:
xxCivicxx;6639154 said:
JDSTAYWITIT.;6638899 said:
S2J;6638722 said:
JDSTAYWITIT.;6636883 said:
S2J;6636253 said:
JDSTAYWITIT.;6636202 said:
Sion;6635889 said:
Leaving responsibility in her hands ? Doubt it'll work.

Always felt women needed the guidance and for a man to take charge.

You could always tell her to call you at a particular time ..that way you kill two birds with one stone A. If she hits you at that point you know she's fucking with you and B.you now know that she can follow direction/instruction

Yall nggas need to make up your mind...are you playin it cool or do you wanna be a alpha male. How you gon delegate leadership Lol 'You call me at 5pm and i mean it!'

What basic bytches yall talkin to that got the time for phone appointments lllls

How is that delegating leadership when your the one givin the instruction bro bro? What kinda bitch can't carve out 5 mins of her time to call a dude she supposedly "feelin" is a better question ...like I said if a chick can't follow a simple ass hey I'm free at 5 hit me up tmmrw direction coo ... I guess that's asking for too much outta these females for niggas *shrugs* I'd figure y'all niggas would see how direct and to the point that was to a chick ...hardly wishy washy

Theres only 1 way to take charge, so by tellin her to call you, u relinquishing that a lil...then u askin for it back by seein if she follow instructions. ??

Everything u sayin would make sense if men and women were equals, but we're not. Women r not built to hunt. I.e. I used to b on POF. Lol Anybody who's been there will tell u, under 'first date', id say 80% of women say 'let the man choose'. And thats how it should be imo

Not really bro ... The fact of the matter is you can't "take" the pussy ... So already there's only but so much you can control as a man when it comes to initiating intimacy between the two sexes you digg? But you definately can do certain things that will have a female in a state where she shows you that shes more readily willing to "offer" the pussy to you..In every situation the female has to choooooooose you.. So when you put the onus on her to make first phone contact your essentially expediting that choosing procees and eliminating some wasted time ..that's all it is ...lets keep it funky right .. Most females that are worth a damn gone have a couple options if she out here single ..you don't want to be lumped up with the 3 other niggas hittin her up talking bout "hey what chu doin girl" you want your game your approach to stand out ..and you also want to let her know your time is valuable you can't just get me whenever you want especially if we just first meeting.. Nah you can't just get my time like that ...and conversely I damn sure ain't got time to be chasing her down either ...so what we gone do is ima give you my number and you gone call me at ________ and when she does you know it's own and poppin because at that point now it's out there that the interest is mutual ...it weeds out the bullshit

And like I said its not about her being a hunter ...she has your number because YOU initiated conversation YOU initiated the idea of further conversation and its YOU that she's taking instruction from when she hits you... That sounds like a nigga in total control to me

But this is best used in person ..females can't really feel your vibe over the Internet .. She needs to see what your mouthpiece is about directly

I've never used the internet to try and pick up girls I speak from 100% real life experience. I rarely if ever see this working in real life. The approach seems "romantic comedy"eque to me but that's just my opinion. A lot of females feel awkward having to be the first one to initiate contact.



Can you give me an honest example of when this has worked for you in real life? Most of the chicks I mess with are in the 19-26 year old range so maybe that's where the discrepancy is

but they're not

you approach them first, show interest, then give them your # so they can choose

& think about this, most fairly attractive females gettin approached by dudes are usually asked for their #.. so when you give them yours instead that right there can set you apart

1)Most fairly attractive women know how to avoid those nggas. #1 tactic being getting his number instead of giving hers

2) Most fairly attractive women have other nggas on the roster. She doesnt 'need' you. If she never calls u her life would go on as planned. The onus is on YOU to sell yourself into the draws. If u don5 have the time to do that, another ngga does. Like me (when single)

Thats all with a 'catch' of a woman. No diss, but im startin g to think yall talkin bout pullin basic broads lol

What are you doing when you meet the chick? You sale yourself in person it's kinda backwards to me if your needing to sake yourself over a phone ... What can happen over a phone call that wouldnt be exponentially highlighted during your first interaction with her in person?

Civic ill get back at you when I'm off the road ... Lol

Once again, in theory you'd be right

But i'm drawing from experience.

Theres more to it than 'does she like me'. She coulda been tipsy and more bold than usual, could b gettin back w/ her ex, another dude (who calls her) starts to get closer, etc. Women are fickle.

I keep goin back to sales bc it paralells. Have u ever worked sales? You can give a sales pitchh

and have them 90% there then renig. Theres a word for it: apprehension lol SHE JUST MET YOU. You have to sell and resell youself.

Apprehension? Nigga what is this bitch a high schooler? Lol ...listen bruh a broad meet you and she feelin you ain't no real bitch bout to be out here talking about "oh yeah girl I met this guy yesterday he was so nice and charming ...I really want to know more about him but I can't call him tho IM APPREHENSIVE" lol ..blood foh ... These females know what they want especially when they meet someone they fuckin with ...they may FRONT like they dont but they do...at the same time tho if she want to be on some "apprehensive" shit ..that's all coo but she can keep her ass away from me with that weirdo shit ...that's just goofy as fuck to me if you a grown ass woman and you can't call a dude you interested in??!? ...I ain't got no time for that my nigga

But that's just me and where I'm at ... I'm not worried about baggin everything movin ..so I don't trip off the excess pussy i may lose ... I rather get a chick that's cooperative

How old are you by the way bruh?
 
