JDSTAYWITIT
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S2J;6641789 said:
These niggas propose the dumbest questions blood ...
"Who gets a number and walks off"
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Oh I don't know ...regular ass niggas? What kind of question is this..lol
These niggas propose the dumbest questions blood ...
"Who gets a number and walks off"
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Oh I don't know ...regular ass niggas? What kind of question is this..lol
JDSTAYWITIT
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S2J;6641622 said:
Then I'm talking to the next bitch ...cos she wasnt the only bitch at the club .. lol .. or I'm doing something else ...
Like I don't even understand what this post is supposed to mean ...what did I lose out on here? A chance to go and buy her eggs benidict for her? ... I mean if what I had to say to her wasn't enough to get my foot in the door than that's just what it is .. I'm not tripping off that
Now since you want to give examples let's flip it ..
Same situation ..but let's say I also call her and we set something up as well ...now either the chick is going to choose one of us ..and again thats going to be based on what happened when we initially talked to each other ... Or if she's an opportunistic bitch she gone ride both our dumbasses out and pit us in some "competition" where she's the only one gaining something out of it ...
Nigga I'm way coo off all of that ..you can have that you feel me
blakfyahking
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JDSTAYWITIT.;6641847 said:
it should self-explanatory tho
do you like winning easy games all the time?
the chase is what makes actually getting it even better
JDSTAYWITIT
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blakfyahking;6641947 said:
So let me see If I'm following ... you actively say to yourself .. lets make a relatively simple process more difficult purposely .....because ............??? No real reason
Sounds like you just be out here bored with these females my dude ..and out of that boredom you gotta create an aspect thats interesting enough to hold your attention ..because the chick that your bagging can't hold your interest herself
Now that's deep..
By the way I like blowouts .. Especially if I'm the victor ..I'll take that every time
blakfyahking
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JDSTAYWITIT.;6641989 said:
bruh you looking way too deep with it unnecessarily
shorty doesn't necessarily have to play games or be difficult on purpose
but there used to be a time where you had to give some sort of effort if the female was actually about something
the logic of having her call you is some beta male shit IMO.......niggaz don't even want to take a risk of being rejected when there is glory in actually going after what you want
if we talking about player shit, real players go after what's not easily attainable
SMH @ being on "her" time when she calls you
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JDSTAYWITIT
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blakfyahking;6642043 said:
You initiate talking to her
You give her your number
.... But yet your afraid of rejection?
Alright OG...
Y'all niggas make it seem like having a female hit you is equivalent to asking her to part the Red Sea or to resolve the conflict between Palestine and Israel .... Lol
"Ahhhh nah young fella you can't havs no womans picking up dat phone ... Dat dere is a delicate creature ... She may sprain an index finger ... What chu gone do wit a woman that got a sprained index finger young blood!?!!!"
blakfyahking
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no sir......don't act like that isn't a slick way to allow a female to reject you nicely if she ain't interested
if you really want shorty and you actually have a life, then you would actually prefer to call her on your time
SMH @ giving a random female your number and hoping she doesn't trash it or pass it along to her ugly friend
if you really want to smash you just gon wait until she call you to find out the answer if she is truly interested?
I'd rather find out at the beginning what's up when she gives me her number
plus you cool with just anybody having your number?
you cool with her dictating the timing of your initial convo?
if you really want shorty and you actually have a life, then you would actually prefer to call her on your time
SMH @ giving a random female your number and hoping she doesn't trash it or pass it along to her ugly friend
if you really want to smash you just gon wait until she call you to find out the answer if she is truly interested?
I'd rather find out at the beginning what's up when she gives me her number
plus you cool with just anybody having your number?
you cool with her dictating the timing of your initial convo?
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JDSTAYWITIT
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blakfyahking;6642114 said:
Nah man .. We had this conversation already .. When you give her the number you tell her when to call .. IE " oh ok coo you free on Fridays ..well look I'm going to be open around 6 so give me a call then and I'll something set up for us" ...ain't no numbers erring exchaned unless we already vibing
Simple shit tho ... 1.You setting a precedent that you ain't wit people waistung your time ..including her little pretty ass ...2.your seeing if she can follow instruction early ..and 3.your getting conformation that the interest is mutual
Nigga that's like 3 birds with one stone ...now nigga that's efficiency ...I like efficiency .... Don't you like efficiency? ...everybody like efficiency!!!