Hahaha Hey,i dnt make the rules or these chicks, but they exist.

Im 31,wifed up now but when i was out there not long ago i WAS tryin to murder everything movin Lol But still quality (i love Dc)

But yea it all comes down to preference. I tried the 'give her my business card' approach, and yea they called, but that just aint me.

Im like Mitch in Paid in Full, 'i love the game, i love the hustle.'
 
Man i got a lot of stories about conquests that never woulda happened if i didnt apply pressure...
 
S2J;6641113 said:
Hahaha Hey,i dnt make the rules or these chicks, but they exist.

Im 31,wifed up now but when i was out there not long ago i WAS tryin to murder everything movin Lol But still quality (i love Dc)

But yea it all comes down to preference. I tried the 'give her my business card' approach, and yea they called, but that just aint me.

Im like Mitch in Paid in Full, 'i love the game, i love the hustle.'

Until "the one" shits on you like you did when you was hitting everybody in sight, you gone be like money mitch in the car then LOL

"A yo a, anybody that looked at me wrong is fuckin dead b"
 
armagod;6641144 said:
S2J;6641113 said:
Hahaha Hey,i dnt make the rules or these chicks, but they exist.

Im 31,wifed up now but when i was out there not long ago i WAS tryin to murder everything movin Lol But still quality (i love Dc)

But yea it all comes down to preference. I tried the 'give her my business card' approach, and yea they called, but that just aint me.

Im like Mitch in Paid in Full, 'i love the game, i love the hustle.'

Until "the one" shits on you like you did when you was hitting everybody in sight, you gone be like money mitch in the car then LOL

"A yo a, anybody that looked at me wrong is fuckin dead b"

Lmaoooo

'Yo im bout to b on some real murda shyt, b'
 
JDSTAYWITIT.;6640935 said:
S2J;6640356 said:
JDSTAYWITIT.;6639984 said:
S2J;6639725 said:
Brian B.;6639599 said:
xxCivicxx;6639154 said:
JDSTAYWITIT.;6638899 said:
S2J;6638722 said:
JDSTAYWITIT.;6636883 said:
S2J;6636253 said:
JDSTAYWITIT.;6636202 said:
Sion;6635889 said:
Leaving responsibility in her hands ? Doubt it'll work.

Always felt women needed the guidance and for a man to take charge.

You could always tell her to call you at a particular time ..that way you kill two birds with one stone A. If she hits you at that point you know she's fucking with you and B.you now know that she can follow direction/instruction

Yall nggas need to make up your mind...are you playin it cool or do you wanna be a alpha male. How you gon delegate leadership Lol 'You call me at 5pm and i mean it!'

What basic bytches yall talkin to that got the time for phone appointments lllls

How is that delegating leadership when your the one givin the instruction bro bro? What kinda bitch can't carve out 5 mins of her time to call a dude she supposedly "feelin" is a better question ...like I said if a chick can't follow a simple ass hey I'm free at 5 hit me up tmmrw direction coo ... I guess that's asking for too much outta these females for niggas *shrugs* I'd figure y'all niggas would see how direct and to the point that was to a chick ...hardly wishy washy

Theres only 1 way to take charge, so by tellin her to call you, u relinquishing that a lil...then u askin for it back by seein if she follow instructions. ??

Everything u sayin would make sense if men and women were equals, but we're not. Women r not built to hunt. I.e. I used to b on POF. Lol Anybody who's been there will tell u, under 'first date', id say 80% of women say 'let the man choose'. And thats how it should be imo

Not really bro ... The fact of the matter is you can't "take" the pussy ... So already there's only but so much you can control as a man when it comes to initiating intimacy between the two sexes you digg? But you definately can do certain things that will have a female in a state where she shows you that shes more readily willing to "offer" the pussy to you..In every situation the female has to choooooooose you.. So when you put the onus on her to make first phone contact your essentially expediting that choosing procees and eliminating some wasted time ..that's all it is ...lets keep it funky right .. Most females that are worth a damn gone have a couple options if she out here single ..you don't want to be lumped up with the 3 other niggas hittin her up talking bout "hey what chu doin girl" you want your game your approach to stand out ..and you also want to let her know your time is valuable you can't just get me whenever you want especially if we just first meeting.. Nah you can't just get my time like that ...and conversely I damn sure ain't got time to be chasing her down either ...so what we gone do is ima give you my number and you gone call me at ________ and when she does you know it's own and poppin because at that point now it's out there that the interest is mutual ...it weeds out the bullshit

And like I said its not about her being a hunter ...she has your number because YOU initiated conversation YOU initiated the idea of further conversation and its YOU that she's taking instruction from when she hits you... That sounds like a nigga in total control to me

But this is best used in person ..females can't really feel your vibe over the Internet .. She needs to see what your mouthpiece is about directly

I've never used the internet to try and pick up girls I speak from 100% real life experience. I rarely if ever see this working in real life. The approach seems "romantic comedy"eque to me but that's just my opinion. A lot of females feel awkward having to be the first one to initiate contact.