Lol ...but I've went back and forth on this shit for a min now ...end of the day do what works for you I guess
blakfyahking
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that's my point tho fam
if shorty ain't with it........then now some random potential bird got your number
or worse, her jealous nigga blowing up your phone on some sucka shit
shit changes too much for me to let her set up an appt like that.....I'd rather the ball be in my court
but of course do your thing if you are a man of leisure like that haha
if shorty ain't with it........then now some random potential bird got your number
or worse, her jealous nigga blowing up your phone on some sucka shit
shit changes too much for me to let her set up an appt like that.....I'd rather the ball be in my court
but of course do your thing if you are a man of leisure like that haha
JDSTAYWITIT.;6641861 said:
Dumb ass nigga, my point was when u ask a girl for the number most niggas in this day n age jus type it in their phone as she's giving u the number then call it so she gets urs right then n there also.. (unless u gettin numbers online or sum shit)...
If I'm feeling a girl why would I take her number w/o giving her mines or give her mines w/o taking hers??
Tommy_Milfhitta
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S2J;6641622 said:
@S2J
I like the scenario u put up. Although I think the 1st contact (intro) will determine heavily which direction she will steer. Suppose I leave a great impression on her and slide her my number. I know for certain IF she hits me up then (1) the interest is mutual (2) I no longer need to waste time trying to impress her because I already know where she stands (3) I don't have to be "potential nigga #5" who is busy texting her trying to set up dates competing with 4 other niggas (if she a real bad chick, it's nothing for a chick to have at least 1-10 niggas trying to holler at her DAILY)
So lets use ur scenario. Say we both hit her up same night and leave the same impression. Maybe u might "appear" to have a upper hand because u took her number and did the follow up promptly. You right fam,It might be a wrap for me if u come correct wen u see her the 2nd time. It may happen that shorty won't hit me up anymore but it's cool tho. The course of my life will not be altered in any way, shape or form. I'll just keep it moving, I'll probably even forget I gave her my number after 4 days coz I wud have interacted with a few other girls within that 4 days anyway, so really it's not a loss.
BUT ON THE FLIPSIDE
It could work to my advantage if u fuck up on ur 1st date. How? Okay so if me and u were her strongest potentials and then u go and bore her to death on ur date with ur dry ass convo's, corny jokes and all that weak shit that lame niggas do then trust me bruh.. I'm gonna be ahead of the pack. She will start to be even more curious about me and if she is a go-getter then she is gonna holla at me, since she has my number. She knows I can't hit her up coz I don't have her number. She will question herself if its really worth getting in contact with u and when she has finally decided to hit u up then by then u got a girl who has put enough thought in her decisions to put me in a "better position" as far as game strategy is concerned.
Meanwhile....I'm just going about my life, enjoying life with no fucks given whilst all of these things are happening behind the scenes.. And then suddenly I get a text that reads as follows...
"Hey Tommy, it's Melissa.. We met @ Footlocker the other day, how u been?
"Just sayin...
Don't know if anybody suggested this (didn't read thru) but, why not just take a pic with the chick and exchange the info while sharing the pics ....... These smart phones make this shit so easy .....talking & sharing phone features, apps, and then pics & info ...... can't remember the last time I sparked a convo with a chick who didn't have her phone with her ......
Tommy_Milfhitta
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blu197;6642171 said:
@blu197
My nigga u missing the point. Okay, so u took her number and she got urs...SO WHAT?? As far as I'm concerned u are in no better position than the guy who just took her number and dipped. The whole point of this is getting what YOU want whilst eliminating as much bullshit and petty games as possible! Like what @JDSTAYWITIT said.. U are basically hitting at least 3 birds with one stone! Whilst niggas are texting back and forth and calling these broads, just to get a "feel" if shorty likes them, niggas that gave their number can casually go about their daily business and when that call/text come through then u have already jumped at least 3 hurdles.
So the fact that u take her number and give her urs same time really means NOTHING bruh...coz she knows u have her number so she will expect u to do what every other nigga does, hit her up 1st. If she is the only one with the number then she will HAVE TO get in touch with u if she is about it. It's basically just finding out where u stand with minimal effort
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Tommy_Milfhitta
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mecca1000;6642205 said:
Bruh...
^^^Yes. These nggas act like there's bonus points for playin it cool!?
Ngga the objective is the broad. If you dont care, then beat it, ngga lol 'What u doin in the 3rd lane, get over'
U know what we need...a visual. Lets say this is the chick we talkin:
(Im in DC, this is not far fetched!)
So yall nggas tellin me if u put in work talkin to her, you'd feel no type of way lettin the night pass w/no way to contact her...'oh well, no fuks given?'
Bullshyt. You. Are. Lying. And if u say 'well that chick is different', it proves what i thought all along, yall talkin baggin BASIC BYTCHES.
Ngga the objective is the broad. If you dont care, then beat it, ngga lol 'What u doin in the 3rd lane, get over'
U know what we need...a visual. Lets say this is the chick we talkin:
(Im in DC, this is not far fetched!)
So yall nggas tellin me if u put in work talkin to her, you'd feel no type of way lettin the night pass w/no way to contact her...'oh well, no fuks given?'
Bullshyt. You. Are. Lying. And if u say 'well that chick is different', it proves what i thought all along, yall talkin baggin BASIC BYTCHES.
CHICAGO_BREED
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@s2j
ok lets go with your logic brethren. So say you get her number, which she probably got those hoes already pre written, and you call her, how many numbers do you think she passed out that night? Most likely the other 53 niggas thinking like you and gets her number. And you talking basic bitches, if this chick wasnt all on the internet she'd be a basic bitch too. And if you put in work and you made such a magical impression giving your number and she call will just seal the deal and a nigga feeling like HERCULES. But make sure you get that cash advance loan cause she bout that GWAP.
ok lets go with your logic brethren. So say you get her number, which she probably got those hoes already pre written, and you call her, how many numbers do you think she passed out that night? Most likely the other 53 niggas thinking like you and gets her number. And you talking basic bitches, if this chick wasnt all on the internet she'd be a basic bitch too. And if you put in work and you made such a magical impression giving your number and she call will just seal the deal and a nigga feeling like HERCULES. But make sure you get that cash advance loan cause she bout that GWAP.
CHICAGO_BREED;6642955 said:@s2j
ok lets go with your logic brethren. So say you get her number, which she probably got those hoes already pre written, and you call her, how many numbers do you think she passed out that night? Most likely the other 53 niggas thinking like you and gets her number. And you talking basic bitches, if this chick wasnt all on the internet she'd be a basic bitch too. And if you put in work and you made such a magical impression giving your number and she call will just seal the deal and a nigga feeling like HERCULES. But make sure you get that cash advance loan cause she bout that GWAP.
Why are you putting so much emphasis on the club tho? You need to go out during the day and actually try and pull when alcohol isn't in the picture. I pull females all time of the day at a number of different locations in the are that I live in(midtown atl). A lot of the females that I talk to came through my job and I wound up asking them out. If I'm in the club the goal is to pull someone that night, fuck a phone number.
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CHICAGO_BREED
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yea i know man. I rather pull a chick while shopping at petco. Tell you the truth i dont even like talking to a chick at a club i rather see her ass at waffle house because her head to big in that club environment. And my nigga i want to come to atlanta sooo bad, i was there as a shorty and when i say i seen so many fine black women it was ridiculous. A dude told me tho that the ratio is high too because of all the fags
yea i know man. I rather pull a chick while shopping at petco. Tell you the truth i dont even like talking to a chick at a club i rather see her ass at waffle house because her head to big in that club environment. And my nigga i want to come to atlanta sooo bad, i was there as a shorty and when i say i seen so many fine black women it was ridiculous. A dude told me tho that the ratio is high too because of all the fags