Can you give me an honest example of when this has worked for you in real life? Most of the chicks I mess with are in the 19-26 year old range so maybe that's where the discrepancy is

but they're not

you approach them first, show interest, then give them your # so they can choose

& think about this, most fairly attractive females gettin approached by dudes are usually asked for their #.. so when you give them yours instead that right there can set you apart

1)Most fairly attractive women know how to avoid those nggas. #1 tactic being getting his number instead of giving hers

2) Most fairly attractive women have other nggas on the roster. She doesnt 'need' you. If she never calls u her life would go on as planned. The onus is on YOU to sell yourself into the draws. If u don5 have the time to do that, another ngga does. Like me (when single)

Thats all with a 'catch' of a woman. No diss, but im startin g to think yall talkin bout pullin basic broads lol

What are you doing when you meet the chick? You sale yourself in person it's kinda backwards to me if your needing to sake yourself over a phone ... What can happen over a phone call that wouldnt be exponentially highlighted during your first interaction with her in person?

Civic ill get back at you when I'm off the road ... Lol

Once again, in theory you'd be right

But i'm drawing from experience.

Theres more to it than 'does she like me'. She coulda been tipsy and more bold than usual, could b gettin back w/ her ex, another dude (who calls her) starts to get closer, etc. Women are fickle.

I keep goin back to sales bc it paralells. Have u ever worked sales? You can give a sales pitchh

and have them 90% there then renig. Theres a word for it: apprehension lol SHE JUST MET YOU. You have to sell and resell youself.

Apprehension? Nigga what is this bitch a high schooler? Lol ...listen bruh a broad meet you and she feelin you ain't no real bitch bout to be out here talking about "oh yeah girl I met this guy yesterday he was so nice and charming ...I really want to know more about him but I can't call him tho IM APPREHENSIVE" lol ..blood foh ... These females know what they want especially when they meet someone they fuckin with ...they may FRONT like they dont but they do...at the same time tho if she want to be on some "apprehensive" shit ..that's all coo but she can keep her ass away from me with that weirdo shit ...that's just goofy as fuck to me if you a grown ass woman and you can't call a dude you interested in??!? ...I ain't got no time for that my nigga

But that's just me and where I'm at ... I'm not worried about baggin everything movin ..so I don't trip off the excess pussy i may lose ... I rather get a chick that's cooperative

How old are you by the way bruh?

C/s the only hoes that i think would be on that type of shit are the ones that are still living with their parents and asking for lunch money every morning
 
For real tho it depend on the female, we got a mix of generations raising kids so there will be a mix of views and approaches that work, imo old and young junts claim they like a nigga in charge so ima say asking for the number is the best way...
 
Example:

Day party few yrs ago. Bag a shorty at 3pm. Shes a congressional aide. Shes talkin gettin up for drinks and goin to some expensive restaurant 'sometime next wrekend'. Im like suuure. But a lil later i hit her up, talk her into goin out, we have a ball, i smash THAT NIGHT. None of that happens if i tell her 'call me'.

 
I'm fully convinced that a majority of male IC posters ain't never had pussy

based on these responses :(

the chase is the best part IMO
 
S2J;6641113 said:
Hahaha Hey,i dnt make the rules or these chicks, but they exist.

Im 31,wifed up now but when i was out there not long ago i WAS tryin to murder everything movin Lol But still quality (i love Dc)

But yea it all comes down to preference. I tried the 'give her my business card' approach, and yea they called, but that just aint me.

Im like Mitch in Paid in Full, 'i love the game, i love the hustle.'

I should wack the shit out of this post ...nigga spent two pages disagreeing with me just to put this shit up ..lmao fuckin asshole

But I damn near gotta give you a goat for the money Mitch quote tho ...

"I be feelin like one of them ball playing niggas or something ... Yeah I could leave the game ... But will the fans still love me?"
 
Lol I never said it didnt work, i just said its the lesser of approaches.

I.e. lets say the both of us bag the same chick, same night (bc that happens, ya know) She feelin both us equally. I get the number, you give her yours.

I call her the next day set up brunch/dinner, whatever. Ngga you're done. Lol thanks for playin. Hit the showers. Before she's had the chance to even call you i got the drop on her. Done established rapport, got one foot in the puss. Now she wont even call u b/c she wouldnt even feel right.

If you had the number thats when she'd hit you wit 'im kinda talkin to somebody right now' Lol I know the game man
 
This whole thread is kinda pointless b/c when i get a female number i call it as soon as i get it so she gets mine right bacc then hit her up later simple as that... who jus takes/gives their number and walks away
 
blu197;6641756 said:
This whole thread is kinda pointless b/c when i get a female number i call it as soon as i get it so she gets mine right bacc then hit her up later simple as that... who jus takes/gives their number and walks away

@jdstaywitit can answer this.
 

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